Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 90

Originally posted by: faja

kuch guess karne layak hi nahi choda re makers ne.. I feel hamare Ani realization ka popat karke.. Tri-nindhi revelation or realizatii hoga😆

Ani in his reformist mode.. breaking the concept of age barrier in love and marriage.. in donon ka milan na kare. (just kidding)

Ruha.. I cant think of anything with my logical mind on the progression of Anidita by the end of this track. This tym for sure only magic no logic🤣

(the only thing I could give a slight logic is Dhakuma arranging new rishta for Bon, probably a fixing or engagement. as Ani will take law there for marriage.. and Ani's appeal on the court for laws to be enforced for dissolving existing marriage.. And his realization ki idealsim never work in its full form.. but to be tied with practicality, for her safety and good was with RCs with adhikar.. so things to be back there.. She being regarded as his wife with realization might evolove later.. Probably the unconfessed realization would be he cant let her go far or her life at the control of anyone else.. he needs their marraige to be there for her to be in his life.. On how he sees the marriage might still be back there.. only difference would be it wont be dominated by challenge and zimmedari but dominated by Bondita and their man ka rishta)

Na bol pa rahe bolke kitna kuch bol di.. I think I should stop

Na bolna chah kar itna bol diya to jab bolna chahogi to kitna bologi. Par jo bhi boli zabardast kaha,👍🏼 mujhe to 4 lines likh karhi bas hojata hai😆

Viewers jo bhi sochte hai makers uska ulta dikhate hain. Kaya pata by the end kaka aur kalindi das ka vivaah hojae aur bon phir se rc haveli me rahe

Originally posted by: faja

Much needed.. but will we ever get it.. It was something makers have avoided always. They either covered it up under the child label or glorified it under forgiveness, resilience and love..

Will Bon ever been shown human is doubtful.. I had such hopes at all the torturous track.. but all in vain.. Now I dont kind of expect it be shown.. I have kind of accepted they have made Bon so..

While the mahanta shown by Ani at times is worth trolled by us, it was infact the weakness of the character itself, a by-product of his unrealistic idealism, rigidity and stubborness..But the mahanta of Bon is often sugarcoated... For its sweetness, we are being forced buy with no defence

Makers LOVE the character of Ani. Only focuses on his growth, his emotions, his faults, his realizations - everything revolves around his character. No wonder we got so much justifications for Ani's second marriage and everything he did to Bon in the last track.

Not for once Bon's monologue is shown. Neither her feelings nor her take on the people around her, on the society around her, on the world around her. Just show her own things, her world, her life and keep Ani aside for a moment. We have been shown Ani's personal life. For once want to see Bon's personal life too. Not the pyaar obviously, but her school life, her hostel life, her friends, her feelings. Unfortunately we won't ever get that.

@UL - Bon's forgiving and selfless nature is not unrealistic, Faja. There do exist people in real life who forgive every time they are being wronged. What I love about her is that she forgives only when she is harmed. The moment it is the question of her only constituents of the universe - her patibabu and her Maa, she does not. Example - Mini, Sampoorna, Mama, Mami and Munshi. She is selfless and forgiving only when things revolve around her. The moment her close ones are involved, she does not gives a chance at all. That's the beauty of Bondita Das.

Also, Ani is lucky that he got Bon. Had there been a normal kid, he wouldn't have been able to do anything for the society. No child would give up her family or the relationship that she values the most just because her patibabu asked for it. The sacrifices of Bon are more than Ani because of the age difference. Would have Ani broken his relations with his family for the sake of societal reform at the age of 12/13? We easily call it as a great sacrifice but the effect of the sacrifice differs among them because the age these two people involved differs. Ani is affected differently while Bon too, differently and a bit more than Ani. The pain is NOT THE SAME.

Bon was almost killed because of the marriage abolishment. This do causes grave effects on a young girl like Bon. But sadly we won't see any effects because Bon is just a fictional character to makers. Only human in obviously the ML.

BB differs from other shows because in rest of the shows the ML only does cameo for some romantic scenes or to throw the FL out of the house. The rest of the time the show focuses on the character growth of FL. Par hamare yaha poora ulta hai. BB is really path-breaking. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Na bolna chah kar itna bol diya to jab bolna chahogi to kitna bologi. Par jo bhi boli zabardast kaha,👍🏼 mujhe to 4 lines likh karhi bas hojata hai😆

Viewers jo bhi sochte hai makers uska ulta dikhate hain. Kaya pata by the end kaka aur kalindi das ka vivaah hojae aur bon phir se rc haveli me rahe

Ruha.. mazak mazak mein me too told the same in the beginning of this track

Originally posted by: faja

I have always felt, this as much as Ani's implusiveness is self_destructive so is Bon's over submission in the name of love.. Sorry to say this but I cannot buy repetitive abusive behaviour being tolerated and always giving more second chances whomsoever it is in the name of love or forgiveness.... one has to take stand for oneself...I believe BB is not a normal sas bahu saga where the submissiveness and over ethical bahu material is sold.

. I dont want to resort to the unrealistic expectations like Bon be selfdependent and move out of house and be on her own because of polygamy or run away from marriage to a society where people are there with tooth and nail to kill or crucify her..

While I try to accept the character of Bon is crafted so for her loved ones, I chose not to take it as a symbol of glory be in the label of unconditional love itself...Such things are actually trauma bonds for me the one who is attached to the one who illtreats them... She can take any wrong doings on her but not on her loved ones.. with Sampoorna and Mami this only happened, but why? this is not selfless in my terms atleast.. She with time has to have this boundary to be set for the standards to treat her as well.. A major learning for Bon in her growth.. ..

She is a 12/13 year old girl. That she has this much maturity is more than enough for Ani. Koi punya ka kaam kiya hoga jo usse Bon mila aur koi aur ladki nahi. Have you given a thought about this what if she did not forgive Ani's father for his wrong doings against her? This character aspect of Bon is actually helpful for Ani since it easily gives a pass, be it him or his family members. She loved his family much much before than the family loved her. Much before than even Ani felt affectionate for her. What if Bon did not forgive Ani for her last doings? This learning of Bon to take stand for her own self will take time. Will come up with age. 12/13 saal mei itna maturity dikha di, shayad hum adults bhi nahi dikha paaye. Shaadi tod li kyunki Ani ne kaha. Rishte tod li sabke saath. Bina sawal kiye. 😭

Ek swaal kai din se mere dimaag duad raha hai ke bon jab barrister babu banjaegi and successful hogi wo bhi ani se zyda kyun she is much smarter and calmer as a person then ever impulsive ani babu.

Tab kya ani ko bon ki kamyabi se jalan ya unintentional problem hogi kya?

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Originally posted by: faja

I miss flashbacks.. we had some most iconic scenes as HM flashback scenes.. ❤️

Me too..HM FBs were intense.. separation jaan pe ata tha.. n with FBs ani ka realisation bhi tha.. FBs n new RTMs too... I want both..After RTM 21 I thought the day won't be far away when we will get proper duet.. both r singing together rishta tera mera... Par ye makers ne to puri vaat laga di🥺

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Ek swaal kai din se mere dimaag duad raha hai ke bon jab barrister babu banjaegi and successful hogi wo bhi ani se zyda kyun she is much smarter and calmer as a person then ever impulsive ani babu.

Tab kya ani ko bon ki kamyabi se jalan ya unintentional problem hogi kya?

I don’t think so Ruha ke Ani kabhi bhi Bon se jealous feel karega... jab baat Bon ki padhai aur kamyabi ki hoti hai Ani becomes like a guardian ( parent nahi kehna chahti) so I guess no question of jealousy arises...

kya pata khud hee inspired ho jaye aur London ki padhai zaya na jaane de 🤞

Originally posted by: Indira12

Makers LOVE the character of Ani. Only focuses on his growth, his emotions, his faults, his realizations - everything revolves around his character. No wonder we got so much justifications for Ani's second marriage and everything he did to Bon in the last track.

Not for once Bon's monologue is shown. Neither her feelings nor her take on the people around her, on the society around her, on the world around her. Just show her own things, her world, her life and keep Ani aside for a moment. We have been shown Ani's personal life. For once want to see Bon's personal life too. Not the pyaar obviously, but her school life, her hostel life, her friends, her feelings. Unfortunately we won't ever get that.

@UL - Bon's forgiving and selfless nature is not unrealistic, Faja. There do exist people in real life who forgive every time they are being wronged. What I love about her is that she forgives only when she is harmed. The moment it is the question of her only constituents of the universe - her patibabu and her Maa, she does not. Example - Mini, Sampoorna, Mama, Mami and Munshi. She is selfless and forgiving only when things revolve around her. The moment her close ones are involved, she does not gives a chance at all. That's the beauty of Bondita Das.

Also, Ani is lucky that he got Bon. Had there been a normal kid, he wouldn't have been able to do anything for the society. No child would give up her family or the relationship that she values the most just because her patibabu asked for it. The sacrifices of Bon are more than Ani because of the age difference. Would have Ani broken his relations with his family for the sake of societal reform at the age of 12/13? We easily call it as a great sacrifice but the effect of the sacrifice differs among them because the age these two people involved differs. Ani is affected differently while Bon too, differently and a bit more than Ani. The pain is NOT THE SAME.

Bon was almost killed because of the marriage abolishment. This do causes grave effects on a young girl like Bon. But sadly we won't see any effects because Bon is just a fictional character to makers. Only human in obviously the ML.

BB differs from other shows because in rest of the shows the ML only does cameo for some romantic scenes or to throw the FL out of the house. The rest of the time the show focuses on the character growth of FL. Par hamare yaha poora ulta hai. BB is really path-breaking. 👍🏼

ul: This is exactly I said in some other post Indu, where I wanted to see growth in Bon as she grows up.. She might not be unrealistic for her extend of love and trust for her own is such a high benchmark..But I feel she must learn to set her boundaries, a standard to treat her as well..if not immediately, a growth shown over time.. Even Ani has told her after Sampoorna dahej... apnon ke liye dont take the blame of what u never did..A extention of which.. This I think would be a baby step for a show claiming women empowerment on showing women deserve to be treated a way.. How many times she forgave Sampoorna, even after mensturation track.. Had it been Ani, we would have thrown daggers saying a mistake commited twice is no more a mistake... While her sweetness and unconditional love is her strength, its her barrier too.. makers should focus on her evolving out of this shell strong not fragile..

ul2: I feel. both are lucky to have each other.. Bon it is more on tangible things.. her safety and sustenance.. Ani on intaniblege things his emotions and dreams.. I dont see one less than the other..

If it would have been a normal kid, there relation would have never taken this tangent of mann ka rishta level I feel, it would have remained more of mentorship.

@bold: I see it from a different angle.. pain is not the same.. but pain cannot be measured with same units too... For a matter of fact, the pain of a 20 year old in losing his love of life and inviting hatred from family for his promise and compassion for a child whom he married against his will and ideals is much more than the girl who herself dont know what is love and shadi.. Pain there from her side got diluted because of her ignorance, her innocence.. On contrary the pain of a girl in losing her identity which she lived as hers, her security, safety and her emotional coaster on seeing her patibabu being shared, is much more a pain for a man in him to comprehend.. He seemed to be in pain too.. But hers is beyond he could ever imagine.. partly because of society and partly because of him. I dont neglect the pain and confusion he had on patnidharm.. here again.. ignorance and inncocence came in favour of Bon..

Apart from that the endless times Bon stood for Ani, saved him, supported him.. gave her heart in her relation is something of Ani's true blessings, but which happened bcos Ani was there for her too. Ani has earned that position in Bon's life simply because she believe and says" patibabu galati ke khilaf aavaz udati hai.. hamesha sach ke kiye lade hai.. she said bcos that is her experience too from bedwetting to her shiksha" Its a two way thing benefited and faulted by the two.. two incomplete imperfect souls.. one mignt fall low at one point balanced by the other and vice versa..

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Khoon bhari maang kiski bon ki ya thakuma ki🤣

🤣🤣 muze to bon ki chahiye wo bhi ani ke khoon se... But makers pe kon bharosa karen? Wo to kisiki bhi maang kisike bhi khoon se bhari dikha sakate hai... We have/had such couples in BB land na Binoy- sampoorna😔 ARC n 🤢🤢😡