Originally posted by: faja
Indira, did you get a taste of what we discussed earlier on Ani and Bon different realizations. Bon is now on sapna , she left behind her emphasis on rishta.She might not draw clear lines as we expected, but she now wont take any step in the direction of their relation as well.Ani might slowly realize his in the upcoming episodes.How she said mein chali jaoongi ,will never show my face. He was more affected, a precursor for the next track.
You exactly pointed out from makers point of view.I am also trying to come in terms with it, for moving ahead, Although so many loop holes.
Also I try to ignore the pati-patni ka prem and parivarik jeevan ki shuru words. Cause they don't make any sense. Instead Ani fell in love with a different girl.
I think in a specific way, this cannot be addressed now, because Ani needs to gain more of knowledge on love and relationship.He learned it from the school of Mini.Also, that would become a lil in appropriate for now
Parvivarik jeevan, grihsati we can take it as kaka being representative of society, Now surely a change in dynamics happened, but not as how kaka thought.There relation is changed out of the perspective of society to e of normal pati-patni (makers pov).Now from my pov, what I see is changing Bon perspective,, for her, he is slowly shifting to apna who secure her and care for her future from her patibabu.(what he defines as their relationship).And he will learn with a blow, that how the name of relation although he denied was holding them.If we are fortunate enough we will get another realization,not on pati-patni prem.But Bon kya hai, and a rethinking on 'ye rishta kabhi pati patni ka nahi hoga' to Abhi keliye ye rishta hai phorasa ka saath ka..wo age jake kya mod lega use khud pata nahi. The only truth is his existence is related to Bon, which he can never let go and not sure how to hold on too.
"What we think and believe might not be actual love(Doha), it might come as that realization where you see the happiness and good of some one above yourself"
It would make me think that he has re-realization of pyar confession and Bon place, with no explicit reference
bon has accepted ani care and concern not rishta,look from one year she got all happiness and unconditional support from ani ,when she was not attached to him and calls him rakshas babu, she still thought he is my husband and he has to fulfill his duties for me,if he cares for me ,i will also do
drawing lines cant be expected from her as makers even in curshing track showed how she is a child ,she tried hard ki gaal laal ho nahi huye it means all those thngs society taught her nahi ho sakti hai i mean does those girls who gave gyaan to ani were truly in love with their pati, they were doing what they were taught and earlier so that they dont ask for rights to fall in love(one of main reason of child maariage)
bon was different as she always looked for proffs and questioned,she tried so hard to see her cheeks are red or not, whether her beats stopped or not,kaka sasur ji told her ki charm ani ,she wore those clothes but she felt highly unconfortable showing bon would never dress up for anyone instead be what she is different then she is that, she kept vrat when ani said she will not have my relation,her insecurities had made her like this,society taunts,kaka sasurji pressure,sampoo sayig u are bojh and all
regarding parivarik jeevan and grasth,agar bon jaan bhi leti toh bhi retaliate karti,baaton mein nahi aati bas use right direction dikhaani thi,she was naive and innocent shown in that sr fiasco where she sat in rasams as her elders asked and she thought her periods are celebrated not as a curse that is it
when she saw those girls happy,she has not seen outside wolrd neither the societal mindset,one side she learnt value of eduction,another side she was respected as choti malkin and before that she never did any tyaag but supoorted ani,that is how she was as a person,she valued herself when sampoo said u got such a husband,she said i am also a treasure and he is lucky to have me in bd wetting track
but growing up,peopletold u are older,fulfill duties and responsiblities,that innocent bon had no expectations but in ksj and ani fihgts,she was expected to side and balance,in sampoo matter she was blamed,in periods , she was betrayed,in marriage revelation she was made atamsha jiska introspection aayega
so on gorwing up ani himslef does not know ki adult bon kya hogi apart from abrrister, bonis also vcitim of child maariage but for that she had to see injustice vut she saw love and care in ani and family how will she realise it is kupratha when it gave her a good family and education and love she wanted like she gave others
she had a self esteem showin in starting ,she only said tark karoge toh fark mitaoge
she said aadmi aadmi ,aurat aurat
so bon self esteem ,her confidence and her tarks never went ,they are there it is just that she thought she is not doing anything or her best patibabu