Ankita Lokande rejected films to support Sushant - Page 9

Originally posted by: Terenaina

if you read about anxiety, some can have anxiety without cause, reason or any other illness. Read about anxiety and you’ll know more about it. You can have anxiety without depression and without having any other disease

I have personally witnessed it and still do, if it doesn't go away and takes over. It most surely will cause depression

I might be cynical but Ankita doesn't respect the memory of Sushant. There was a lot of chaos around the case but the way this woman came and tried to bank off of Sushant's death, truly shocked me.

If she indeed truly loved him, she wouldn't try to be in the news by zabardasti inserting herself in all the drama.

But that's just my opinion

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

I have personally witnessed it and still do, if it doesn't go away and takes over. It most surely will cause depression

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

I have personally witnessed it and still do, if it doesn't go away and takes over. It most surely will cause depression

Sometimes you wake up at night in cold sweats

Originally posted by: Terenaina

He had anxiety years ago, never depression per his doctors who saw him. He became depressed 6 months before he died per articles printed. A lot people get anxiety it’s not mental sickness. Ankita was with him, he was fine. They should’ve stayed together and worked out the problems they had. Like I said ankita should’ve been that independent working humble woman she is today with ssr, they would’ve gotten married. She wanted to be a housewife which is her choice but I think Vicky got the ankita that ssr wanted

Anxiety as in being anxious is not a mental illness, but anxiety disorders, which is what people would get treatment for, etc. is a recognized group of psychopathologies. And a comorbidity of anxiety disorders is depression. In fact some studies now suggest that heritable deficiencies in neurotransmitters like GABA can be linked to both anxiety and depression. Even if Ankita had stayed with him, he could have still developed depression. Your relationships may help you overcome depression and to cope, but they aren’t necessarily prohibitive. I will agree with you though that Ankita seems to have become the version of herself that SSR wanted after their breakup. Who knows, maybe that’s what she needed and they would have reconciled?

It seems like Ankita fell into the pattern that a LOT of young women, especially South Asian women do. She thought, well I can see myself marrying this man, so he should be my first priority. Instead of focusing on her own life, she made herself and her ambition small, so she could make SSR feel big. But then when you do that there’s naturally some resentment, even if it is mostly subconscious. So then she wanted more commitment from him, while he’s wondering where the independent woman he loved went, and who this clingy person is. In the end that made him end the relationship and that’s why she resents him still on some level even today, even though she loves him.

The complicated factor in all of this is how she acted as though she knew best, even years after they broke up, when he died. She contributed to the shaming and harassment of Rhea as a gold digger, when really it seems like Rhea was also ambitious and SSR probably liked that. She made comments on his mental state as though they were frequently in touch, and completely disregarded the dangerous actions of his family while painting Rhea as a villain and herself as someone who lost the love of her life. Now it just seems like since the sympathy has died down she’s bringing up a dead man for attention. And that may not be the case, but it’s a really bad look.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

I might be cynical but Ankita doesn't respect the memory of Sushant. There was a lot of chaos around the case but the way this woman came and tried to bank off of Sushant's death, truly shocked me.

If she indeed truly loved him, she wouldn't try to be in the news by zabardasti inserting herself in all the drama.

But that's just my opinion

Not just her. Nobody cares about him, including his own family. They all just want to use his memory to fulfill their own agendas. :(

Originally posted by: ..Kavi..

It seems like Ankita fell into the pattern that a LOT of young women, especially South Asian women do. She thought, well I can see myself marrying this man, so he should be my first priority. Instead of focusing on her own life, she made herself and her ambition small, so she could make SSR feel big. But then when you do that there’s naturally some resentment, even if it is mostly subconscious. So then she wanted more commitment from him, while he’s wondering where the independent woman he loved went, and who this clingy person is. In the end that made him end the relationship and that’s why she resents him still on some level even today, even though she loves him.

The complicated factor in all of this is how she acted as though she knew best, even years after they broke up, when he died. She contributed to the shaming and harassment of Rhea as a gold digger, when really it seems like Rhea was also ambitious and SSR probably liked that. She made comments on his mental state as though they were frequently in touch, and completely disregarded the dangerous actions of his family while painting Rhea as a villain and herself as someone who lost the love of her life. Now it just seems like since the sympathy has died down she’s bringing up a dead man for attention. And that may not be the case, but it’s a really bad look.

I agree with the first para. It's sad that most women ( or people) who make their love life the only purpose of their existence and their partner center of their universe don't realise how it can be suffocating for their partner. You start off as a talented, independent, ambitious woman with your own career and life but on the way you lose all of that and just become a mushy teenager in love. Also they may not realise but this "happy" phase is very short lived and it never ends well, they will eventually start resenting that their partner is not equally devoted to them even after all that they have done for them. It's not at all healthy for relationship in long term.

I doubt had they not broken up abruptly in 2016, they would still be together. There has been a drastic change in Ankita post breakup, it's sad that she still doesn't realise or regret that she has an equal ( if not more) part to play in her broken relationship.

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

Not just her. Nobody cares about him, including his own family. They all just want to use his memory to fulfill their own agendas. :(

Ekdum sach bola. They're all using this case for their own motives. Pretty sad to see how no one of them seems to respect his memory. Such selfish people