Pagdandiya ki Aafat - Page 12

Yeh lo😆

Waise can I just repeat for the 100th time when I read people asking things like, "How can she fall in love with him when he hasn't done anything for her"😕😆, toh phir samajh aa jaata hai log wohi ghissi piti soch kyun thop rahe hain inpe bhi.

Love is transactional for most people....tum mere liye kuch karo, tabhi mujhe tumse pyar hoga😆....otherwise it can't be love....otherwise it can't be real....lol as if two people can't connect with or understand each other without these cosmetic transactional gestures. Again, it's like people have no idea about all the scenes when Imlie grew to admire Adi for his strength of character, for standing for truth/justice, especially in the case of her Dadda....yeh basic human emotions don't count at all cuz Adi was rude to her for so long otherwise? Ok😆

I'm also tired of restating the obvious now....jo log sunna/dekhna nahin chahte, unko samjhaane ka koi faayda nahin.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Adi's realization of his love for Imlie was RUSHED? 😕😆 This is news to me😆.

Once again, I think it's the unconventionality of these characters that some people seem to be struggling to comprehend. Is it "rushed" when you suppress the truth for so long and it hits you like a bolt of lightening? That is what happened with Adi....the truth was there all along...it took a moment of clarity for it to manifest for him. And how did he not struggle? LOL didn't he push back against his own alter ego initially? But he eventually realized it all in a moment when Imlie put it to him in stark terms ki yeh sab naatak hai.

Just cuz these characters don't have long winded realizations and confessions does not mean they are rushed......the beauty of these characters is in all that is visible in the unsaid, in their actions.....Adi's actions have been screaming his love/concern for Imlie for a long time.....he was unable to understand himself until he finally joined the dots in PD....doesn't mean he fell in love with PD....he simply got clarity there.

Imlie's feelings for him are very obvious too if anyone wants to look beyond the surface labels and denials😆. She has labeled it devotion since that is her social conditioning and she is a very innocent soul....but her love for him is obvious in all its shades....he is not some God/Pati Parmeshwar to her that she worshipfully loves.....he is a flawed man and she sees all his flaws and loves him with all his flaws......what she feels for him, what they share has a very raw/organic feel. Imlie will have her own journey to acceptance but that doesn't mean her feelings aren't already obvious too.

Man, I actually thought we were past the point of having to explain all this from scratch again😕😆.....but it's starting to feel like many people didn't really understand the PD track at all. Oh well.

Adi has been falling in love with Imlie for a long time, it has come through the way he has protected her from the beginning and he finally realized the extent of his feelings in PD. What I wish was his inner battle was much bigger, he just had a few monologues, got jealous of Prakash, realized he didn’t want be Dev 2.0 and almost confessed his love to Imlie. He still has his inner battles after coming back to Delhi, but just wish it was scripted out better or maybe it’s just me who is not content 😄

Coming to Imlie, they have always showed her devotion to him, her emotion sickness, and no doubt she would do anything for him. But what’s missing is, her contemplating and reflecting upon exactly what she feels for him, and what that means going forward. Hopefully they show that in the upcoming episodes, and her being the innocent girl she is maybe rupi di, bade kaka or aparna help her understand and come to terms with her feelings.

Originally posted by: pamk06

Yes, there was always this disdain when he interacted with AC but this time his whole behavior was screaming formality and his whole focus was on protecting Imlie.

Waise why do he think he is so understanding of Papa Dev situation, he has not shown that disgust that he left his daughter and his monologues are Dev should spend time with Imlie... is it because of Imlie?

LOL the writers are flipping Dev aajkal, haven't you noticed? lol all of a sudden they showed his scene of giving good advice to Imlie for once to try and humanize him again.

As for why Adi doesn't think about it as much....lol us bechaare ke sar pe aur 100 tensions hain thanks to Dev Papa ki pyari princess, toh bandwidth hi kitna hai sochne ka....I feel he's just being formal/polite with Dev....usko koi khaas pyar se bhi nahin treat karta.....I also feel it's a case of him only finding Dev tolerable out of all the Chaturvedis right now😆.....Maa ki taraf toh isne dekhna nahin and beti ko barely jhel raha hai...toh bache sirf Dev Papa😆.....but yes, it could also be cuz of Imlie....he gives regard to anyone/anything connected to Imlie now.

Originally posted by: jenniferjune

Adi has been falling in love with Imlie for a long time, it has come through the way he has protected her from the beginning and he finally realized the extent of his feelings in PD. What I wish was his inner battle was much bigger, he just had a few monologues, got jealous of Prakash, realized he didn’t want be Dev 2.0 and almost confessed his love to Imlie. He still has his inner battles after coming back to Delhi, but just wish it was scripted out better or maybe it’s just me who is not content 😄

Coming to Imlie, they have always showed her devotion to him, her emotion sickness, and no doubt she would do anything for him. But what’s missing is, her contemplating and reflecting upon exactly what she feels for him, and what that means going forward. Hopefully they show that in the upcoming episodes, and her being the innocent girl she is maybe rupi di, bade kaka aparna help her understand and come to terms with her feelings.

I actually liked the way they showed it cuz it wasn't done in a typical manner.....the monologues we got were all pretty convincing and to the point without dragging for the heck of it. Anything other than that would have felt typical as it is in most ITV shows.....for me, Adi's realization was very much in line with his character.....he has always been someone who is impulsive and once he realizes something, he doesn't hold back. When a realization happens, it doesn't happen in a neat/clean straightforward manner....these are human emotions that boomerang if you want to talk realistically....so I found Adi's realization realistic in that sense....it wasn't about being neat and tidy.....his emotions came across as raw and real, exactly like his feelings for Imlie are.

As for Imlie, I don't think anything is missing so far. As I said in my previous post also, I don't personally need labels for something to feel valid....devotion/emotion sickness are just labels that they show her using from time to time....her emotions are apparent otherwise....and she will realize them in the flow of the story. Simple.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I actually liked the way they showed it cuz it wasn't done in a typical manner.....the monologues we got were all pretty convincing and to the point without dragging for the heck of it. Anything other than that would have felt typical as it is in most ITV shows.....for me, Adi's realization was very much in line with his character.....he has always been someone who is impulsive and once he realizes something, he doesn't hold back. When a realization happens, it doesn't happen in a neat/clean straightforward manner....these are human emotions that boomerang if you want to talk realistically....so I found Adi's realization realistic in that sense....it wasn't about being neat and tidy.....his emotions came across as raw and real, exactly like his feelings for Imlie are.

As for Imlie, I don't think anything is missing so far. As I said in my previous post also, I don't personally need labels for something to feel valid....devotion/emotion sickness are just labels that they show her using from time to time....her emotions are apparent otherwise....and she will realize them in the flow of the story. Simple.

Exactly. Waiting for Imlie’s realization and her monologue. We know she loves him, but she hasn’t given it much thought. She spends her time brushing away any feelings and naming it ‘emotion sickness’ . All I want is that one monologue where she realizes that she loves Adi and that is her truth, and there is no denying it. And I also want her reflect upon her realization in context of the triangle they are in. Right now all she does is deny her feelings and push Adi towards Malini.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nahin😛....Apparently ab no matter what Adi says or does, sab “EMA” and “gross” hai 😆. You aren’t allowed to point out that him and Imlie are actually married 😛. Apni hi biwi ka haath pakadna paap hai ab 🤣

Yeh kaisa grahan lag jaata hai forum discussions pe aaj kal. Like the moon here has no calendar 😆

Is it just me or does the moral outrage actually sound hollow? A tangible indicator of the show, TRP, being steady actually means that the audience watching it on television gets the story for what it is and likes it so keeps coming back to watch it progress everyday. Is that understanding incorrect? If that is indeed what TRP demonstrates, does it also not mean that the storytelling has not waylaid any characters’ intrinsic attributes? Not generalizing it but the whole kameene ne haath pakad liya seems to be coming from people who would not mind Aditya romancing Malini, his second wife in front of Imlie, his first wife without resolving their situation first or despite knowing he does not love her anymore. Would doing so stop him from being a kameena then?

And coming to discussions on the forum, have we at any point been unclear that we think Malini should know the truth? Uski agar khud ki agency nahin hai toh how does that become Imlie’s fault?

The story has been pretty airtight so far especially Aditya/ Imlie’s progression along with it. Malini might be a tad poorly etched but they have been pretty consistent with demonstrating her shortcomings too. Iss noise ko filter out kar dena chahiye. Pakaa dete hain bekaar ke topics lekar

Originally posted by: Lodestar

@ MuteButton

I am loving your replies on the other post outside the thread🤣. Hats off to you 😆.

Lol. Sochti hoon time waste kyun karun but then I give in 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Nahin😛....Apparently ab no matter what Adi says or does, sab “EMA” and “gross” hai 😆. You aren’t allowed to point out that him and Imlie are actually married 😛. Apni hi biwi ka haath pakadna paap hai ab 🤣

Dear, you got it all wrong, she is not biwi because her official status is servant... Apparently now a days, rituals do not count for a person to be married, family members have to call her "bahu" only then she is the wife. So based on that logic husband ne haath pakda to "ghor paap"🤣🤣

Originally posted by: pamk06

Dear, you got it all wrong, she is not biwi because her official status is servant... Apparently now a days, rituals do not count for a person to be married, family members have to call her "bahu" only then she is the wife. So based on that logic husband ne haath pakda to "ghor paap"🤣🤣

They should see the number of shows in my regional language that my mom watches where every single love story is with the maid while being engaged to some educated working woman

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Yeh kaisa grahan lag jaata hai forum discussions pe aaj kal. Like the moon here has no calendar 😆

Is it just me or does the moral outrage actually sound hollow? A tangible indicator of the show, TRP, being steady actually means that the audience watching it on television gets the story for what it is and likes it so keeps coming back to watch it progress everyday. Is that understanding incorrect? If that is indeed what TRP demonstrates, does it also not mean that the storytelling has not waylaid any characters’ intrinsic attributes? Not generalizing it but the whole kameene ne haath pakad liya seems to be coming from people who would not mind Aditya romancing Malini, his second wife in front of Imlie, his first wife without resolving their situation first or despite knowing he does not love her anymore. Would doing so stop him from being a kameena then?

And coming to discussions on the forum, have we at any point been unclear that we think Malini should know the truth? Uski agar khud ki agency nahin hai toh how does that become Imlie’s fault?

The story has been pretty airtight so far especially Aditya/ Imlie’s progression along with it. Malini might be a tad poorly etched but they have been pretty consistent with demonstrating her shortcomings too. Iss noise ko filter out kar dena chahiye. Pakaa dete hain bekaar ke topics lekar

All my family members sympathize with Imlie. She is the FL of this show and her fate is what attracted viewers to this show. For them, her husband married somebody else and is now realizing his mistake. This is what ITV thrives on. Plus they have not made Malini very likeable especially with AC being the way she is and the whole PDA track where Malini did that tamesha. That did not sit well with anybody. She acts like a princess with her highhandedness and did not even bother to inform the sasural that she is staying back in her mayeka. The TRP audience is not going to sympathize with her with her this behavior. Plus there is the other side, where its so different from the gheesa-peeta formula of ITV that it is resonating with lot of different spectrums of viewers. As you said, everything for the show is good, be it the actors, chemistry, writing, direction so its really not a surprise that its working.

Bas they are just here with new ID's to create SM issues for the show because nothing else is working. 😆