Originally posted by: jankiraghav
Well, I might be the only one, who may feel so but when I watched the two episodes shot at the dehleez, I had just one feeling: Virat had not planned to throw her out when he returned home - he was speaking of reining her in (just as misogynistic as it sounds). But he decided to go to the extreme when the family instigated him for "not doing anything", the "burning" of the (faltu) letter and his absolute rage as he recounted the intimate moments they shared all day until she vanished -- the rejection even before he could confess; she was just leading me on to get away with her conspiracy behind my back. You know, betrayal is one thing but when it is a spouse that betrays, the craze that can take over your mind is unfathomable. He lost his mind. He definitely did not expect Sai to run away, stand in his way (I don't even want to get into the illogical part of that whole police raid. I wish this character stops wearing the khakhi, it is such an insult), address him as "officer", not care about the consequences he would have to face with his family for her actions.
He announced the cutting of all ties after learning about the letter, imagining her conspiring while he was attempting to make their marriage come alive with a confession. Even when Ninad gave the option of the maafi and the shart, he waited for her to say sorry. Actually Vahini was unwittingly right when she 'taunted' him that he would have brought her back after cooling down if she had said sorry... He actually wanted her to say sorry --- a profuse one and kind of beg to be let in, may be also hear a "where will I go without you, you mean everything to me.. don't leave me"... It would have given him a upper hand, been betardine ointment on his deeply cut ego and allowed him to lay forth conditions to "rein" her to "redeem" his position of the chaheeta beta of the house.
But it was her unapologetic stance -- and going on the offensive, instead -- that made him go from bad to worse. He had no other option but to throw her out -- the wolves were not going to settle for anything less without the gidgidana from Sai. The whole dialogue exchange between them (leaving aside everyone else from the periphery) was the ugliest fight a couple can have. He humiliated her in the worst way that he could for his ego had taken over his mind by then. She remained adamant despite knowing that he knows nothing -- he may not even have believed anything that she would have said at that point but the fact is that his feeling of being betrayed was not wrong. But as usual, (I absolutely hate it when it happens) this man throws her to the dogs when he is angry and everyone can pounce, bite and maul her, her character and her intentions while he sadistically watches. I don't want to even start on that one. It is good that she did not say sorry and stay back because they need this separation to value each other. Much as I think that the way Virat dealt with the situation was illogical and stupid and the onus of not knowing the facts lies on him as much as it lies on Sai because he is the one who jumped to conclusions despite being a so-called police officer and I can vouch for this: cops are not stupid. They could be MCPs (gender-neutral usage) but they are N.O.T. stupid.
While my heart still goes out to Sai because, no, you can't just shut the door on the face of your wife without even wanting to know why she would do what she did and return home to you, I definitely want to blame Sai for hiding facts. Even if she says she doesn't consider him her 'husband', he does mean something -- he had the right to know. Am not sure if any one of us married women/men here would do something like that to our spouse's sibling/cousin by keeping them in the dark? I can't identify with the need to keep him in the dark -- okay, they were not on the same page but it needed time. Rome can't be built in a day. He had promised to reinvestigate. She needed to smartly open cards in front of him, quiz him and give him a chance to say "no" again to justify this decision. He was back from his training. He was showering his love on her and she could see it. There was no way he would not have believed her if she had patiently unfolded the truth to him in the confines of their room but her promise to an unknown man became bigger than the man she deeply respects.
Both their actions have damaged their marriage and at this point, it seems at an irrepairable stage. But since she has left open the "Agar iss ghar ke log mujhse maafi maange toh..." option to him, I guess he will have to take it sooner or later. But apology is not the same as repentance. Both of them need to repent if they truly seek each other -- first they need to ask if they do truly seek each other.
Yes janki. I have always said that both are wrong here.
I have made a post to ask everyone their opinion about hiding facts from their spouse. Especially when his cousin(or sister) is involved. I can understand Virat's anger too because his trust is broken. But his reaction is completely wrong.
My problem here is, showing him an IPS officer, who is very righteous(according to the initial plot), concerned about women's safety behaving like this. For whatever he has done when Sai returned home, it's his ego, true. But, he got an entire night(let's say an hour at least) to think properly. How come he is not worried neither about his wife, who's sitting outside the entire night and his sister, who, according to him, is with a fraud. We all know that Devi is not in trouble, but according to Virat, she is. Still, he got ready to go to jog early in the morning? Is he not interested to check how Devyani is? I mean, what stopped him from sending someone to Pulkit's house to keep an eye on him to make sure that Devi is safe?
Virat, the husband is hurt - understandable. What happened to Virat, the brother?
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