Bigg Boss 19: Daily Discussion Thread - 21st Oct 25
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Nahin😛....Apparently ab no matter what Adi says or does, sab “EMA” and “gross” hai 😆. You aren’t allowed to point out that him and Imlie are actually married 😛. Apni hi biwi ka haath pakadna paap hai ab 🤣
Arey Imlie ki maang bharna bhi "gross" hi hoga kyunki ek chutki sindoor ka haq toh sirf Malini Didi Ka hai😛🤣. Imlie toh Adi ki wife hi nahin hai kyunki Adi ne pehle uski marriage ko illegal bola tha😆. Par then by this logic abhi toh Adi is believing in this marriage, so abhi legal ho gayi na wedding😎. Toh problem kya haiiii😛🤣.
LOL no, not the wrong question at all. I'm finding it quite amusing to see the tide turning since the last few days with how uncomfortable people have suddenly gotten simply cuz Adi is expressing his emotions for Imlie😆......it's interesting to view vis a vis the impact of psychological conditioning.
People want clear solutions basically.....lol and woh nahin mil rahi toh Adi is being made the scapegoat😆. Sabko chahiye ki woh aaraam se "guilt free" Adi-Imlie ka "romance" enjoy kar sakein....but kambakht Adi-Imlie and their complicated lives....they aren't making it easy 😆.
If anyone actually bothered watching the storyline dhang se than fixating on "OMG, Adi-Imlie had a scene in candlelight, OMG Adi brought balloons for Imlie"😆, they'd see that Adi is constantly stating the clear need to state the truth and is trying whenever he can to bring it out.....he is not leading Malini on, he has stepped back from her and is constantly trying to figure out a solution with Imlie. The truth by this stage is even harder to reveal.....no one denies that is the one solution to resolve all of this....but just cuz characters struggle to reveal the truth doesn't make their emotions "gross".
People for some reason want to twist this into claiming that Adi-Imlie are deliberately "cheating" Malini as if they are both enjoying sneaking around behind her back. I find it strange that people expect Adi to behave like a robot who will not express any emotions for Imlie until everything is cleared up.....they are both in a very bizarre situation but they are not cheaters....they are both struggling with not wanting to hurt someone and wanting to reveal the truth....but at the same time, they are married (married first btw), they are in love with each other....why will they not express those emotions too at the bare minimum?
And let's talk about the truth....there isn't only just ONE truth in play here. The first truth is the truth of Adi-Imlie's marriage....which ofcourse is the biggest base point for the storyline. The other big truth is the truth of Adi himself....the man who has discovered for the first time in his life what HE actually is....what HE actually wants from his life. So if people talk about the truth, why be so selective? If Adi is expressing his truth to himself, to Imlie.....how is that the wrong thing and only other truths are right?
Again, no one is saying that Malini doesn't deserve to know the truth.....but at the same time, this presumption that Adi isn't trying to tell the truth, isn't trying to figure a way out is also faulty. And yes, Malini is not in some vacuum here....she herself isn't really trying to get to the truth, but hiding behind these lame games and guilt trips. So all the characters are contributing to the delay in the truth coming out.....yet somehow only Adi-Imlie are being considered the "cheaters" cuz how dare they express their emotions without resolving the Malini issue.😆
As I said, ultimately everyone wants to feel comfortable watching vanilla "romance"😆....but Adi-Imlie are not a typical comfortable journey.....their beauty lies in how they manage to have a purity about them even in the midst of such uncomfortable complications. I don't personally get the outrage over their recent scenes, but hey that's just me *shrugs*.....lol I'm finding it fascinating how they are navigating these complex emotions and so far the makers are still balancing it well despite how people want to mislabel these recent scenes😆.
Word on the bold..
I would have been the first one to call them cheaters, If they did not show remorse, did not show guilt, are not even talking how about how to handle the "Malini" angle and only indulging in romance. But their every conversation is about the truth, his guilt, her determination to not hurt Malini. Plus when you love someone, there is a possibility that you can flow in the spur of the moment but they have always stepped back. Its not that they do not have ample opportunity to do something if they want to. But even yesterday, when there was that tension and awkwardness, Aditya himself turned it into a conversation which he felt was more important to have, may be it was because of Imlie but he did stop and that is important. Why put labels on the emotions that should not be controlled but is been controlled? Why not see it as a simple act of spending time together and talking. Yes, there is playfulness, there are declarations, but is it wrong to do that when the person also admits to the fact that there is a bigger problem that needs to be resolved. Is it really wrong to give your wife a small gift that you have denied her for so long? Is it wrong to spend time with your wife that you have just started loving? if spending time with you wife is wrong, then what is right?May be the expectation is that they should not meet, talk or even look at each other till the truth is revealed and should dancing on Malini's tunes and wishes rather than act on their own.
Anyways, as you said, its really beautiful, how the makers are handling this delicate subject which has a chance to turn on it own on a slightest mistake. The conflicting emotions are coming out so well where your heart wants one thing but your mind is stopping you and its really rare to see such a thing in such a complicated situation.
Originally posted by: MuteButton
What is this confusion ab? Will try to catch up on posts in a while.
Agar kal Aditya khud se/ mann se sindoor bharega Imlie ke maang mein, tab “romance” allowed hai kya?
OMG You are cracking me up! Such a valid question!
I cannot wrap my head ki haat pakdna gross kab se ho gaya re baba!
Originally posted by: Lodestar
Hey Jennifer!!! Welcome to the forum!!!😊
I don't believe that it was love at first sight for Adi. It was more of a fascination/ subconscious attraction towards Imlie that he was feeling. That is why all the photos, spending time with her, easily divulging his personal information & thoughts,etc. It was like he met a kindred spirit in Imlie❤️.
Yes, I do remember that in epi 8 precap they had shown a scene with Adi clicking pictures of Imlie playing with kids in the rain. But they did not include it in the next epi. I think they didn't include it in the epi precisely because of the intense way in which he was watching Imlie during that scene. They might not have wanted to make his attraction towards Imlie obvious on the conscious level so early😆. But that's just my opinion😆.
The forced marriage with Imlie created a roadblock for their love story as well as became a vehicle for it at the same time. He had spent so little time with Imlie before forced marriage that there was no time for conscious feelings to develop for her. He really got to know her after their marriage only.
In the meanwhile he also got married to Malini who was in love with him & towards whom he felt obligation to fulfill his promise of marriage.
The process of him falling for Imlie subconsciously as well as getting distant from Malini both occured simultaneously after his marriages to both of them & the full realisation for his feelings for Imlie happened in the latest PD trip.
This is how I have interpreted the Adi-Imlie love story till now.
Thank you for the welcome!! ❤️❤️
Loved how you said this, him finding a kindred spirit in her.
Also the reason for not including the intense precap scene could be that it could be interpreted the wrong way. Now it all make sense, with Adi reiterating that he was never in love with Malini , but at that point of time it could easily be misconstrued by the audience. Also, the heartfelt conversation they has in the hut in the fateful rainy day, felt like if only they had met in different circumstances Adi might have realized their meeting was serendipitous.
Yes, the falling in love with Imlie and getting distant from Malini has happened in parallel. They have cemented the fact that Adi is in love with Imlie, but what’s confusing is what does Imlie feel beyond emotional sickness, her devotion to him and her being his ‘Meera’. Hope they show exactly what she feels for him in the upcoming episodes, and show that it’s beyond just devotion to him. I hope this part of the story is developed better than Adi realizing his love for Imlie (during Pd trip) because I personally felt he did n’t fight back enough against his feelings. And I felt that went against his character.
Adi's realization of his love for Imlie was RUSHED? 😕😆 This is news to me😆.
Once again, I think it's the unconventionality of these characters that some people seem to be struggling to comprehend. Is it "rushed" when you suppress the truth for so long and it hits you like a bolt of lightening? That is what happened with Adi....the truth was there all along...it took a moment of clarity for it to manifest for him. And how did he not struggle? LOL didn't he push back against his own alter ego initially? But he eventually realized it all in a moment when Imlie put it to him in stark terms ki yeh sab naatak hai.
Just cuz these characters don't have long winded realizations and confessions does not mean they are rushed......the beauty of these characters is in all that is visible in the unsaid, in their actions.....Adi's actions have been screaming his love/concern for Imlie for a long time.....he was unable to understand himself until he finally joined the dots in PD....doesn't mean he fell in love with PD....he simply got clarity there.
Imlie's feelings for him are very obvious too if anyone wants to look beyond the surface labels and denials😆. She has labeled it devotion since that is her social conditioning and she is a very innocent soul....but her love for him is obvious in all its shades....he is not some God/Pati Parmeshwar to her that she worshipfully loves.....he is a flawed man and she sees all his flaws and loves him with all his flaws......what she feels for him, what they share has a very raw/organic feel. Imlie will have her own journey to acceptance but that doesn't mean her feelings aren't already obvious too.
Man, I actually thought we were past the point of having to explain all this from scratch again😕😆.....but it's starting to feel like many people didn't really understand the PD track at all. Oh well.
Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli
Idk if it is me overthinking or they intended to show it this way but adi ka behavior at chaturvedis this time.was very reminiscent of his 2nd trip to PD where he behaved similarly with mithi it was just plain disgust over there then and now he showed the same exhaustion and annoyance with chaturvedis and was apni hi main mast.. it was beyond his usual levels of khadoospana haha 😄
Yes, there was always this disdain when he interacted with AC but this time his whole behavior was screaming formality and his whole focus was on protecting Imlie.
Waise why do he think he is so understanding of Papa Dev situation, he has not shown that disgust that he left his daughter and his monologues are Dev should spend time with Imlie... is it because of Imlie?
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