Pagdandiya ki Aafat - Page 10

Originally posted by: pamk06

i think we are so used to the one wife concept that it little difficult for some people to accept that both women have equal right or haq..(if they would shown him as a king from the old age then it might have been easy😆).. just because one marriage was forced and other of will does not mean one marriage is invalid and other valid. Both marriages were done with full rituals so really if one is invalid then other is too, if we are saying that rituals really do not decide the validity of marriage. (We should just have a court marriage and save lot of money😆)

Having said that, if we individually look at each marriage, forget reality but there are so many marriage in ITV itself, where leads do not claim haq as soon as the marriage is done. The whole premise of ITV is based on this love after marriage concept. Does that mean that when they actually start romancing they no longer should because the haq is gone.

I think it more easy to look at it if we see it as two different marriages, one that is going down the drain and one that is surviving the test of time. It is ok to realize that you are not in love with the person who you claim to be and it’s ok to realize that you have fallen in love with your wife after marriage. You cannot call it gross just because he is spending some time with his first wife without forgetting even for the second that there is second wife.

Not sure if people actually see the show because in the end all they were talking about is sacrifice for Malini so not sure what is gross in that 😆 them trying to suppress their feeling even when they are married.

Exactly. LOL and this is why I never understood why people acted like Adi-Malini spending time as husband-wife together wasn't valid....he DID marry her with full rituals too so at that point in time, they were within their rights as husband-wife to be that way with each other.

He married Imlie with all rituals too....so how come the rights become invalid only in Imlie's case?😆....just cuz he himself was in denial all this while doesn't mean those rights automatically got discounted forever......it would be "gross" if he was simultaneously trying to string along both of them....but he's not....he's stepped back from Malini the moment he realized what he actually feels. He's stepped towards Imlie because he's realizing that he's been unfair to her for so long by not giving her her valid rights as his wife whom he married with full rituals.

Yes, the two marriages situation is bizarre and even uncomfortable at many points😆.....but that doesn't make Adi-Imlie "gross" for expressing the emotions that were held back for so long. How is it that people suddenly forget what all Imlie was put through for no fault of hers? That she never got her due despite being his duly wedded wife? Woh sab conveniently bhool jaana hai logon ko just cuz Adi put on a show vis a vis his "feelings" for Malini.....lol if anyone bothered to watch the signs, they were obvious all along where his heart really lay....just cuz he was confused and dumb about it doesn't mean that he only NOW fell for Imlie😕😆

As you said, there can be different paths to love.....sometimes you realize after getting married that it was never really love. Sometimes you realize after getting married that this is indeed is love....so just cuz Adi realized only now that he's been in love with Imlie for so long, doesn't mean him expressing those emotions is wrong.

Again this thread is picking up speed.

Gotta sneak up and read during my day. 🤣

One thought on symbolisms and all that.

Malini brought darkness both at her home and today in her sasuraal as well. She entered her maayka after getting angry with Adi and trying to prove a point. On reaching there was a powercut, plunging the house into darkness. The house will be rocked and shaken with the coming revelations that will destroy all that they know.

Today, she entered her sasuraal on the sly, without anyone being made aware of her entry. Was it her insecurities at play here, trying to catch her hubby in the act of lying or just plain ignorance on not informing anyone.

She makes her way through the house in the darkness, trying to navigate her path with her phone to light her path.

Compare this to the scene of Adilie.

Adi was in darkness, his sunlight having dimmed for the day. 😆 Now Imlie brought a candle and she brings light to his life. On seeing her, his mood considerably lifted and his headache disappeared too. His mood changed from despondency, trying to untangle the mess he is in, to that of wooing his love, his wife.

All the softly spoken words were that of a man trying to woo his reluctant wife, who directly challenged him. when she said she was leaving the room. Now how could he resist the challenge from Imlie, he rose to the occasion admirably. He went all romantic to gauge her reaction and when he was satisfied with what he saw, he then toned it down and put her at ease, by asking about her feelings, crying over Rupi's song.

I feel the hand holding bit was edited poorly and we may get to see the continuation today. It was a bit disjointed with Malini's entry into the house and Adi holding Imlie's hand firmly. Could see that Imlie was feeling emotion sickness again due to his nearness. Despite her staunch denials, she is helpless when faced with the 1000 watts of Adi's charm and melts into a puddle at his words, his nearness.

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Oh yes....there are people who are wondering when did Adi-Imlie fall in love because they didn't have the typical love story progression. They are thinking that Adi has fallen in love with Imlie during the latest PD trip only. Before that he was in love with Malini. I want to know if they were even watching the episodes or just glancing through them.

Did they really think that Adi's fierce protectiveness for Imlie since the time he has met her was only because she was a zimmedari as labelled by Adi? I guess Adi was not the only one who was in denial.

I mean forget his outburst of emotions during the gunshot incident where nothing mattered to him but saving Imlie's life but how can they forget the bridge collapse incident where he broke all the protocols & rescued Imlie when Malini was literally calling out to him. He was literally busy rescuing other people while waiting for Malini to be rescued by the rescue team. Are these actions of a man in love with Malini? People's blindness to such obvious incidents astounds me.

Bingo😆....it's hilarious ki now suddenly this is all "gross" simply cuz Adi has consciously realized his feelings....but his actions were screaming his love for Imlie since way back....why was it not being called "EMA" then? 😆.....convenience ke hisaab se koi bhi label chipkaa lo without understanding the actual story/characters.

Re: TRPs....lol yes, no matter what the social media junta keeps cribbing, TRP junta has remained steady and loyal. As I say many times, people have connected to this as Imlie's journey....so no matter the complications, fundamentally most people want to see Imlie getting her due rights and justice being done with her. There is a reason the main montage shows her marriage as the backdrop.....so despite how people may want to twist it, TRP junta clearly sees Adi-Imlie as the destined pair who are now coming together after overcoming many odds.....that is the main stance....the story has clearly shown Adi-Imlie's pair getting blessing from God at every point too....so yeh "gross" ke labels log khud se hi daal rahe hain zabardasti.....lol

Originally posted by: Lodestar

Hi! This is my first post here in the forum, started watching the show just a month back and finally watched all episodes. The show has been amazing so far.

I understand that Adi has slowly and progressively fallen in love with Imlie, and the Pagdadia trip was just an eye opener for him and showed him his truth. But what I doubt is, was it love at first sight for Adi during his first trip to pagdandiya and he hasn’t realized it. He was enamored by her during the trip and spent all his time photographing her, he was enchanted by her playfulness and even gave her a nickname ‘jhalli’ in such a short span. There is even the precap after episode 8 which we never got to see in episode 9, of him shooting her dancing away in the rain with kids. That way he looks at her in that shot sort of made me think that he was in love with imlie all along. Or am I stretching it?

Would love to know what you all think?

Yaar whole day i spend on reading this thread as I am very slow reader. It goes so fast and difficult catch up. Now a days I am slacking work too. What is happening with me. Mujhe bhi emotion sickness hoye gava. Is threads se aur is show se.Show is addictive and this thread too

Damn you intellectuals😂😂😂😂😀😀🤗 it’s soo good to read all your analogies on each dialogue. Mind blowing yaar

Originally posted by: AreYaar

He's making it VERY obvious 😆.....if only the Ts and Cs CARED to notice😆.....but I guess Adi ki general garam khopdi reputation makes them think ki yeh bas apna usual khadoosness dikha raha hai, aur kuch nahin😆

@Pam: Yeah, that's what I meant too....ki Adi itna directly is saying things like you can't turn back the wheel of time and make things like they were before....but aage se Ts ka koi khaas reaction hi nahin aata....lol they've given up even asking him where he was those 4 days....maybe they think Malini came back home means that issue got resolved....lol but they can see right in front of their eyes, the tension and arguments b/w AM....phir bhi deliberate blindness rakhni hai😆.....all they do is guilt trip Adi ki tum theek se baat nahin kar rahe Malini se rather than trying to ask him on their own ki kya baat hai, where were you those 4 days, what are you feeling?

Idk if it is me overthinking or they intended to show it this way but adi ka behavior at chaturvedis this time.was very reminiscent of his 2nd trip to PD where he behaved similarly with mithi it was just plain disgust over there then and now he showed the same exhaustion and annoyance with chaturvedis and was apni hi main mast.. it was beyond his usual levels of khadoospana haha 😄

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Meant to reply to this kal, but getting to it now....Word on the bold.

Which brings me to another notable contrast....Adi-Imlie, even after disagreeing many times on various things, never come across as being distant from each other. As you pointed out here too, they are not even looking at each other in the end, they are looking in opposite directions but one never gets the sense ki inke rishte mein doori aa gayi hai simply cuz they are disagreeing or at a stalemate.....there is a togetherness even if they don't agree.

What a stark contrast to Adi-Malini where every disagreement is treated like it's the end of the world, "Aap mujhse door jaa rahe hain" is the instant conclusion to jump to any time there is an argument.....as if without agreement on every topic, there can't be any togetherness.

This is why Adi-Imlie are what they are.....they are in sync even when they are not in agreement😊.

Wohi toh.. they have never fertile.they aren't a unit. Even in the days when they were denying and were pushing each other away (well they still are) but you know when adi was in his this.is jhoot.zone too they never felt like they are apart evwrytime they had to do.something for the other it was always a unit feeling and yes they may not agree to something but they never seem far simply caz they chose to have disagreement like Normal humans and find it natural then wanting agreements all the time and my way or highway and then guilt trip the other for simply wanting to speak up .. so yeah they may have disagreement I thought that still bind them together caz they know that they have that basic right to.express here that understanding that their might not be agreement but there is a space for the voice.. and they only seem to.come.closer in soul more and more it is like jitna zyada argue kareinge utna zyada utna Kareeb paayemge ek dusre ko

I.later saw the small trail of tears in the last cap down their eyes both of them and it broke my heart but again so.poignant it was

Originally posted by: AreYaar

A thought worth pondering on.....if you don't claim your haq in time, does that mean your haq is gone forever?

Imlie is Adi's wife....she married him with all proper rituals in front of many witnesses. She had full rights on him as a wife but she hasn't claimed them yet....does that mean those rights are fully gone since he married Malini?

Is the logic here that all rights of a wife have automatically transferred to Malini for good and Imlie no longer has any rights as Adi's wife? So her spending any time with him anywhere is "gross"? 😆......I guess it really is very hard for people to process anything that doesn't come in the straightforward package of "This is wife, this is ex wife, this is girlfriend"😆.

Kaash Adi-Imlie would make it easier on everyone by being robots who don't feel anything until they get the "social sanction" to feel it.....despite the fact that they are married😆.

Right the same moral police won't find anything wrong in heroes kinexes coming with plots to ruin his current life wanting to.kill extract unreal revenge plans or the heroes just having a clear bharwali which is in most cases is there but oh no having married 2 people due to a very natural dilemma and confusion is all wrong.. forget about his need to clarify that truth dealing with the consequence but nope that is wrong. Since esp none of the 2 women are actively doing the kind of planning and plotting people are used to seeing. Waisa sab ho jaaye toh sabke loye easy ho jaaye samjhna ..let's just forget how far from reality it is . Yahaan the emotions are more day to day basis actual.conflicts of how do.you tell the truth how life makes you do things toh comprehension se bahaat ho raha hai caz real humans ke real.emotions are gross to.be shown. Imlie is selflessly stepping back while being married to.him first so that malini can be happy who also was victim of circumstance just as much as inlie is along with Aditya but nope that is her being some.husband snatching witch .. mehh

Sach hi hai people.these days Don't deserve such a show caz inke liye woh daayans naagins and lame robotic cliche romances hi sahin hain

Originally posted by: MuteButton

What is this confusion ab? Will try to catch up on posts in a while.

Agar kal Aditya khud se/ mann se sindoor bharega Imlie ke maang mein, tab “romance” allowed hai kya?

Nahin😛....Apparently ab no matter what Adi says or does, sab “EMA” and “gross” hai 😆. You aren’t allowed to point out that him and Imlie are actually married 😛. Apni hi biwi ka haath pakadna paap hai ab 🤣

Originally posted by: jenniferjune

Hi! This is my first post here in the forum, started watching the show just a month back and finally watched all episodes. The show has been amazing so far.

I understand that Adi has slowly and progressively fallen in love with Imlie, and the Pagdadia trip was just an eye opener for him and showed him his truth. But what I doubt is was it love at first sight for Adi during his first trip to pagdandiya and he hasn’t realized it. He was enamored but her during the trip and spent all his time photographing her, he was enchanted by her playfulness and even gave her a nickname ‘jhalli’ in such a short span. There is even the precap after episode 8 which we never got to see in episode 9, of him shooting her dancing away in the rain with kids. That way he looks at her in that shot sort of made me think that he was in love with imlie all along. Or am I stretching it?

Would love to know what you all think?

Hey Jennifer!!! Welcome to the forum!!!😊

I don't believe that it was love at first sight for Adi. It was more of a fascination/ subconscious attraction towards Imlie that he was feeling. That is why all the photos, spending time with her, easily divulging his personal information & thoughts,etc. It was like he met a kindred spirit in Imlie❤️.

Yes, I do remember that in epi 8 precap they had shown a scene with Adi clicking pictures of Imlie playing with kids in the rain. But they did not include it in the next epi. I think they didn't include it in the epi precisely because of the intense way in which he was watching Imlie during that scene. They might not have wanted to make his attraction towards Imlie obvious on the conscious level so early😆. But that's just my opinion😆.

The forced marriage with Imlie created a roadblock for their love story as well as became a vehicle for it at the same time. He had spent so little time with Imlie before forced marriage that there was no time for conscious feelings to develop for her. He really got to know her after their marriage only.

In the meanwhile he also got married to Malini who was in love with him & towards whom he felt obligation to fulfill his promise of marriage.

The process of him falling for Imlie subconsciously as well as getting distant from Malini both occured simultaneously after his marriages to both of them & the full realisation for his feelings for Imlie happened in the latest PD trip.

This is how I have interpreted the Adi-Imlie love story till now.