Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 15

Originally posted by: faja

Indira, did you get a taste of what we discussed earlier on Ani and Bon different realizations. Bon is now on sapna , she left behind her emphasis on rishta.She might not draw clear lines as we expected, but she now wont take any step in the direction of their relation as well.Ani might slowly realize his in the upcoming episodes.How she said mein chali jaoongi ,will never show my face. He was more affected, a precursor for the next track.

You exactly pointed out from makers point of view.I am also trying to come in terms with it, for moving ahead, Although so many loop holes.

Also I try to ignore the pati-patni ka prem and parivarik jeevan ki shuru words. Cause they don't make any sense. Instead Ani fell in love with a different girl.

I think in a specific way, this cannot be addressed now, because Ani needs to gain more of knowledge on love and relationship.He learned it from the school of Mini.Also, that would become a lil in appropriate for now

Parvivarik jeevan, grihsati we can take it as kaka being representative of society, Now surely a change in dynamics happened, but not as how kaka thought.There relation is changed out of the perspective of society to e of normal pati-patni (makers pov).Now from my pov, what I see is changing Bon perspective,, for her, he is slowly shifting to apna who secure her and care for her future from her patibabu.(what he defines as their relationship).And he will learn with a blow, that how the name of relation although he denied was holding them.If we are fortunate enough we will get another realization,not on pati-patni prem.But Bon kya hai, and a rethinking on 'ye rishta kabhi pati patni ka nahi hoga' to Abhi keliye ye rishta hai phorasa ka saath ka..wo age jake kya mod lega use khud pata nahi. The only truth is his existence is related to Bon, which he can never let go and not sure how to hold on too.

"What we think and believe might not be actual love(Doha), it might come as that realization where you see the happiness and good of some one above yourself"

It would make me think that he has re-realization of pyar confession and Bon place, with no explicit reference

He learned it from the school of Mini.

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Faja, I again heard those dialogues of Kaka. Some of his words really don't make sense.

But other than that, what you pointed out is absolutely right. A realisation might truly be on it's way. All of the definitions you have given on this realisation is brilliant, not going the other way yet having a sense.

Originally posted by: Indira12

Very very true. Why don't they show a li'l bit of Bon's pain? Like you said earlier, the pain cannot be the same now, easily forgotten like HM track. There has been a lot of visible growth in Bon and the pain needs to simultaneously grow too. I so hope all these future tracks show the effects of Ani's actions on Bon, gradually.

Because even Ani's consciousness said, the damage is irreparable. It now should come into the picture.

The relationship has got quite complicated and the second marriage thing needs to be reversed somehow to bring back atleast some of the essence. Maybe showing a flashback that it never really happened. BUT only if makers want to bring back old Rudhita. If they don't want, no need of doing that.

Par Kaka ka samjh nahi aya. He has so much faith in rituals. If Ani-Mano did an actual wedding in front of him, why isn't he rebuking Ani about it? Ke shaadi koi khel nahi hoti Anirudh. He seemed to calm about it. Will we really get a flashback of that scene or else, going by facts, Mano is going to his only wife. Bohot hi confusion hai 😆

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Agar makers ko AniDita ka future main scoop rakhna hai to ani mano ka incomplete shadi ka sach dikhana hi hoga. Jab tak ani.ke sar se ye cheez nahin hatti wo kabhi pehle wala ARC nahin bansakta.

Waise sindoor ka scene kyun nahin dikhaya even in that bashi biyah rasam also❓

Originally posted by: listmist

I hope there's some twist as bon fainted during marriage... Bas shadi hui hi na ho.. I will not believe this nakli, jhooti n samjhote wali shadi n all

i want to see that cause bhale hi they did not show bon fighting against ani for polygamy but kya elder bon pe iska impact nahi hoga ki mano and ani ke beech kuch nahi hua ho when she come aware of that\

also i thought bon innoncence is lost forever now ,not in that way but her beleiving world is. a appy reality

she earlier believed marriage is about clothes,gehne,respect and our taking care but she realised more than that so to prevent any girl going from it,bon will be the change in baal vivah

also i think whatever diaolgues dikhaaye tub dost nhi dushmn bane,tum rakshak nahi rakshaks bane ,tum gaalt ho bon ke liye agar bon bolti toh trcak different way mein haata so to clear off and avoid more backlash,us zindagi bhar ke pyaar ke introspection where after this he went away leaving a distressed bon ka justification tha

they have chnaged their script

Originally posted by: faja

ul: Really?

I didn completely get what you meant.

Did you mean the realization, considering the fact that they lack essence now, may look like forced?And his introspection on PNZKP would e ignored

But realization of what sort? His feelings with reference to Bon, can never come openly right, that would make it controversial. His idea of 'love' is yet on romantic relation .May be his realization on letting go Bon by taking away his name come. Lets wait how they showcase this. Altleast some realization happened from his side. May be realization you said would be with Ani only, it wont come like that on screen for both of them.Because for me now, Bon visibly changed which will be more only after annulment

ani wil realise in future by seeing kind of love bon harbours for others that what is love, realisation would be with bon future not involves barrister but her emotional feelngs,her growth and her life partner as what turn it would take

Originally posted by: faja

Even I felt a lil discomfort with dono hathei khaali dialogue.

kaka is kaka only, he will think of his son first.

May be he had actually felt Anirudh had feelings , remember the scene with Mano hands on Ani shoulder.So he asked even after knowing her stay is temperory, he pushed away his permanent support .This is not completely convincing to me.But I overlooked, atleast Kaka probed Ani to do something about it

that was his way of saying like he always said people have 2 wives and tradition is polygmy but one thing for sure ani can never preach polygamy but bon will fight and remove this tag in future

Originally posted by: Indira12

Very very true. Why don't they show a li'l bit of Bon's pain? Like you said earlier, the pain cannot be the same now, easily forgotten like HM track. There has been a lot of visible growth in Bon and the pain needs to simultaneously grow too. I so hope all these future tracks show the effects of Ani's actions on Bon, gradually.

Because even Ani's consciousness said, the damage is irreparable. It now should come into the picture.

The relationship has got quite complicated and the second marriage thing needs to be reversed somehow to bring back atleast some of the essence. Maybe showing a flashback that it never really happened. BUT only if makers want to bring back old Rudhita. If they don't want, no need of doing that.

Par Kaka ka samjh nahi aya. He has so much faith in rituals. If Ani-Mano did an actual wedding in front of him, why isn't he rebuking Ani about it? Ke shaadi koi khel nahi hoti Anirudh. He seemed to calm about it. Will we really get a flashback of that scene or else, going by facts, Mano is going to his only wife. Bohot hi confusion hai 😆

Yaar Indira, for everyone their life is precious na..Why would Kaka emphasize on Mano, now that she is krantikari..they had a hairline escape form jail😆

Accept this Indira, the purpose of Mano is done for now, they might only bring her some day if needed. No one will ever question him too regarding second marriage, because he said its a contract.Ab keliye Bon is his only wife. Which will change after annulment. And shadi happened, he said shadi ki par nakil..so better not to have hopes there.I too expected it would be nakli in true sense , initially .It would still be happy if I am proved wrong

I dont think they want Rudhita dynamics to be exactly same after this major track.You know, I wont be expecting 'hum jud jayenge' kind of dialogues from Bon anymore. She is growing up, and makers have taken a safe route by induced crush, so real and natural feeling will not happen. Their relation has added a layer, which was so naive before. Whatever Ani was getting easily from Bon,I mean emotional provision, now he will have to work to work for it, or he will miss it. Bon will become more conscious now, not as innocent child before

So the relation progress I view is

After Bedwetting: Bon from just zimmedari and bacchi to entitlement and relation based on trust

for her too from rakshas to rakshak

After Brijwaai and chodi hui aurat: Someone he cannot let go, truly family (same with her)

After HM: he got upgraded to her sansar and he given her patni ka adhikar (in terms of Bon)

After Munshi until SR: journey to jeene ka wajah ..sab kuch for him , to an extend Ani too lived the life of patibabu and parallely Mission Barrister babu

After SR until Mano: Bon is sab kuch for him but not patni, but she is only zemmidari for the rest of the world,.Ani became only her patibabu for Bon (now her terms changed)

After Mano: Bon is still the same for Ani(choti bachi, sab kuch, zimmedari), but Ani for Bon is on that pedestal who gave his whole life for her for her dreams, absolute respect with no expectation of any relation (ever or until barrister)...

so it become journey to Barrister for both of them. the personal journey has to be redefined with a growing up Bon, either now or eventually in future

Bon is on track for now, now its Ani's turn.

I still feel Anidita is end game, the whole promotions..

But we might not get old Rudhita. We cannot be like Ani na, in resisting the natural change and growth in Bon.

Originally posted by: faja

Yaar Indira, for everyone their life is precious na..Why would Kaka emphasize on Mano, now that she is krantikari..they had a hairline escape form jail😆

Accept this Indira, the purpose of Mano is done for now, they might only bring her some day if needed. No one will ever question him too regarding second marriage, because he said its a contract.Ab keliye Bon is his only wife. Which will change after annulment. And shadi happened, he said shadi ki par nakil..so better not to have hopes there.I too expected it would be nakli in true sense , initially .It would still be happy if I am proved wrong

I dont think they want Rudhita dynamics to be exactly same after this major track.You know, I wont be expecting 'hum jud jayenge' kind of dialogues from Bon anymore. She is growing up, and makers have taken a safe route by induced crush, so real and natural feeling will not happen. Their relation has added a layer, which was so naive before. Whatever Ani was getting easily from Bon,I mean emotional provision, now he will have to work to work for it, or he will miss it. Bon will become more conscious now, not as innocent child before

So the relation progress I view is

After Bedwetting: Bon from just zimmedari and bacchi to entitlement and relation based on trust

for her too from rakshas to rakshak

After Brijwaai and chodi hui aurat: Someone he cannot let go, truly family (same with her)

After HM: he got upgraded to her sansar and he given her patni ka adhikar (in terms of Bon)

After Munshi until SR: journey to jeene ka wajah ..sab kuch for him , to an extend Ani too lived the life of patibabu and parallely Mission Barrister babu

After SR until Mano: Bon is sab kuch for him but not patni, but she is only zemmidari for the rest of the world,.Ani became only her patibabu for Bon (now her terms changed)

After Mano: Bon is still the same for Ani(choti bachi, sab kuch, zimmedari), but Ani for Bon is on that pedestal who gave his whole life for her for her dreams, absolute respect with no expectation of any relation (ever or until barrister)...

so it become journey to Barrister for both of them. the personal journey has to be redefined with a growing up Bon, either now or eventually in future

Bon is on track for now, now its Ani's turn.

I still feel Anidita is end game, the whole promotions..

But we might not get old Rudhita. We cannot be like Ani na, in resisting the natural change and growth in Bon.

u summed up that is why ani introspction dikhaaya of marriage infront of bon as he knew he hurt a girl inside that bachi ,u are rihgt makers showed it as induced cursh and social expectations and pressure that u are wife u have to feel that way but truy she was not feeling it, she had that adoration and respect for him,ani due to his definiton of love mistook hers which he realised today bon was right , anirudh had mistaken her for this,she was astray but not beautifu feeling of love but due to societal pressure that u have to feel this way or that

regarding mano her character is done,no way of returning back and all for now thye would see in future kya dymanics and all, ani knew ki bon choti ,bholi aur masum hai isliye uske her actions ko uske junoon mein haar gyi,pained ho gyi,soulffully toot gyi par kuch nahi kaha

Originally posted by: Katy4566

u summed up that is why ani introspction dikhaaya of marriage infront of bon as he knew he hurt a girl inside that bachi ,u are rihgt makers showed it as induced cursh and social expectations and pressure that u are wife u have to feel that way but truy she was not feeling it, she had that adoration and respect for him,ani due to his definiton of love mistook hers which he realised today bon was right , anirudh had mistaken her for this,she was astray but not beautifu feeling of love but due to societal pressure that u have to feel this way or that

regarding mano her character is done,no way of returning back and all for now thye would see in future kya dymanics and all, ani knew ki bon choti ,bholi aur masum hai isliye uske her actions ko uske junoon mein haar gyi,pained ho gyi,soulffully toot gyi par kuch nahi kaha

regarding kaka and all,he loves bon wholeheartedly but he wanted children from bon,he wanted family life from bon and he also accepted ani way of marrying and even said due to mano matuiry,ani got attracted it is not his fault but he wont say same thing if in future bon makes a friend or just thinks she likes someone or admires

Originally posted by: Katy4566

thank u, earlier i used to be silent reader but seeing u all voice out, i also came and gave my ranting

this is what i felt and would be shown in upcoming episodes,i want to hear bon tarks and questions jo bolti band kare,dalhousie mein milene on interacting with different people

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Thank you Katy for not remaining a silent reader because your positivity helps us to remain in hope. You are OUR constant reminder that tomorrow will be a better day with a better episode. And Congratulations buddy 😍

Originally posted by: PRIME1

Bon has moved on I guess but ye benaam rishta ani ko chain se jeene nahin dega.

Yes Ruha from the promo itself it is quite evident that Bon will move on she instantly inquires ab hamara rishta kya hoga.