Will Farhaad take it upon himself to investigate? - Page 5

Originally posted by: libran90

Is this that big an issue to cause a separation? I mean galti uski Kaku ki hai right. And if Raghav refrains from doing anything to Sulochana and hides the truth, will she still be angry. His only intention will be to keep Pallavi with him, right?

Well why shouldn't he punish BWA? She is the real culprit, and until he punishes her, he won't really have justice for what she did to his sister. Keeping Pallavi with him under false pretenses means he continues to be unjust to her and go against his principles. I want her to grow a spine and challenge him for continuing to have her in this trapped marriage instead of punishing the real culprit.

As to whether it's a big enough issue or not, well this is ITV, they are experts at making a mountain out of a molehill.

Originally posted by: libran90

Ofcourse not.😆It will drive him up the wall, that he is not the reason for her to stay. He will have to work hard to have this girl for himself. She will not make it easy for him.😆

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Yes, it will be a never-ending conquest for him. He is so used to being an alpha, being ahead of the game, that now being second place or not even in the race will be hard to digest.

In some ways, I'd love it if she were to say that she forgave him but would never forget what he did to her and the pain he caused her family, and that she could never trust or respect him. Also, a husband is supposed to protect his wife's honor but when he's the one who tried to take her honor and dignity away, then how can she ever consider him as her life partner, blah blah blah...

Lecture mode on: Trust and respect are the foundations of a relationship, without which it is meaningless. (Insert Shivaji quote here as appropriate).

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well why shouldn't he punish BWA? She is the real culprit, and until he punishes her, he won't really have justice for what she did to his sister. Keeping Pallavi with him under false pretenses means he continues to be unjust to her and go against his principles. I want her to grow a spine and challenge him for continuing to have her in this trapped marriage instead of punishing the real culprit.

As to whether it's a big enough issue or not, well this is ITV, they are experts at making a mountain out of a molehill.

Punishing Sulochana means that it will happen in the presence of the Deshmukhs and Pallavi. He will want to punish her and her daughter and want to prove Pallavi's innocence in his own twisted way. But it will not work wonders for him in any way. He cannot undo the impact on her mind and heart. Neither VD can. Can either of them erase the shit they spewed out of their mouth. No.

Words are more hurtful than weapons. So, Raghav may do this to make it up to Pallavi, but it won't be enough. Pallavi needs to grow a spine against that family, instead of Raghav. She has enough spine to show Raghav his place, but not the Deshmukhs.

Originally posted by: libran90

Punishing Sulochana means that it will happen in the presence of the Deshmukhs and Pallavi. He will want to punish her and her daughter and want to prove Pallavi's innocence in his own twisted way. But it will not work wonders for him in any way. He cannot undo the impact on her mind and heart. Neither VD can. Can either of them erase the shit they spewed out of their mouth. No.

Words are more hurtful than weapons. So, Raghav may do this to make it up to Pallavi, but it won't be enough. Pallavi needs to grow a spine against that family, instead of Raghav. She has enough spine to show Raghav his place, but not the Deshmukhs.

He cannot undo his actions, and I frankly don't care about Rambo redeeming himself. BWA going unpunished, and here I mean through legal action, is just downright unfair. She belongs in prison for what she did to Keerti, period. He doesn't need to prove anything to the Deshmukhs for his own sake, and neither does Pallavi. Ayi and Nikhil didn't need any evidence because they discarded everything he said... hawa mein filter, etc.

As for making it up to Pallavi, that's a whole different story. He hurt an innocent person. Sure, he didn't make it public so she can't file charges of defamation but the matter now lies with Pallavi. If she doesn't care what the Deshmukhs think then she doesn't need to bother proving herself to them or to anyone. If Raghav had remained an outsider, it wouldn't matter either because who cares what outsiders say? However, if she is to remain married to him, or, rather if he is to remain married to her then how can he expect that she would want such a man as a husband who could ruin a woman's reputation, that too without sufficient evidence? Even if the Deshmukhs had ignored him and believed her 100%, it doesn't diminish what he did. One more thing, he attacked her character from multiple angles, the concept of izzat here was not just about them having an affair, but also that she would go so low as to try to swindle the Deshmukhs out of their shop out of greed. That kind of accusation of treachery was also to taint her character.

Originally posted by: inlieu

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Yes, it will be a never-ending conquest for him. He is so used to being an alpha, being ahead of the game, that now being second place or not even in the race will be hard to digest.

In some ways, I'd love it if she were to say that she forgave him but would never forget what he did to her and the pain he caused her family, and that she could never trust or respect him. Also, a husband is supposed to protect his wife's honor but when he's the one who tried to take her honor and dignity away, then how can she ever consider him as her life partner, blah blah blah...

Lecture mode on: Trust and respect are the foundations of a relationship, without which it is meaningless. (Insert Shvaji quote here as appropriate).

He is so used to female attention for his money or for his power or for something else. And now he will have a wife, who is not interested in any of it. Neither his looks, his money, his power, or him. And that is pretty hard to digest for an egoist like him.

And then, as I can understand, Raghav takes rituals pretty seriously. So he will take up the role of her husband seriously. Pallavi will not take this wife thing seriously. And Pallavi will refuse to abide by any wife-like duties for him. Pallavi will consider herself to belong to Mandaar, just to derive satisfaction, that he cannot buy a wife for himself. And Raghav, in his twisted head will be irked that he owns her now, but not completely. Zero emotional investment from Pallavi will be another pile-on. I am sure Pallavi will mention Mandaar to irk him as well. I mean, he has to compete with a dead man for ownership over his wife. Wow. And there are feelings under that thick skin of his. Pallavi will be comfortable and sweet with everyone except him. I mean feeling ignored or left out by Pallavi is another thing he cannot take.

And as the days go by, he will be irked further by her obstinacy to not accept him. He will seek her attention, she won't give. He will rile her up for reaction, he won't get. In short, he won't get anything from Pallavi. And then feelings will begin to bypass brackets of want, need, desire, attention, love, and hufff!!!!

Anna is in a mess, bro.😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

He cannot undo his actions, and I frankly don't care about Rambo redeeming himself. BWA going unpunished, and here I mean through legal action, is just downright unfair. She belongs in prison for what she did to Keerti, period. He doesn't need to prove anything to the Deshmukhs for his own sake, and neither does Pallavi. Ayi and Nikhil didn't need any evidence because they discarded everything he said... hawa mein filter, etc.

As for making it up to Pallavi, that's a whole different story. He hurt an innocent person. Sure, he didn't make it public so she can't file charges of defamation but the matter now lies with Pallavi. If she doesn't care what the Deshmukhs think then she doesn't need to bother proving herself to them or to anyone. If Raghav had remained an outsider, it wouldn't matter either because who cares what outsiders say? However, if she is to remain married to him, or, rather if he is to remain married to her then how can he expect that she would want such a man as a husband who could ruin a woman's reputation, that too without sufficient evidence? Even if the Deshmukhs had ignored him and believed her 100%, it doesn't diminish what he did. One more thing, he attacked her character from multiple angles, the concept of izzat here was not just about them having an affair, but also that she would go so low as to try to swindle the Deshmukhs out of her shop out of greed. That kind of accusation of treachery was also to taint her character.

In short, ANNA IS IN A TERRIBLE MESS!!!!😆

Originally posted by: libran90

He is so used to female attention for his money or for his power or for something else. And now he will have a wife, who is not interested in any of it. Neither his looks, his money, his power, or him. And that is pretty hard to digest for an egoist like him.

And then, as I can understand, Raghav takes rituals pretty seriously. So he will take up the role of her husband seriously. Pallavi will not take this wife thing seriously. And Pallavi will refuse to abide by any wife-like duties for him. Pallavi will consider herself to belong to Mandaar, just to derive satisfaction, that he cannot buy a wife for himself. And Raghav, in his twisted head will be irked that he owns her now, but not completely. Zero emotional investment from Pallavi will be another pile-on. I am sure Pallavi will mention Mandaar to irk him as well. I mean, he has to compete with a dead man for ownership over his wife. Wow. And there are feelings under that thick skin of his. Pallavi will be comfortable and sweet with everyone except him. I mean feeling ignored or left out by Pallavi is another thing he cannot take.

And as the days go by, he will be irked further by her obstinacy to not accept him. He will seek her attention, she won't give. He will rile her up for reaction, he won't get. In short, he won't get anything from Pallavi. And then feelings will begin to bypass brackets of want, need, desire, attention, love, and hufff!!!!

Anna is in a mess, bro.😆

That she has a completely different set of priorities is something he will learn pretty soon. All his supposed plus points will be meaningless to her and seeing him clueless, trying to figure out what she would actually be interested in (which is out of his league for now) would be quite fun to watch. It's the little joys in life that she looks for. I'm not sure he even knows that or how to bring them into her life. I want to see the trial and error phases too, where he wants to do something to please her and it all falls flat.

He has too much ego to force her and even he knows that when it comes to feelings, he can't make her care for him or love him. I so expect Pallavi to go "Yeah, you're rich, powerful, attractive, etc... so? What's the big deal? Husband ho to Mandaar jaisa... Laakhon mein ek tha woh, mere dil mein jo uski jagah hai woh koi nahin le sakta. Woh mera pehla aur aakhri pyar tha aur main humesha sirf ussi ki rahoongi." and watch the mercury rise.

Yep, he is going to be in a mess, and watching him struggle with such situations where he has no control whatsoever, being out of his depth, would be wonderful.

Originally posted by: libran90

Till now whatever has happened between Raghav and Pallavi, I don't expect either of them to do anything to contribute to resolving the Qutub Minar of MUs.

Raghav to hai hi hopeless, apne dimaag me hi rehta hai, apne saath Q&A khelta hai, aur apne aap hi question paper solve karta hai, aur phir miserably fail karta hai. So, keeping any expectations from him to actively solve this problem is pointless.

Pallavi, on the other hand, shouldn't even involve herself in this situation. She is clueless as f**k about all things she has been accused of. In the MMS case also she was clueless, she tried to know about what happened at that ashram, but then Raghav only screwed her happiness and she was least bothered after that. This time, Pallavi also has no clue. And I really don't want Pallavi to bother. I wouldn't. Arre someone else has issues in his twisted mind about me and accuses me of things I did not do, then why should I bother.

Leaving Farhaad to solve this mess. Honestly, I know the man has a rational approach and he knows how to differentiate between right and wrong. He has no baggage around women to misjudge women and neither he has an obsession involved in the midst of this to keep on scapegoating others for his problems. So he is the only one who can sort this out. But will they show him actively following this through. Cause this time he is deeply impacted by what Raghav did. He is disgusted with it. So, has it hit home that now if he doesn't step in, Raghav will ruin himself and an innocent person?

I feel he should take this up actively. But will Sitara people give him so much screentime to see him actively pursuing this? Will they even show this issue being investigated?

What do you think will happen?

Farhad is circuit of Munna bhai RR

Bas side kick hi hain 😆

if they clear MU’s btw leads how will they drag tracks rotate and confuse more

That’s why they leave so many tracks open 😵

So when they don’t know what to do next they will come back to the open tracks and create more confusion 🤣

If they give Farhaad more screen space to independently solve the MU’s

I will give Takla a head massage and be his friend

It’s as impossible as that happening 🤣

Originally posted by: libran90

Before marriage, nothing will happen. I am talking about after marriage only. Who will take the initiative to resolve this mess, is my question. Will it be Farhad?

@bold: What can prompt Raghav to discover the truth? He does not trust her, and on his own, he takes initiative to wreck things, not improve. The only good thing he has done to date is the abortion MU resolution. And that too, because his reputation was on the line. Frankly, if he had used this brain to solve the MMS fiasco, it would have been better. There too his reputation was involved, and he did nothing about it.

It can be Farhad but I'm not sure about the success rate of that. Yeah, he is an intelligent person but I think the makers will want Raghav to find it. (Even may be the audience prefer Raghav to Farhad.)

And what can prompt Raghav to find the truth.

May be after a certain point of their married life, he will start to trust Pallavi again. This marriage can result in two ways, It can affect Raghavi positively or negativity and if it affects Raghav the former way then I'm sure he will try to dig the matter more like how he did in the abortion matter. There he couldn't take that disgust in her eyes so he tried to clear their names. And when after marriage if he starts to trust her again, that doubt will eat him, the doubt about the photos of Keerthi, so he will try to do something about it.

Yeah I'm still confused about that MMS fiasco. Why he didn't do anything about it? All I can come up with is, at that time his amma was in hospital so may be he was not bothered about clearing his name but his amma's health and as a destructive person he wanted to take revenge.

Originally posted by: inlieu

That she has a completely different set of priorities is something he will learn pretty soon. All his supposed plus points will be meaningless to her and seeing him clueless, trying to figure out what she would actually be interested in (which is out of his league for now) would be quite fun to watch. It's the little joys in life that she looks for. I'm not sure he even knows that or how to bring them into her life. I want to see the trial and error phases too, where he wants to do something to please her and it all falls flat.

He has too much ego to force her and even he knows that when it comes to feelings, he can't make her care for him or love him. I so expect Pallavi to go "Yeah, you're rich, powerful, attractive, etc... so? What's the big deal? Husband ho to Mandaar jaisa... Laakhon mein ek tha woh, mere dil mein jo uski jagah hai woh koi nahin le sakta. Woh mera pehla aur aakhri pyar tha aur main humesha sirf ussi ki rahoongi." and watch the mercury rise.

Yep, he is going to be in a mess, and watching him struggle with such situations where he has no control whatsoever, being out of his depth, would be wonderful.

Yes, that's true. The point is, he is adept at handling the wrong kind of women. But with the right type, he just messes things up. He will have a hard time trying to do this, cause Pallavi will not respond to any of it. And he will have to figure out what Pallavi is. He treats her as some kind of toy or a means to satisfy his kinks.

He has ego which is why it will be about, "Why will she not love me? She has to love me." And initially he will try his Hyderabad ka Don gimmicks, but that won't make the cut. So slowly and steadily, he will change his approach towards Pallavi. Initially, he will do what he understands best, but later for his growth as a character, he will change his methods and try to give Pallavi what she would want.

The only thing I wouldn't want to change is his obsessive territorial, overprotective persona. It could have a positive turn to it, but it should remain as is.