Pagdandiya ki Aafat - Page 13

Originally posted by: nim_var

Again this thread is picking up speed.

Gotta sneak up and read during my day. 🤣

One thought on symbolisms and all that.

Malini brought darkness both at her home and today in her sasuraal as well. She entered her maayka after getting angry with Adi and trying to prove a point. On reaching there was a powercut, plunging the house into darkness. The house will be rocked and shaken with the coming revelations that will destroy all that they know.

Today, she entered her sasuraal on the sly, without anyone being made aware of her entry. Was it her insecurities at play here, trying to catch her hubby in the act of lying or just plain ignorance on not informing anyone.

She makes her way through the house in the darkness, trying to navigate her path with her phone to light her path.

Compare this to the scene of Adilie.

Adi was in darkness, his sunlight having dimmed for the day. 😆 Now Imlie brought a candle and she brings light to his life. On seeing her, his mood considerably lifted and his headache disappeared too. His mood changed from despondency, trying to untangle the mess he is in, to that of wooing his love, his wife.

All the softly spoken words were that of a man trying to woo his reluctant wife, who directly challenged him. when she said she was leaving the room. Now how could he resist the challenge from Imlie, he rose to the occasion admirably. He went all romantic to gauge her reaction and when he was satisfied with what he saw, he then toned it down and put her at ease, by asking about her feelings, crying over Rupi's song.

I feel the hand holding bit was edited poorly and we may get to see the continuation today. It was a bit disjointed with Malini's entry into the house and Adi holding Imlie's hand firmly. Could see that Imlie was feeling emotion sickness again due to his nearness. Despite her staunch denials, she is helpless when faced with the 1000 watts of Adi's charm and melts into a puddle at his words, his nearness.

Poor girl... she is really trying to be so firm but Dil pe kiska zor hain. We should actually give her kudos that she is so firm in her resolve and is trying to take zindagi bar ka dukh on her even though she is just 19. So much mature and so very understanding even at that age which is so rare see even in women twice that age. She has gone through so much of pain and now if she is just letting herself experience this small happiness knowing that she will have to give up, then what is wrong in that.

Is it any wonder Aditya has fallen for her like a ton of bricks.😊

Originally posted by: jenniferjune

Thank you for the welcome!! ❤️❤️

Loved how you said this, him finding a kindred spirit in her.

Also the reason for not including the intense precap scene could be that it could be interpreted the wrong way. Now it all make sense, with Adi reiterating that he was never in love with Malini , but at that point of time it could easily be misconstrued by the audience. Also, the heartfelt conversation they has in the hut in the fateful rainy day, felt like if only they had met in different circumstances Adi might have realized their meeting was serendipitous.

Yes, the falling in love with Imlie and getting distant from Malini has happened in parallel. They have cemented the fact that Adi is in love with Imlie, but what’s confusing is what does Imlie feel beyond emotional sickness, her devotion to him and her being his ‘Meera’. Hope they show exactly what she feels for him in the upcoming episodes, and show that it’s beyond just devotion to him. I hope this part of the story is developed better than Adi realizing his love for Imlie (during Pd trip) because I personally felt he did n’t fight back enough against his feelings. And I felt that went against his character.

Adi had been fighting his feelings for Imlie long before his latest PD trip. Just that the fight was not happening on conscious level in the way that it happened in PD.

Adi's suppression of feelings for Imlie was the fight that was going on before the PD trip. Just after the forced marriage he built up walls of anger against Imlie because he was angry at what had happened to him & he was not ready to accept Imlie as a victim similar to him on a conscious level. He always shouted on her, insulted her to keep her at a distance. He considered his marriage to Imlie illegal. He even went on to get married to Malini.

However even in this phase he was the most honest with only Imlie. This was not just because she was the one person who knew the truth but also because of the instinctual connect that they had right from the start. She was the one in front of whom he was comfortable enough to be vulnerable. And you cannot ignore the haq with which he behaved with Imlie. Her every little action affected him.

Also his care, trust & protectiveness for her always came through when required. Be it telling his family determinedly that she is not a thief, getting ointment for her bee stings which were not noticed by others in his family who doted on her otherwise, etc.

I think the gunshot incident is where we as audience saw that Adi's feelings for Imlie were not as indifferent as he was showcasing the entire time. The emotional outburst, trying to get her to hospital by any means, holding onto her to anchor her life, you don't do this things for someone that you are indifferent to or disgusted by. He was literally panicking at the thought of losing her.

After that I personally believed that he had fallen for Imlie in the time period between their forced marriage & the gun shot incident. Just that he was suppressing any kind of positive feelings for Imlie as he had married Malini & believed himself to be only her husband. He was in denial & didn't know the truth of his own feelings.

After this his care & concern for Imlie were shown in a more obvious way alongside his OTT PDA & love declarations for Malini. Consciously he treated Imlie as his zimmedari & Malini as his wife. But his feelings for Imlie were increasing each moment unknowingly. And you would get obvious glimpses of it in his missing Imlie when she went to C house, his outburst at AC & Malini for insulting her & the unforgettable bridge collapse rescue incident, etc.

After he heard AC's suspicions regarding him & Imlie he got spooked that his life with Malini will be hampered if Imlie does not move on in life & eventually marry someone else. Hence, his impulsive discussion with Imlie regarding getting married to someone else which was the final straw for Imlie & she decided to leave him forever.

It was only after Imlie said to him that baat khatam, rishta khatam that Adi began to self reflect on his feelings for her. His need to know the reason for his restlessness, anger & worry just because Imlie left caused him to lie to his family & his boss so that he could go to PD to get the answers.

Then in PD his conscious struggle to accept his changed feelings began. His feelings for Imlie did not change in PD but it was because of his changed feelings for her that he was in PD & reluctant to leave without her. That was the trigger for him to realise & accept his love for Imlie.

Well that was a real long journey to write down😆. So I am very satisfied with Adi's unconventional journey towards realisation of love for Imlie if you can't tell😛😆.

I will write down Imlie's journey in a separate post.

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Lol. Sochti hoon time waste kyun karun but then I give in 😆

Trp aati nahi hain aur ye log dimaag ka dahi bana dete hain😡. Shaadi hui hai dono ki pehle, us hisaab se dekhe tho we dont know if the adi malini marriage is legal given that he has not resolved the legal question of the first marriage. Do people even know what an extra marital affair is for gods sake?

Am I the only one who find the zooming on the face very irritating. 🤔 Really I couldn't fully enjoy the scene when BS stops Imlie and pull her towards him.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Adi's realization of his love for Imlie was RUSHED? 😕😆 This is news to me😆.

Once again, I think it's the unconventionality of these characters that some people seem to be struggling to comprehend. Is it "rushed" when you suppress the truth for so long and it hits you like a bolt of lightening? That is what happened with Adi....the truth was there all along...it took a moment of clarity for it to manifest for him. And how did he not struggle? LOL didn't he push back against his own alter ego initially? But he eventually realized it all in a moment when Imlie put it to him in stark terms ki yeh sab naatak hai.

Just cuz these characters don't have long winded realizations and confessions does not mean they are rushed......the beauty of these characters is in all that is visible in the unsaid, in their actions.....Adi's actions have been screaming his love/concern for Imlie for a long time.....he was unable to understand himself until he finally joined the dots in PD....doesn't mean he fell in love with PD....he simply got clarity there.

Imlie's feelings for him are very obvious too if anyone wants to look beyond the surface labels and denials😆. She has labeled it devotion since that is her social conditioning and she is a very innocent soul....but her love for him is obvious in all its shades....he is not some God/Pati Parmeshwar to her that she worshipfully loves.....he is a flawed man and she sees all his flaws and loves him with all his flaws......what she feels for him, what they share has a very raw/organic feel. Imlie will have her own journey to acceptance but that doesn't mean her feelings aren't already obvious too.

Man, I actually thought we were past the point of having to explain all this from scratch again😕😆.....but it's starting to feel like many people didn't really understand the PD track at all. Oh well.

Roz bhi samjhayenge toh bhi samjhayenge toh bhi samjh nahi aayega lol rushed when we have been typing these since 2 months and adi pretty much concluded that in the PD trip sure caz he didn't do the usual nonsense toh rush go gaya meh

Can't explain how exhausting it is having to explain the same things over and over and over..Idk what people watch beyond the shaklein that they never get the story the dialogues the characters kya mute pe dekhte hain roz in hopes of LLHH ke na sunayi deta hai na dikhayi

Originally posted by: pamk06

Yes, there was always this disdain when he interacted with AC but this time his whole behavior was screaming formality and his whole focus was on protecting Imlie.

Waise why do he think he is so understanding of Papa Dev situation, he has not shown that disgust that he left his daughter and his monologues are Dev should spend time with Imlie... is it because of Imlie?

He is understanding caz lame parallels dene hain isko of look how lachaar he is when in reality he is a coward but agar he turns ruthless to that will be one more case against him ke look bechargi nahi dikhti isse baap beti ki meh🤷‍♀️

And also because ab he is also related to imlie usse pata hai sasur toh yehi insaan rahega meh

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh lo😆

Waise can I just repeat for the 100th time when I read people asking things like, "How can she fall in love with him when he hasn't done anything for her"😕😆, toh phir samajh aa jaata hai log wohi ghissi piti soch kyun thop rahe hain inpe bhi.

Love is transactional for most people....tum mere liye kuch karo, tabhi mujhe tumse pyar hoga😆....otherwise it can't be love....otherwise it can't be real....lol as if two people can't connect with or understand each other without these cosmetic transactional gestures. Again, it's like people have no idea about all the scenes when Imlie grew to admire Adi for his strength of character, for standing for truth/justice, especially in the case of her Dadda....yeh basic human emotions don't count at all cuz Adi was rude to her for so long otherwise? Ok😆

I'm also tired of restating the obvious now....jo log sunna/dekhna nahin chahte, unko samjhaane ka koi faayda nahin.

By that logic to didi ne kya kar fia kisi ke liye ke unko pyaar kia jaaye.. 😆

Strength of character kya hota hai love is only a hormonal thing.. agar woh sab kar lo toh pyar waena nahi ..

Thanks for gif though I love it

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

By that logic to didi ne kya kar fia kisi ke liye ke unko pyaar kia jaaye.. 😆

Strength of character kya hota hai love is only a hormonal thing.. agar woh sab kar lo toh pyar waena nahi ..

Thanks for gif though I love it

Point 🤣....but I guess Didi ka justification is 7 saal saath bitaaye toh that has to be love 😆

You are very welcome about the gif 🤗. I’m gonna try to gif more soon. Aap akeli jaan ne bhaar uthaya hua hai since so long 😆. I should try to do my part too 😛😆

Originally posted by: pamk06

Dear, you got it all wrong, she is not biwi because her official status is servant... Apparently now a days, rituals do not count for a person to be married, family members have to call her "bahu" only then she is the wife. So based on that logic husband ne haath pakda to "ghor paap"🤣🤣

And she has to be all fancy.. aam dikhne wali ladkiyan biwi / bahu banane ke laayak nahi hoti.. jaise bichaari househelpss kisi ki bahu betiyan biwiyan nahi hoti.. oh the shallowness in these posts

You have some stamina guys I think m too being tired of even trying to explain to others now. L I can do is just bang my head in a wall and hope we get the consistency in the content of the show and thoda sa sane discussion

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Point 🤣....but I guess Didi ka justification is 7 saal saath bitaaye toh that has to be love 😆

You are very welcome about the gif 🤗. I’m gonna try to gif more soon. Aap akeli jaan ne bhaar uthaya hua hai since so long 😆. I should try to do my part too 😛😆

Haan meri akeli jaan 😆 woh bhojha utha legi caz that gives me something to focus on the content and not bakwaas but yes I miss my partner and woh jo tu weight le leti hai of what I end up missing and mere liye toh tere gifs are always special so yeah get onto pulling your side of bhojha🤗