Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 19

Originally posted by: aastha12345

I'm unable to quote coz of restrictions so posting as a reply for itsmesabah, I've also replied before, so regarding the pati babu ki bondita thing I was not very comfortable with it tbh, I knew it was actually a non Romantic confession but still made me uncomfortable as it came from a man who stood against child marriage, the only explanation I have to it is that that time he was not into the societal definition of pati patni rishta, he comfortably called her patni and loved her like his child, but things changed as he attained puberty, society started expecting a physical relationship and bondu a romantic (as thought by ani, coz bon ka crush was only induced), so he withdrew with a safe word that is zimmedari, he called her so coz he couldn't explain her his actual feelings (she's too young to understand difference between romantic and non Romantic love), and I nowhere found his pati patni rant as an indication of rudhita being endgame, I actually want them to part ways and find life partners coz it makes me feel creepy ki the person ani always saw as a kid is developing romantic feelings for her

@Bold - Behen I get what you are trying to say. You must have seen this show like Balika Vadhu. You should watch the episodes from the beginning as a neutral viewer, not trying to relate with some other TV show. You will see how there are a lot of ITV symbolization that conveyed Rudhita is the end game. An example, if you see the episode where Ani-Bon lights diya in front of Dugga Maa, Mini tries to destroy Bon's diya. But in the process Bon's diya burns her saree and their diyas end up being together. These are ITV gimmicks.

It's okay IF now they have 'changed' their scripts and they don't want Rudhita as end-game. But they showed it at one point of time. We believed it. We came to love it. Now if suddenly there is a change, fans would have a disappointment, right? Everyone has a hesitation towards change. It is not possible to easily accept it. We were made to believe something else and now given something else. But, NOW we are slowly preparing for it. If they don't show them as end-game, it's okay. 😳

But that does not give them any right to showcase child abuse and polygamy on television. That is unethical and if proper justification is not given to it, concerned wings can come to know and the show might land in trouble. There are quite a lot of haters of this show and they can report this serial just like how another SSP show got pulled down. That is why there is SO much demand of justification to polygamy and child mental abuse.

On a side note, if you see even the channel is promoting Rudhita. Now we should leave it to the makers on whom they want to show as end-game. There is no point of arguing over it. But if they show Rudhita, it won't be the same cause cracks have developed.

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

Indeed Indu dint think of it from this point. In retrospection it is very true that most of the time all Mano did was talking and half of which was praising Anirudh. It’s actually true when someone is wrong or makes a mistake and if he is praised rather than being rebuked he would never realise his mistake.“Galat ka saath dene wala bhi galat hota hai”. Mano and Ani were somewhat alike in more than one way. Both were obsessed with their own agendas without caring about anything or anyone they just wanted to accomplish their respective missions by hook or by crook. Maybe that’s why the mutual admiration.

As we all know that Mano’s character was a badly written one could be due to the script changes that they made due to backlash but it definitely dint come across as planned maybe.

Even in starting she was like this only when he proposed immediately marry me

Originally posted by: faja

@ul : we saw in Chodi hui aurat track, an imaginary Bon confronted him on how you always say about woman rights, but you were recluctant in giving me rights as your wife. Hence the steps from his end in giving the honour of his wife RC bahu, which by then he knew was needed for his existence in society. Change cannot be brought out over a night.And yes at that time, no social definition of marriage was interfering their relation, So Ani with ease and comfort called her patni and owned their relation in their own way

@bold 1: I felt different here, he loved here like a child and was in child like form to her.But not as his child.He could have told her lagav was more of parental but he said dost and shikshak.

Zimmedari was his shield to society, to himself and now to Bon too, because he is clueless of how to handle it else particularly with on fantasizing their relation

@bold2Honestly, considering the era parting the ways and finding new partners particularly for a woman would have been alien concept, after CHA,HM track.

ani always saw as a kid is developing romantic feelings for her

That is why their rishta is different, its never going to be like normal one ..Tag line'prathon ke bhavar se kaise nikalega ye rishta'

..what u felt is exactly Ani's issue too...he see her , he sees the child, but she is his patni too, which he cannot deny atleast suconsciously

Like he might never truly be able give the position of patni to anyone else

But he could never see her as patni too..It is whole a conflicting situation

It wont come to a clear conclusion too.I has to traverse its own path to see how Ani and Bon perceive and get settled in relation

While seeing this in perspective on Ani, we must also see that Bon, lived in the belief of his wife and bahu.So if she expect a romantic relation of pati-patni in future, we could not detest it too.Its about both. Now that marraige revelation and annulment follows, she might chose to see him different in future

That is why child amrriage annulment is brought and makers would show how bon being an inspiration vows to become independent but ani would be there with her as her constant support their beautiful relation would be there

Now this would be shown and it is a very bold and progressive stop to see our independent bon as to be hinest thought she has got good rc family and a good husband ,she a girl who never intended to marry and wants to become barrister has to be the change she wants to see

Originally posted by: rajiraji14

Hi Aastha,

Yesterday if u watched the episode in that his inner sense asked the same,ths time damage is beyond repairable.... yup as a viewers all expected the same ARC to be questioned fr each and every mental torture to Bon,he created himselves,becoz ths came to end very soon in single epi is not acceptable by any viewers so precised questiining by inner sense and sudden realisation by ARC.... so as a loyal viewers once agn i feel like trolling vth ARC realisation and abt repairing need more time .....

And HM track tats entirely dfrnt one yaar,its kind of misunderstanding.... bt ths track ARC'S intension and his ways to reach tat destiny is out of range one and not necessary track fr stryline....

Very true Raji. Even I said it in my post that - ARC yesterday said the damage was irreparable.

@Bold - So true. You brought another difference too. HM track was a misunderstanding. This is completely out of the way. Also HM track brought social issues to limelight - blind faith, chodi-huyi aurat, how brothel women are treated, etc. This track could have been like that, but makers made a mess.

Originally posted by: faja

@bold 1: I felt different here, he loved here like a child and was in child like form to her.But not as his child.He could have told her lagav was more of parental but he said dost and shikshak.

Loved this Faja! ❤️

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Yup you're right that he loves her like a child not like his child, I have noticed maximum times his love like a child, but sometimes, like during the suramai akhiyo k Lori scene I felt it like parental love, also the menstruation scene, this was the reason I admired aniruddh actually, he could even play the role of a mother to her when needed but now that's missing, I feel he has failed as a guardian

Look what dyanamics it would take in future we don’t know but u know in chodi hui aurat Track he was disappointed with her as a husband which we discuss many times and also he can give selfless love to bon. ,be anything for her and do anything for her

When love is like this it comes not need any label of romantic non romantic

Also bon sees him as her unconditional support,a man she saw much different who is her rakshak ,teacher and she never can see him hurt total admiration and respect

Makers gave subtle facts to show look at innoncen of girls when she day dreamed ,crushed as how she was losing herself when she wore heels and dresses for which she was highly uncomfortable as she is a girl who never liked those things ,she questions and does tarks and loves. Rasgullas And doing her own things this shows she wa sores surged by kaka and society to impress ani but she herself felt uncomfortable

Originally posted by: aastha12345

Yup you're right that he loves her like a child not like his child, I have noticed maximum times his love like a child, but sometimes, like during the suramai akhiyo k Lori scene I felt it like parental love, also the menstruation scene, this was the reason I admired aniruddh actually, he could even play the role of a mother to her when needed but now that's missing, I feel he has failed as a guardian

We only keep strict barriers to the forms of love, Astha.Love in effect is love only, romantic part is just a form of it. It cannot sustain for long without the broader aspect of love based on selflessness.On that aspect, Ani played multiple role to her..He became that comforting aanchal of mother in her absence.

Mein kuch bhi kar sakta hoon Bondita keliye, apne jaan hi de sakta hoon, is all nothing but love, in its most purest deepest form.

Ani took a wrong drastic step,which a parent would have never taken. He is no parent, he has no experience in guardianship too.He realized his path was wrong. Lets be a lil patient now, to see what he does to bring a lil repair to the much damage caused

Originally posted by: Itsmesabah

This was just absolutely Beautiful Faja 👏

“He loved her like a child not His child” just what I thought. 😍

Thank you dear...😊

Originally posted by: faja

We only keep strict barriers to the forms of love, Astha.Love in effect is love only, romantic part is just a form of it. It cannot sustain for long without the roader aspect of love based on selfless less.On that aspect, Ani played multiple role to her..He came that comforting aanchal of mother in her absence.

Mein kuch bhi kar sakta hoon Bondita keliye, apne jaan hi de sakta hoon, is all nothing but love, in its most purest deepest form.

Ani took a wrong drastic step,which a parent would have never taken. He is no parent, he has no experiencing in guardianship too.He realized his path was wrong. Lets be a lil patient now, to see what he does to ring a lil repair to the much damage caused

Anirudh considers bon as his equivalent from starting ,an individual who is his partner subconscious becuase of her smartness,her progressive thinking

Bon thinks way ahead of her times see her tarks in whole episodes done so far before this track even her innoncent ones it shows the broader thought she has ,the way she points out other mistakes ,understand as ,forgives and always the questions come from her inner mind when she sees any injustice

Originally posted by: faja

Thank you dear...😊

Have you seen Balika Vadhu coz I haven’t have to look up kya hua tha usme