Babusahib struggling with choppy waters - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Obviously she is registering stuff....lol woh toh doubt mein hai hi nahin. But she is still continuing with twisted martyr tactics instead of actually trying to communicate with Adi.

She very well can see he's not the same with her anymore and is not responding to her as he usually does....but she would rather keep making that stricken/martyr face than really try to figure out a way to communicate with him.

I think this time it was more about the way he extracted himself from that hug that she registered. Followed by the fact that he did not answer her one question. That is reason why she gave in and returned also I thought.

She has always tried to play a martyr also no. That murga scene was cringeworthy. I think I replied to someone else on this thread that even when she tried to come off mahaan in that by saying it’s all fine, I thought it came out snide/ passive aggressive.

Anyway, if Aditya already has this big red line drawn, how are they going to show Malini being ok with it? Like that is the first thing a wife should notice. Especially when the marriage is not even a year old. Will they bring it up at all in her thought process...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Like with all things in this story, I think that poem's truth will be revealed to Adi in a most unexpected manner only😆.....right now I don't see why he would go seeking out that diary or that poem cuz he currently thinks Malini wrote it, no? 😆

Diary? 🤓Woh diary toh blank thi na like the famous KHNH scene. The poem was never written in any diary, so Adi usme kya find karega😆

Haha at you imagining Adi writing poetry for Imlie.....I don't want him to recite something formalized with flowery crap for her. Imlie's poem was so endearing precisely cuz it was simple in nature and more about that sense of pyar bhari shikaayat in it😆. Agar Adi ko Imlie ke liye kuch recite karna hai, it should be in the same vein. But I don't think Adi is the poetry type....woh shuru se Imlie ka talent dikhaya hai😆

Oh no not flowery description but a genuine few things describing her in an endearing manner😆It can be in the same vein as Imlie's poem.

Yes poetry has always been shown as Imlie's talent. But you never know if BS also has this hunar because he does seem to have a genuine appreciation & understanding of poems.

Let's see if any of this khayali pulao comes to actual fruition. Sochne me kya jaata hai😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

Waise, I thought he called her Mun and not Moon. Not that I know what Mun means. Is that not how it sounds?

Moon or Mun are both Moon right... Like he is the sun and she is moon....He is this bomb that can blast anytime like the sun and she is calm and quiet Moon that always silent and provides the calming effect to him and their relationship or she is as beautiful as the Moon

Originally posted by: pamk06

I look at it as a double game. On the face, she showed Aditya and the family, that everything is fine and forgotten, that there are no issues whatsoever. Even if he did not say sorry, I am Ok because my relationship is important to me. But internally nothing is resolved. She is still doubting , not trusting, not happy and it comes out in this subtle taunts, and sadness which she has used has time and again, to keep him in line. But the difference now is that previously Aditya used to immediately go into a reaction mode to appease her but now he is just ignoring or using silence and that definitely is registering.

Aditya not giving her the medicine, ignoring the medicine, ignoring her during that phone call were all flags to her and hence she could not let it go till she confirmed about the call. This makes me think that this is not recent, a person cannot just become like this in a day. She might be this way in the past too but because Aditya was so committed to her that it never became an issue. Now is a totally different story.

Yes, and it's making her look manipulative actually no matter how much the makers try to whitewash her actions and paint her a bechaari.

As you said, it's making her look two-faced cuz she's trying to give the impression to Adi and the family that she is being the bigger person and "forgiving" Adi's mistakes but internally nothing is resolved and she's not even trying to resolve it in good faith.....aise underhanded taunts about "main khud dawaai le lungi" and all ka kya matlab hai if you truly came back to try and solve the problems in your relationship?

Simply showing her token regrets about "Oh why did I check Adi's phone, I should have trusted him" are not enough.....the bechaari bahu act may work with the Tripathis who are dumb enough as it is....lol but it's not going to work on us as the audience.

As you said, this isn't a new Malini coming out...this was all always under the surface...it's now been triggered to become more obvious cuz Adi isn't giving her the usual level of coddling assurances that she had become used to bring him to heel in many ways.

Ultimately they will never make her the typical negative/grey character....but all these weird twisted things they are currently showing with her are just as tiresome in a different way....lol matlab insaan waise achha ho sakta hai but insecurity mein kitni twisted cheezein bhi kar sakta hai to try and hold on to someone.

Originally posted by: pamk06

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Moon or Mun are both Moon right... Like he is the sun and she is moon....He is this bomb that can blast anytime like the sun and she is calm and quiet Moon that always silent and provides the calming effect to him and their relationship or she is as beautiful as the Moon

We got schooled in Bengali today 😆 Did not know Mun meant Moon 😆

Originally posted by: MuteButton

I think this time it was more about the way he extracted himself from that hug that she registered. Followed by the fact that he did not answer her one question. That is reason why she gave in and returned also I thought.

She has always tried to play a martyr also no. That murga scene was cringeworthy. I think I replied to someone else on this thread that even when she tried to come off mahaan in that by saying it’s all fine, I thought it came out snide/ passive aggressive.

Anyway, if Aditya already has this big red line drawn, how are they going to show Malini being ok with it? Like that is the first thing a wife should notice. Especially when the marriage is not even a year old. Will they bring it up at all in her thought process...

I guess it’s going to be similar to the reason why she returned to his house, no?

She can see he has drawn a line between them emotionally and now physically too but isn’t giving her any answers for why. Despite all this, she will continue to stay with him coz in her mind she seems to think that if she keeps staying with him, answers will be given eventually.

Also, this satisfies her martyr complex that even though he is not giving her anything as a husband but token concern, she is still staying with him and trying to “keep their relationship together” 😆.

Looks like going ahead, she will resign herself to him being physically distant from her even in their room 😆....and will keep telling herself to suck it up and keep fighting for their relationship 🤷‍♀️.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I guess it’s going to be similar to the reason why she returned to his house, no?

She can see he has drawn a line between them emotionally and now physically too but isn’t giving her any answers for why. Despite all this, she will continue to stay with him coz in her mind she seems to think that if she keeps staying with him, answers will be given eventually.

Also, this satisfies her martyr complex that even though he is not giving her anything as a husband but token concern, she is still staying with him and trying to “keep their relationship together” 😆.

Looks like going ahead, she will resign herself to him being physically distant from her even in their room 😆....and will keep telling herself to suck it up and keep fighting for their relationship 🤷‍♀️.

I just hope she doesn't go & complain to her in laws or her mother about it😆.

Because she has been such a snitch before where she complains about every little difference in their relationship to everyone.

That would be disastrous🥱

Or she may finally plan a honeymoon trip😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOLL yes, that is why we are noticing it instantly...cuz we've all been conditioned to EXPECT his Moon jaap in such situations 😆.....whenever there is a pause from her, he jumps to fill it in with Moon jaap and some kind of heavy duty assurances.....but this time, whenever she paused with that expectation, Adi didn't give her that....so it was a MAJOR shift.

Adi couldn't tell her the truth but at the same time, he also stopped telling her the lies he's been telling her all this time....because he's now consciously realized that those are not his true emotions....she is not "Moon" to him now....he can't give her assurances he doesn't feel genuinely anymore.....and that is why it felt like he just became frozen in this suspended state....na aage badh sakta hai na peechhe jaa sakta hai. He isn't being able to move forward in life or being able to go back to the way he was before.

These stuck wheels will now only turn with Imlie's return😆

Shift and what a shift and you were so right that he will just go 0 to 100.....😆.. We kept expecting that it would be a slow ride but well, I think we just expect the unexpected from him.

So true, till he believed in his feelings for her, he was totally committed to her and he never even entertained the thought of Imlie. Now that he knows that things are different, that his feelings are different, he cannot do the things that were so natural to him in the past. He was just there because he has not choice. He knows what he wants and what he does not want but does not know how to fix it so he just wants to stay in limbo....Totally agree, only Imlie's return can given him the motivation to start moving forward. When he sees her in front of him and realizes what he is missing then he will step out of his "majdaar" that he wants to fall in 😆

I think we will again have one more conversation with editor saab because his words have a good impact on Aditya. Unki wajah se PD pahuch gaya, unki wajah he still stuck on the "naav" thing and hopefully unki wajah he will know how to fix things. Imlie will be the motivation, editor the advisor, BBSB's life is all set. 😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL he just looked TIRED in that scene with Malini....yeah he seemed concerned for her health but sach mein ekdum jaise koi general haal-chaal puchhta hai, usse zyada nahin kar paa raha tha. Upar se Malini was going overboard with her, "Kabhi koi mera bhi khayaal rakhe stuff"🤔......matlab aise bol bol ke kisi se care karvaani pade toh phir kya faayda, didi? Kab samjhengi yeh? Smh

She's SO twisted....ek hi scene mein kitna kuch kar gayi....lol reproach bhi kar diya Adi ko ki chahti hai woh uska khayaal rakhe, phir next breath mein bol diya ki she's fine....phir bol diya ki mann mein darr hai, phir yeh bhi bol diya ki Adi ke na bataa paane ki wajah bhi sacchi hogi😕....my god, the whiplash watching her these days is😆

And super LOL@ Adi still being dumb enough to think that Malini has already forgiven him so easily simply cuz now she's putting up this nautanki of "wajah sacchi hogi"😆.....woh jo ghar chhod ke apne maayke baithi hai, woh sab "easily forgiving" ka part tha, Babusahib? 😆

Sach main 😆 he was like jaldi karo man I don't have time for this bakwaas boriya bistar uthao chalo.. his patience was on all time low with malini ji.. so he hardly reached on her cheesy mera khyal rakho time statements too..

Ek toh 🤪 at her mera dil karta hai koi khayal rakhe..behan kitna khayal rakhe koi start se sab aapki hi chakri kar rahe hain kabhi aapne khayal rakha kisi ka but nahi..

@ bold lol adi ke liye yeh itni baymaaiyani ho gayi hai ke kyon aayi kab aayi kaise aayi kaise gayi he is really not intrested in finding out.. and offering solutions 😆 any other day he would have atpeast asked ke yeh kya tha aise toh nahi chodna chahiye tha ghar but at this point he was like do hell with ya..

I can't stop laughing at his calling her zimmedari over and over in his head now even in that bed scene 😆 ke PD main mera pyaar hai and yahan zimmedari hahah

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL yeah it takes a special brand of delusion to be this much bailbuddhi😆.....7 saal mein "aap" se aage nahin badh paaye but FOREVER pyar ki deengein toh aisi maarte the Malini ko jaise inhone pyar pe PhD ki hui hai😆.

See this is why more than sympathy for him, I just burst out laughing when he freaks out over Malini getting close to him now......he has said and done SO many over the top things when he had no clue what he was talking about.....woh Malini ke FBs se yaad aaya woh dumb earring scene also where he told her sona kundan ban jaayega or something🤣.....kya kya flowery mushy crap bola hai isne that didn't even come from a genuine place.....aap se tum na ho sakaa par sona/kundan jaise dialogue khud se aa gaye iske dimaag mein?😆.....lol kabhi bataayega yeh ki isne kyun woh sab bola? 😆.....ki woh bhi I guess kisi aur ko point out karna padega ki Adi ko LAGAA use pyar hai Malini se aur pyar mein log yehi sab baatein bolte hain😆.

Bailbhuddhi filming romance karta tha ke yeh cheesy baatein bolne se love zyada deep hoga..aisi baatein jo isse matlab bhi shayad nahi pata tha bas flow main nikalti thi🤣 Funny thing is iss sab ke baad bhi.malini bolti thi yeh romantic nahi hai aur kitna cheese chahiye madam ko 😆 I am curious to know yeh sach main kahan se seeks ke aata tha aisi faltu extra ott romantic baatein..waise if I am correct toh yeh jhumka scene main imlie bhi thi ssatb shopping pe.toh shayad usko dikhane ke liye extra bakwaas kar raha tha

On a slightly related note.....along with being unable to call her "Moon" anymore, he has also stopped making statements like "Malini humaari patni hai"😆....warna yeh bhi reflex thought aata tha iske dimaag mein during every guilt trip😆.....woh bridge incident ke baad bhi when AC taunted him ki kaun rakhega meri beti ka khayaal toh Adi ne yehi bola tha ki woh humaari patni hain, hum rakhenge unka khayaal.....lol..maybe it's just been one epi so I should wait to see if this continues aage.....but right now they seem to be deliberately avoiding showing Adi calling Malini his wife either😆. Abhi full focus PYAR waale angle pe daal diya hai ki Adi is struggling to tell the truth about him now being in love with Imlie.

Oh I hope they continue with this...I like ke he is referring to her as zimmedari.. biwi bol dia toh ajeeb hi ho jaayega