I just saw the episode. And I find his mixture of sarcasm and sternness perfectly delivered and also received by his family members. He is angry and hurt but the way he expresses it is different with different people. This was in NO way less than yelling at them because knowing kaku she will twist it to her own version of blaming Sai.
I would say this was more realistically portrayed than in other versions atleast Tamil version. Even in Tamil version he didn’t yell yell and the lil bit I watched in KD also rono was stern but not yelling.
I choose to focus on the dialogues and his expressions when he delivered them
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