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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

suddenly if they asked for imlie ki understanding toh they have become wayyy too mean..

To me it’s not that, I understand their shame and yes they do love her. It’s their cowardice, I am sorry but even if there is all the love I can’t see beyond them sending her off with AC. The woman who’s tortured her every time she has met her. They still sent her off with AC, expecting her to deal with whatever will come her way. I am not saying they shouldn’t have sent her off, the situation warranted that reaction from their pov theek hai, so fight just a little more to send her off to the hostel? AC’s shart was not either my home or your home. It was either malini or imlie. I am not giving them this, they sent off the girl with a woman who absolutely hates her. It’s just not right.

Edited by spelano.ws - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Does Imlie really need TRIPATHIS to cement that belief in her mind? 😆.....Come on.....Tripathis kuch bolein, na bolein, Imlie will always feel she's come between Adi-Malini's relationship....woh toh given hai.....she felt that even before this suicide stunt, she will continue to feel it aage bhi cuz Malini's behavior isn't going to stop jataaoing it to her through various dramas. Ts are just doing what they are doing in desperation and Imlie samajh gayi hai ki they are doing it just to coddle Malini....which she herself is also trying to do 😆....toh phir akele Ts ko kyun blame karna is baat ke liye.....Malini pe unka bas nahin chalta but she is still the only bahu they recognize toh it's understandable why they would give that preference over Imlie no matter how much they love Imlie.


And Imlie staying away is just for drama in the storyline....ismein Tripathis ko itna bhi kya write off karna😆.....tadapne do Babusahib ko apni Jhalli ke liye bhi thoda😆.....and Tripathis ko bhi full on value feel ho jaayegi Imlie ki jab ghar mein sirf Dementor bahu hogi jhelne ko without Imlie being that light to cut through her darkness😆


Imlie ne toh kuch galat nahi samjha tripathi's ko.. she actually understood where they were coming from hence her whole dialogue about she can do itna sa for them caz they are the people who oved supported and backed her when.she didn't even had adi... so if they want her to.do.something it must be done too. Yeah she was upset but that was given as AY said only imlie and us are aware ke imlie ka.apna ghar hai and dusra usse kahan patka jaa raha hai.. and kyon jaaye woh apna.ghar chodke but the pain was equal on T's too they were hardly happy about this so idk why they are being made villains it is not like they were dancing ke jao jao niklo .. they all gave such a bad reaction at AC ka niklo too they were genuinly offended and hurt at doing this and seeing this as the only solution but again did they had any choice they tried delaying it with abhi settlement nahi hui hostel ki time.lagega etc but the great DC came up.with the exchange offer uspe bhi aparna raised question toh phir kya kahein directly ke nahi.chahte bahu waapis aaye.. as AC ji shart was clear-cut ke bahu tabhi paoon rakhegi jab imlie jaayegi..

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


It would be poetic justice if this very lie unravels Malini in the long run😆.


All her righteous rants over how Adi was lying to her and that was supposedly the end of her world.....lol now she herself has spun up a FAR more elaborate lie and continues to lie more to build it up😆....and as you said, the more she stretches it out to save face, the more it will start becoming a truth in her twisted head....cuz delusions are all she knows how to live with.


Best thing about this lie of hers is how much it has relaxed Adi and shifted the tone of his guilt😆...now he only feels guilty for keeping Malini away from her true love😆.....there is just too much satisfaction in watching Malini's guilt trap backfire like this.....she's usually used guilt to control Adi into feeling beholden to her.....but the irony is too rich that Adi does feel guilt this time but only as a FRIEND. With this one "masterstroke" of a lie, Malini successfully managed to obliterate any guilt he could feel as a HUSBAND😆....she has freed him to not feel like her husband, and only respond as a friend😆


She's already a pretty empty person....what more unhealthy place is there left to be after this suicide stunt she's pulled? That is an established fact now.....the emptiness is the only constant with her.


It is hilarious ki she thought that one lie she will say and that’s it. Everything is done. For that she should have returned to her house. Had she said that lie and left for her place thinking there’s nothing left in it for me, even Aditya would not have bothered further. Answering his questions in the hospital just took it to a place of no return. It is like bunking work. Stop it at the place where you will not get trapped. Extend karoge, you will get stuck in the quagmire.

I meant hollowness wrt to her mental state where someone will really need to interject and help because it is going to be about a person who does not exist. People should have done it a long time ago but until now people she was delusional about atleast existed even if just physically. The lie right now is still nascent. Until now whatever she has done, she has not had to lie this elaborately. But if she uses it to even find someone else and get married, she is going to be unsuccessful because she will want the person in her head and not the real one. Aditya toh phir bhi jeeta jaagta insaan tha.


Re Aditya: it was the only way he would have been this guilt free and the irony is ki I doubt Malini will ever admit she made it up. She also unintentionally opened up a window for him to be more brutal to her if and when he realizes she’s messing with Imlie. He will be a lot more scathing with his words even if his tone is not what it was when they fought. Friend bhi shaayad na rahe by the end of it

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

To me it’s not that, I understand their shame and yes they do love her. It’s their cowardice, I am sorry but even if there is all the love I can’t see beyond them sending her off with AC. The woman who’s tortured her every time she has met her. They still sent her off with AC, expecting her to deal with whatever will come her way. I am not saying they shouldn’t have sent her off, the situation warranted that reaction from their pov theek hai, so fight just a little to send her off to the hostel? Just say ke she’ll stay at the hostel and not with you. AC’s shart was not either my home or your home. It was either malini or imlie. I am not giving them this, they sent off the girl with a woman who absolutely hates her. It’s just not right.


You are saying as if they didn't try that.. plz watch it again that was the first thing pankaj said that they can't displace her ek dum kahin bhi.. that they are arranging for hostel it was denial and indirect rejection of the idea itself as they had reached the conclusion as per family the day before by BK 's interferance ke yeh nahi hoga it was a polite refusal until DC presented his plan and opportunity to take inlie which was stupid to begin with ke malini jaayegi toh imlie hahaha with ac ka makini won't come so what are they supposed to.do when they were ordering and not exactly requesting or willing to.hear anything else.🤷‍♀️ am not fan of this setting s such either but I don't get this blind hate and this expectation ke koi tab to.hi cha hai jab tak aap se put pyaar lactate rahe and chipka chipki fakeness dikahta rahe.. sadly yehi hota hai everytime.adi goes into his anger zone too people forget the intent and only see ghussa not where he comes from


Anyway you are welcome to veleive what you want or.. to me tripathis have done nothing wrong and I love them just like before.will wait for the flips again when they will be shown showering love on imlie as is the case always. Be it adi or anyone else. I Eman this si the forum which justifies DC and malini so.amything is.possible🤷‍♀️

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


It would be poetic justice if this very lie unravels Malini in the long run😆.


All her righteous rants over how Adi was lying to her and that was supposedly the end of her world.....lol now she herself has spun up a FAR more elaborate lie and continues to lie more to build it up😆....and as you said, the more she stretches it out to save face, the more it will start becoming a truth in her twisted head....cuz delusions are all she knows how to live with.


Best thing about this lie of hers is how much it has relaxed Adi and shifted the tone of his guilt😆...now he only feels guilty for keeping Malini away from her true love😆.....there is just too much satisfaction in watching Malini's guilt trap backfire like this.....she's usually used guilt to control Adi into feeling beholden to her.....but the irony is too rich that Adi does feel guilt this time but only as a FRIEND. With this one "masterstroke" of a lie, Malini successfully managed to obliterate any guilt he could feel as a HUSBAND😆....she has freed him to not feel like her husband, and only respond as a friend😆


She's already a pretty empty person....what more unhealthy place is there left to be after this suicide stunt she's pulled? That is an established fact now.....the emptiness is the only constant with her.


Exactly and I think that was very much needed. Previously he was caring ki what will happen to Malini and that she loves him a lot, it will hurt her but with this new thinking he will be more focused on freeing both of them from this bandhan. It has totally backfired on Didi. The funny part is Adi did not even realize in his innocence or whatever that was that he was making Malini mad. He was still stuck on making her happy by compensating in any way he can. I think the lihaz that he used to have for Malini because of her feelings for him which he was not able to reciprocate are also going to go out of the window because you know "Malini samaz jayegi" 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Oh yeah, for a change, the split screen was only Adi-Imlie instead of Didi also ghusaaoed in between😆....so that might be an indicator of what's to come.


Didi toh omnipresent rahengi hi but I do feel with Imlie out of the house, the focus will shift to Adi-Imlie ka tadap in some sense too.....Didi sadti rahein side pe meri balaa se😛


I am so ready for this phase 😆 ... and Didi's chop by Aditya who will keep trying to make things easy for her by being the most understanding person of her dilemma😛

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MuteButton


Re Aditya: it was the only way he would have been this guilt free and the irony is ki I doubt Malini will ever admit she made it up. She also unintentionally opened up a window for him to be more brutal to her if and when he realizes she’s messing with Imlie. He will be a lot more scathing with his words even if his tone is not what it was when they fought. Friend bhi shaayad na rahe by the end of it


We'll have to wait and watch on that front😆......cuz her levels of twisted I doubt we can fully fathom.....lol....but yes, Adi doesn't back down from responding to Malini ke taunts in his own way jaise bhi😆.....the new angle seems to be that he will keep bringing everything back to being about Malini ka mystery loverboy even if she tries to taunt him about stuff😆.....and that will shut up Didi more effectively than any angry retort I suppose😆. Imlie ko kuch directly bolegi toh bhi I don't think Adi will back down from defending Imlie....so Didi can only play those cards to a certain extent....free pass nahin hai.


Friends toh waise bhi khokhle waale hi hain yeh dono....toh in name friendship ka label kar lenge drag karna hai jaise bhi.....lol


Waise this would be a good opportunity for the family to realize that even with Imlie's exit, Adi-Malini's relationship is empty and beyond salvaging.....perhaps that is the whole intent with getting Imlie out of the house in this track.....kuch logon ko practical demo dekh ke hi baat samajh aati hai😆.....Princess Didi ko toh dikh gaya hai ki her relationship with Adi is done for but Tripathis need a live demo I guess to face this harsh fact.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

That’s what I used to think too, any reaction she would have towards imlie and aditya will be justified and it was a phase I was really waiting for. But they completely messed up her character. I am not saying she’s a villain, she is grey yes. I don’t consider her a vamp but just a very very draining character. I used to take offence at people calling her a pampered princess but over the course of the episodes and a rewatch I realised that’s actually what she is. She lost me at that whole mandir ke saamne strong hone ki qasam khana because she didn’t want a marriage like her mom so she’ll act like her mom. Like what?? I didn’t need all of that, if they hadn’t tried to glorify the classist remarks and abuse she was about to put imlie through I still would have understood her more. But it was like my husband is not giving me attention so I am gonna go abuse this girl to get a reaction out of him. Fine ok. I get it. Next day it’s all over again you’re my choti behan and important to me. That’s when I was done. If you’re acting based on suspicions then why did those suspicions suddenly disappear? Because it was never about that, it was all about pulling adi’s focus towards her even if it meant torturing said choti behan. At that point, she only subconsciously thought aditya was paying attention to imlie and not her, and that’s what pissed her off so she went off on imlie instead of confronting aditya. When that didn’t work, she broke down and took this very huge step that could have ruined everyone else’s lives around her too. That does make her seem lowkey manipulative, and I say again I would have been okay with all of this these shades were something I was looking forward to but they are constantly glossing over it. It was executed so badly. She just seems an empty character. Like you said, this is a show that tries to be real, she is not the sautan that makes the grand plans but a very human character with flaws. These flaws though are very draining and dislikable.

There are not going to be grand plans in a story like this we’re gonna have to look at the actions of everyone and analyse their intentions from that. Even that whole pd breakdown what was the logic in it? Her and aditya hadn’t had any big fight, he was gone only 3 days and lied about where he was, just a couple days after he was beaten up badly by people. Why was her first reaction oh my god my marriage is over he could very well have been in danger? Look at it from the characters’ pov not the audience who knows the whole story. She made such a huge scene in front of everyone (his family who was worried for him too) and then stopped eating?? I am sorry I tried to understand her, I really did and maybe I see where her reactions come from but all she comes across as to me is an entitled woman who throws tantrums to get attention and breaks down when she doesn’t get it.


You do have a point and that's a lovely analysis. Thanks for understanding and for helping me understand. :)

Edited by reginalsecret - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Waise going by BTS and how elaborate they are showing Imlie ki "bidaai " I am finding it such an intresting parallel.. usually beti maayke se saural jaati hai.. yaahan technically sasural se maayke jaa rahi hai how sasural is her maayka in true sense and PT a good fill in father with the way he hugs and pyar Karooes Imlie and the real baap is extreme loser jo le toh jaa raha hai as a baap but zaalim saas aka AC se bacha nahi paayega and dhakosla hi hai. Technically her maayaka will treat her like sasaral " as per the stereotype** and how for imlie T's are her maayka and sasural..

Edited by naadanmasakalli - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: pamk06


I am so ready for this phase 😆 ... and Didi's chop by Aditya who will keep trying to make things easy for her by being the most understanding person of her dilemma😛


Me too....I think we might get some good stuff from Adi in this phase despite Didi mandraaoing😆. I'm remembering all his restlessness, tadap before he left for PD last time....itna confused and lashing out at everyone in sight not knowing why he's lost it so much over Imlie leaving😆.....toh is baar bhi dusro pe lash out karega and bahut baatein blurt out karega in his tadpoing for Imlie😆.....Family waalon ko achhe nazaare dekhne ko milenge cuz they've poked the bear now😆


Jitni der uski Imlie ko usse door rakhoge, woh aisa grouchy hi ghoomega😆.....Sab pe gussa karega for putting him through this....Imlie too😆


Irony yeh bhi hai ki they are all doing this thinking that this will concentrate attention on Malini in the wake of her suicide kaand....but making Imlie leave the house will now ensure that she is the topic of discussion incessantly instead of Malini😆. Which means Didi will try new tactics in desperation to try and get attention again. 😳😆

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