Originally posted by: Indira12
@UL - Tum khud Ani ke baaton se contradict kar rahe ho, Faja 🤪 The first thing that Ani says upon seeing the patrawali ladki's letter was that he might need her support and saath more than the support and saath Bon needs from him.
@Italics - Aur kitni baar bas Ani ki pain ki pain ki hee baat ki jayegi? Isn't that being told a thousand times over? Isn't that being appreciated? Most importantly, isn't that being SHOWN? Was for a single time Bon's pain explicitly shown? Or talked about?
I referred to the pain of the marriage dissolution, of the sacrifice. But if the previous tracks are being talked about, like Ani losing his love of life for Bon, I disagree with the saying that Bon's pain got diluted that time. No, that's not the case. Bon had to leave her only universe then, her Maa, to stay with Ani. If a 20 year-old adult had to deal with the pain of leaving his lifelong love, a 8 year old girl had to deal with the pain of leaving her mother at such a tender age. Which one is more difficult - living without your fiancee as an adult or living without your mother at the vulnerable age of 8?
There too Bon felt pain. It was not shown, that's why viewers say things like we don't connect with her. The last track was hell for Bon yet makers did not bother to show the extent of her pain. Does that mean it was not painful for Bon? They don't show the pain of Bon, that's what is frustrating. The reason why people always say, Ani had to face a lotttttt of pain than Bon and for Bon. It's not their fault because it's the makers who themselves did not find it necessary to portray her feelings or her pain. But for people like me, Bon's pain will always be felt by us, doesn't matter if they show it or not. 😭