Friendships, disciplines and clashes of view points

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Advait tells Anupama about the cancer. And as usual she is positive. Advait was worried because he assumed that Anupama would react with the same. But he is a person who does a straightforward talk, without beating about the bush. Anupama said my mother's words, "Bimaari ni dava hoy, Vahem ni koi dava na hoy" Means the illness can be cured by medicines but what goes on in your mind overthinking, fear, hatred, jealousy, medicines can't be cured. A smile is enough for all the fights. You cry for the illness, illness wont go away, instead it will get more intense. Advait just like Krishna is now Anupama's friend. With Vanraj, Anupama has some bonds. But with Advait she has no such bonds, that what a friendship is.


Vanraj is extremely angry on Kavya just how he got to angry on Anupama. Leela's anger was hilarious, she was right though. Vanraj getting angry and Leela said "Bana le aisi aur ek girl friend, Gadha kahi ka. Ek Aurat ko samajhane mein dohra pad jaata hai, tujhe do do ko samjhane padta hai" Vanraj getting angry on everyone. Leela and Kavya are our new comedy pair Earlier people behaved according to him and now nothing is going according to him. A perfect example of Karma striking back.


Samar was right. But I felt Toshu was also right till the extent he mentioned to Samar "Mummy ke Bhakt" I wanted to say to Toshu that you are seeing this day because of your father. Yeh ek resort tha, that's why I oppose her staying alone. If it was Ahmedabad, then I would have been on her side. Samar as usual stands up for her mother, which is appreciative. Samar has now decided to stay with mother. But Anupama asked him not to stay with her. Why she refused him? I dont understand. It should be Samar's choice to decide where he wants to stay and Anupama didn't ask him the basic question to accompany her.


Advait and Anupama a new friendship. A doctor and a patient relationship. Giving it deeper meaning. A human is a patient and when we our Man ki Sthiti is not good we pray to Almighty. Now a patient go to the heal with a doctor when our body doesn't functions properly. And a friend heals a friend with smiles and laughter. This is what I can feel about the new friendship of Anuvait. See them laugh together Vanraj got jealous or angry. Why? For the first time he saw Anupama with other man and it hurt you. Imagine what she would have felt when she saw you on a bed with Kavya. I loved the moment. Anupama is going ahead while Vanraj is still stuck.


Anupama misses the family and she is eating alone. Earlier she used to serve the food for all and then eat. Now she is eating with them and that too enjoying the same. In that house she never watched Television or she had no time for self. Here she is having that time. I think every woman in this world should have a time for personal development and personal enjoyment. Even though she has so much responsibilities. Now welcomes the morning in which there is a scope of herself apart from the family. The morning signifies more happiness in the way.


Anupama and Kavya enter the house. It signifies discipline. How your discipline is determined from the way how you manage your removed shoes. Anupama will bring more discipline, now Kavya wont bring disciplines. Instead she will spoil all the disciplines. Anupama has a family, she is a mother and she is aware of all the disciplines. While Kavya stayed alone without a family. She worked according to her comfort. When you stay with family, you have bunch of responsibilities and you have to manage time considering all the factor. Kavya wont be able to do that.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Beautiful post Kosha❤️


Now Kavya will realise its easy to say i will handle everything and everyone in the family but when actually times come then she will understand its not easy job.


I love Advait and Anupama's Friendship. He is really like Lord Krishna always straight forward with his views😳

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I did not like that she did not allow Samar to stay with her

Since she is I'll it's best someone does stay with her

Kav is coming across in pushing for marriage in day of the divorce

Toshu is still slightly insensitive and MCP

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Chappal ka ulta hona is sign ki ab jo bhi hoga sab negative and ulta hoga. Ulte chappal ko bahot log aisa upshukan samajte hai.
It was not about discipline, it was all about upshukan and negative aura.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I would prefer anupama toh stay alone kyonki agar anupma in toshu ba pakhi ke saath rehti due to Illness to anupama ko hi sabka khayaal rakhna padta anupama hi sara ghar ka kaam karti anupama hi sabke ke liye khaana banati

Rest ka bahut thoda time milta hai anupama ko anupama pe hi load padta aur anupama aur bimar ho jaati

Aur yeh baa pakhi vanraj jaise lazy people khuch nahin karte. Aaj anupama kya gayi inse khaana bhi nahin banaya gaya

Jo anupama ke jaane baad khaana nahin bana sakte to anupama ka kya khayaal rakhenge

Anupama akele rahegi kum se kum woh proper rest to le paayegi

Waise yeh vanraj aur baa ne jo 25 year jo anupama ko mentally torture kiya hai anupama pe upar over load daala haiyeh uska result hai aaj anupama ko cancer hua hai. Koi bhi bimari achanak nahin hoti

Mujhe lagta hai ki anupama ne samar ko isliye saath mein rakhne ko mana kiya kyonki anupama nahin chahiye hogi ki samar ko anupama ke cancer ke baare mein pata chale

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Kavya did not like even Anupama watering the tulsi plant in front of Shah guest house and both were shocked to see AnuVait laughing together. Precap Vanrajs anger does it have some relation to the laughter that echoed. I approve of Anupama staying alone right now, it was more about not breaking the family further if Samar stayed back with Anupama right now as it was his engagement next day. So staying with parivaar was more important. I like the new friendship , will it remain just doctor patient one or extend further as pure friendship between two individuals once Anupama is cured is the question.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Anupama agar family ke saath rehti to wahaan use 6,7 logon ke liye khana banana hota inspite of Illness

Jub anupama ko khana banana hi hai to kyon na anupama akele reh kar bus apne liye khaana banaye

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Posted: 4 years ago
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There was a time I used to hate Leela and felt that is one character who should be just removed from the show... But now, at this point... Just enjoy the show with popcorn...


I don't mind having Samar by Anupama's side... With her... It would make perfect sense... Anuapama is positivity ki dukaan.. Her saying everyone else will be upset if Samar moves here... Didn't make sense... Because I feel after Anupama, Samar was the one to treated badly in Shah family


I love the bonding between Advait and Anupama... Their banter about bill chukana that got Samar to smile was such a minor smile but I couldn't help myself from seeing how cool these two can be friends!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I like the part when she realised that she has whole free time , she was watching tv and eating alone but in much better state of mind then her old life.

Every women deserve this space and personal time.
It’s bad this woman got this freedom only after divorce. Women should always protect her personal space and time in place of running behind family members and husband all the time.

Once a toxic always toxic that is the case of vanraj. I don’t understand why he was giving tough look when anupama was laughing with advait . There is no reason of possessiveness and jealousy anymore. He has already Kavya who is dying for him.

I don’t like the part when anupama doesn’t allow Samar to stay with her. If Samar is not feeling peace in shah house, he can stay with her. She should not force him.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Chappal ka ulta hona is sign ki ab jo bhi hoga sab negative and ulta hoga. Ulte chappal ko bahot log aisa upshukan samajte hai.
It was not about discipline, it was all about upshukan and negative aura.

Even my father believes this. Chappal ulta hona means ghar main sab ulti cheeze hoti hai

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