Unpopular opinion - Page 6

Originally posted by: notaquitter

How will she report a crime of kidnapping when she doesn’t have any proof and the person kidnapped is unwilling to do anything about it?

She could file a complaint against mental harassment or something against the Chavan’s

let’s agree to disagree on the need for neighbors drama and Sai implying EMA. ( it’s her own insecurity or jealousy of how Virat takes pakhis side or supports her) and it was more targeted towards Pakhi :)

You don't need a proof to report a crime, you can approach the court for a Sumoto case & convey - the person who was kidnapped, doesn't want to report a crime.

or you can always go the anonymous report route as well.

If the target was Pakhi, Virat shouldn't have been dragged into it - Sai is unintentionally possessive of Virat, which is why she brings Virakhi in almost every single fight - when Virat doesn't stand by her.

Honestly, lots of illogical things happened in the show since the beginning of this track. The way things have played out, the tamasha drama however nonsensical will give me great satisfaction. I'm waiting for bated breath for the humiliation tomorrow, will enjoy it and after that go back to shipping sairat when required.

Virat hit way too low this time, so his tender feelings do not matter to me these days and even today, he didn't even defend his mother who was being humiliated. Say what you want , he comes off as a hypocrite with regards to his relations to pakhi. His closeness to her does breach the limits at times. Even yesterday, even though he was not interested , he didn't rebuke pakhi nearly enough. The way she talks to sai before him and he allows that, he deserved those taunts coming his way.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I am sharing something which many here might not agree with but for my sanity, I need to vent about today’s episode. I am disappointed with the neighbors' drama and nothing justifies Sai’s behavior for me. Before I say further, I want to make one thing clear, I don't support Virat throwing Sai out no matter how hurt he was and he needs to realize the grave mistake he committed , and similarly, I don't approve of Sai’s behavior for few reasons

1. Two wrongs never make a right: I don't think I need to say anything more.

2. Provocation is not a valid justification: Many might say Virat provoked her to take this step. If this is a valid reason to act this way, are we saying Virat was also right in throwing her out because he was betrayed, lied, and was kept in dark about the whole issue? We have discussed enough of Sai’s mistake in Devkit's marriage so I am keeping it as short as possible. Either both acts have to be right or both have to be condemned. Sai claims to speak only the truth then why didn't the entire truth was revealed about how Virat supported her for this marriage but the fake letter changed his perception and how he agreed for reinvestigation but she took a decision without informing him and how she has hidden the kidnapping drama from him and he found out everything when he caught her red-handed in the shaadi mantap.

3. Gratitude: Virat’s gratitude to KJ gets questioned every time he makes a mistake then can we question Sai about the same. Did she think of a man who stood by her in the times when everyone deserted her? Despite being a deal marriage, he went out of his way to make her feel special and did more than their deal terms. I need to clarify again it doesn't justify Virat’s mistakes.

4. Character assignation : I agree what Virat did was borderline domestic violence. Can we say everytime she hints about Virat Pakhi EMA in front of all is a kind of character assassination. Until now Virat hasn't crossed his limits in her presence nor in her absence so what makes her feel he will have a “good time” with Pakhi. I haven't seen him having a “ good time “ with Pakhi after his marriage. I agree Pakhi crosses her limits but why accuse Virat why not talk about Pakhi alone . She was told about his commitment before the marriage. If she found it disgusting she shouldn't have married him . Nothing was hidden from her. If she can get Devkit married against everyone’s wishes then I am sure she could have stopped her wedding as well. I have zero sympathies for Pakhi but Virat hasn't done anything to be accused. If she believes he is having an affair with Pakhi then why was she romancing him in the Holi party ? Isn't it equally disgusting to romance a man who had an affair behind your back?

Role reversal : Are we more sensitive to women's pain than men. If there was a role reversal and if Virat had done this would will we still, applaud him?

I am not her hater but I can't overlook her mistakes and I am either a misogynistic nor a misandrist. I believe if we say Virat deserves this then it goes without saying that Sai deserves whatever he did. I need to clarify again, I don't support Chavan's and Pakhi for their behavior. I would support Sai if she files a case against Chavan's for kidnapping and walks out of the marriage if she is unable to stay with him. Doing drama in front of the neighbors and returning to the same family , accusing husband of EMA whenever she is angry and romancing the same man when she is happy is not a sign of empowerment.

I am not tagging anyone as I believe not many people will be interested in this. I need to vent for me to feel better.

Disclaimer: I am a Sairat fan and will always be. We seldom talk about Virat’s pain hence i am sharing my views

I request you that as women not call it a borderline abuse. This is categorised as domestic abuse in the eyes of law ,an abuse a lot educated women are still struggling with. Even I have loved Virat for a long time, but my love does not allow me to categorize the deed he has done with not one but two women, the other one who is elder to him and almost a mother-in-law to him being an IPS officer (who was asked to take care of women safety in the city) under borderline domestic abuse.😭

Originally posted by: Roch

Well, i dont know what to say. I guess every one understands Virat's pain and anger. In anger Virat can throw his wife out of the house which is justified stating anger. But a wife cannot create a scene cause she feels humiliated wah, this is the society we live in.

If a man takes a step in anger that's an action out of his underlying love but a woman taking a step for self respect would not go down on anyone. And to judge this action are also female most of the time

Both were wrong and have taken drastic steps, he threw her out for his family. She is pulling down that family but is she doing it for self, well let the entire scene play out.

She is anyways going to walk out of the house, so why is she doing all this thats to be seen.

Waise the man says, he is worried about his sister and wants to go for a jog. Has time to chit chat with his best friend, have dinner talks but is not in a hurry to arrest a fraud man. Matlab ye sahi hain.

If someone really would have been bothered about sister, he would done something years ago or moved mountains within that night to bring his sister back.

Call it a shady writing or screenplay, but that was a shitty dialogue.

For me this show was never of Sai or Virat, it is their journey with too many wrongs and both learning in this phase. Sai is not right at some point and So is Virat.

Respect your opinion, but don't think what she is doing is wrong. And to someone who mentioned no husband would throw his wife out, then you guys are far from reality. There are many cases where a girl is thrown out of her in laws house for stupid reasons (An incident i know, a wife was thrown out because the husband and wife fought over who would change a kids nappy)

Anyways i mentioned to someone this forum has also become toxic just as the series, apologies but i have no interest to connect with this forum going forward.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I request you that as women not call it a borderline abuse. This is categorised as domestic abuse in the eyes of law ,an abuse a lot educated women are still struggling with. Even I have loved Virat for a long time, but my love does not allow me to categorize the deed he has done with not one but two women, the other one who is elder to him and almost a mother-in-law to him being an IPS officer (who was asked to take care of women safety in the city) under borderline domestic abuse.😭

Originally posted by: Magnifique

Honestly, lots of illogical things happened in the show since the beginning of this track. The way things have played out, the tamasha drama however nonsensical will give me great satisfaction. I'm waiting for bated breath for the humiliation tomorrow, will enjoy it and after that go back to shipping sairat when required.

Virat hit way too low this time, so his tender feelings do not matter to me these days and even today, he didn't even defend his mother who was being humiliated. Say what you want , he comes off as a hypocrite with regards to his relations to pakhi. His closeness to her does breach the limits at times. Even yesterday, even though he was not interested , he didn't rebuke pakhi nearly enough. The way she talks to sai before him and he allows that, he deserved those taunts coming his way.

Originally posted by: KBBofRCIBC

Shared my two cents in blue😊

Like you watching GHKPM for Sairat. Even though I understand Virat’s pain it just doesn’t justify his actions. If he was businessman like every other itv ml it wouldn’t have bothered me so much IMO.

When we talk about re-investigation , we forget that Virat did not agree as such, he Sai convinced him after lot of efforts as he was sure after his shoddy investigation that he is right. Two documents, not even legal ones, out of which one is anonymous letter, which even his family member can frame. Considering how they have separated the two married people for 10years, that would be the first thing that might come in my mind. Also how Pakhi mentioned what if Pulkit is married and the letter with same content drops by the next day..Not even an ounce of doubt. . If they are capable of separating the two and giving wrong medicines, they are at most capable of writing a letter. He trusted those two documents. When Sai says I saw the other document, he says prove it. When he was not ready to even give a chance to what she saw, why would he believe her otherwise. Coming to the point the re-investigation was not because he thought its needed, it was because he wanted to prove sai wrong. Right now I am not able to feel Virat's pain because his actions out of anger and also because of the pain he is giving to his mother by being a silent spectator of the abuse she gets to witness by ghar ke bade and ghar ke chote log.

Like you mentioned this is not borderline domestic abuse but is a domestic abuse. We all love Virat, yes even I did but I cant ignore that he has turned into a domestic abuser in this track. A lot of educated women are suffering from it on a daily basis.

I’ve stopped watching episodes for sometime now.. I only watch clips and read if posts..

I cannot comment on everything that transpired but I can say that throwing anyone out of the house is abuse and when it comes to wife there is added layer of ‘well it was never your place’! Its like immigrants are time and again reminded that they can go back to where they came from. Telling Sai to go back to where she came from as a punishment shows that it was never her place! I know Sai used to say that I’ll leave as she never believed that it was her place. That is fair enough, she was never accepted, never valued and so called husband’s best friend and pyari cheez would always instigate everyone. FYI Virat never gave her reason to doubt that he doesn’t love pp!

Coming to pointing finger at Virat and pp’s relationship.. I don’t see why sai is wrong in jumping into conclusion. Virat is emotionally close to pp, doesn’t put boundaries when she comes to his room, never says anything to her and listens to her talk nonsense about sai.. pp tried to spend special time with him after virat threw sai out.. isn’t that what sai was saying.. ‘you both will get more time together’. If sai is important to Virat why can’t he just say something to pp when she feels she deserves special time with him.. its clear what she wants but did he put her in her place? No?? Why? He was upset when sai mentioned about ‘khet’ but his yoga love would find opportunities to spend time with him and he gets offended when being asked about it.

Its not only about doing wrong, it’s about encouraging wrong or supportive wrong as well. I believe Virat is encouraging and supporting pp to continue to act like his lover!

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Accepted it as abuse but I would say neighbor drama and pointing fingers at someone character falls under mental harassment. I love Sai too but I can't turn blind eye to her flaws.

Like I have already mentioned she is not pointing at his character, he himself have said time and again , Pakhi is my best friend and there is nothing wrong in sitting with her and talking when she needs it on his SR. You should not have a problem in that. He called Pakhi her best friend, she calls her his friend. Plus Sai has clearly seen how family supports Pakhi's intentions and never questions her, there is nothing hidden there.

Originally posted by: Sunshinebhumii

I’ve stopped watching episodes for sometime now.. I only watch clips and read if posts..

I cannot comment on everything that transpired but I can say that throwing anyone out of the house is abuse and when it comes to wife there is added layer of ‘well it was never your place’! Its like immigrants are time and again reminded that they can go back to where they came from. Telling Sai to go back to where she came from as a punishment shows that it was never her place! I know Sai used to say that I’ll leave as she never believed that it was her place. That is fair enough, she was never accepted, never valued and so called husband’s best friend and pyari cheez would always instigate everyone. FYI Virat never gave her reason to doubt that he doesn’t love pp!

Coming to pointing finger at Virat and pp’s relationship.. I don’t see why sai is wrong in jumping into conclusion. Virat is emotionally close to pp, doesn’t put boundaries when she comes to his room, never says anything to her and listens to her talk nonsense about sai.. pp tried to spend special time with him after virat threw sai out.. isn’t that what sai was saying.. ‘you both will get more time together’. If sai is important to Virat why can’t he just say something to pp when she feels she deserves special time with him.. its clear what she wants but did he put her in her place? No?? Why? He was upset when sai mentioned about ‘khet’ but his yoga love would find opportunities to spend time with him and he gets offended when being asked about it.

Its not only about doing wrong, it’s about encouraging wrong or supportive wrong as well. I believe Virat is encouraging and supporting pp to continue to act like his lover!

Virat has given enough reasons.. In fact he himself called it pyaar and mentioned how it feels to lose a person after his marriage.In a moment of rage he also said infront of Pakhi that jiske(Sai) wajah se maine apne sabsi pyaari cheez kho di. Did he apologize for that, did he take his words after that? How is Sai to believe that he is over Pakhi?