Ankita Lokande rejected films to support Sushant - Page 6

Originally posted by: myviewprem

Like in family elder son or a daughter is sent to work to support family while younger ones study more and pursue dreams at cost of that one sibling

Than once other siblings study and go up in life they disrespect same sibling whose salary they used to fund their education and hostel fees etc

This happens very frequently in family even now in india or asia

Of course nowadays gen is very clever and not like past to support family and siblings nbut some are still there who give up their dreams for family and than regret after wards

Originally posted by: ninny

Oh well I don't see why he wouldn't do it then.. I still feel RS and DP were SLB's first choice.

Originally posted by: ninny

Umm I don't exactly understand what you meant here by sacrifices.... My point was just that she is unintentionally being unfair to a person who is no more.. If She was too much invested in the relationship and made him center of her universe then that is on her.. If she regrets that then it's fine too but by saying he just left for his career ( without telling what lead to that) or how she gave up movies because she was building him.. She is giving very small part of the entire scenario.. We don't know why he left, what were his reasons and why she felt the need to not work.. Indirectly she has pinned entire blame on him and his career which is so wrong. It's unfortunate that she gets trolled for his death and people can't bear the fact that she has moved on with someone else but she should have addressed that instead of sharing that one sided story.

I’m talking in general, no one does anything for anyone unless they get something in return or they don’t have a choice.

The only plausible reason I think they broke up though was any man living in for 6-7 years and not ready to get married; for a woman it’s different, they age faster and they need to settle down. I’m pretty sure she must have wanted to settle down with her family as well pressurising her , but seemed like Sushant was either not ready at the time or was busy with his movies.. and marriage was not on the cards for him. She may have felt betrayed for whatever reason. In a relationship two people can feel and expect differently. She may have been serious; he might have not been that committed to her.. it happens..

Originally posted by: Terenaina

] I gave up my career for blood family related relatives like siblings to support them and yes you regret it but it’s your family at the end of the day. But here it’s boyfriend it’s different you can’t take risk for bf. I think she needed a break from work which is fine

The other day I was reading or listening something like this.. that many siblings sacrifice for their younger ones and when they get educated they don’t treat them well; there was a Hindi movie too I think with Rajesh khanna..

Used to happen a lot.

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

I’m talking in general, no one does anything for anyone unless they get something in return or they don’t have a choice.

The only plausible reason I think they broke up though was any man living in for 6-7 years and not ready to get married; for a woman it’s different, they age faster and they need to settle down. I’m pretty sure she must have wanted to settle down with her family as well pressurising her , but seemed like Sushant was either not ready at the time or was busy with his movies.. and marriage was not on the cards for him. She may have felt betrayed for whatever reason. In a relationship two people can feel and expect differently. She may have been serious; he might have not been that committed to her.. it happens..

I don't think he was not that committed to her. He looked like very much in love with her in his interviews when he used to describe how important Ankita has been in his life. I do feel they both were very much emotionally dependent on each other because they have been 24x7 together since they first met..Imagine being with a person fir 12 hours on set and then going home together.When you are this close the other person almost become a part of you. In fact there are lot of things you will see similar in Ankita and Sushant's expressions if you ever watch their interviews separately. Growing together, becoming famous together, buying a house, they were already a family and he felt content in that.. In fact it looked like they would have gotten married by end of 2016 or 2017 had they not broken up because he never shied away from declaring that he wants to marry. But something definitely changed in last few years and I can understand if Ankita is bitter about the breakup because Sushant was very cold and indifferent.. His behaviour post breakup had been disappointing I would admit.

Originally posted by: ninny

I don't think he was not that committed to her. He looked like very much in love with her in his interviews when he used to describe how important Ankita has been in his life. I do feel they both were very much emotionally dependent on each other because they have been 24x7 together since they first met..Imagine being with a person fir 12 hours on set and then going home together.When you are this close the other person almost become a part of you. In fact there are lot of things you will see similar in Ankita and Sushant's expressions if you ever watch their interviews separately. Growing together, becoming famous together, buying a house, they were already a family and he felt content in that.. In fact it looked like they would have gotten married by end of 2016 or 2017 had they not broken up because he never shied away from declaring that he wants to marry. But something definitely changed in last few years and I can understand if Ankita is bitter about the breakup because Sushant was very cold and indifferent.. His behaviour post breakup had been disappointing I would admit.

6-7 years mean nothing.: people evolve and change with time, what people want in life changes..

People even separate after 20 years of a happy married life

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

6-7 years mean nothing.: people evolve and change with time, what people want in life changes..

People even separate after 20 years of a happy married life

Yup and it's beyond me how after living with someone for that long you can let go so easily.. People may not realise but it affects them.

Originally posted by: ninny

Yup and it's beyond me how after living with someone for that long you can let go so easily.. People may not realise but it affects them.

It only ever looks easy from the outside. Rarely do any couples just break up after being together so long. It takes years of build up and usually quite a bit of trying and failing before packing it in.

https://indianexpress.com/article/entertainment/bollywood/sushant-singh-rajput-death-cbi-probe-6579601/

According to his brother in law, in 2009 he told them he was feeling strange. In 2013 he went to his family and told them he wanted to quit acting. His sisters said he felt very low and sought psychiatric help in 2013. Yet Ankita said there was no history of depression. Either she's lying, ignored the signs or he hid it from her. Either way that denotes cracks in a relationship. Cracks that maybe by 2016 caused the end of it.

Originally posted by: Talis

It only ever looks easy from the outside. Rarely do any couples just break up after being together so long. It takes years of build up and usually quite a bit of trying and failing before packing it in.

https://indianexpress.com/article/entertainment/bollywood/sushant-singh-rajput-death-cbi-probe-6579601/

According to his brother in law, in 2009 he told them he was feeling strange. In 2013 he went to his family and told them he wanted to quit acting. His sisters said he felt very low and sought psychiatric help in 2013. Yet Ankita said there was no history of depression. Either she's lying, ignored the signs or he hid it from her. Either way that denotes cracks in a relationship. Cracks that maybe by 2016 caused the end of it.

Well who knows what exactly he was going through.. To me it seems more like his mental health deteriorated around mid 2018 and kept getting worse after that.. He did go and meet psychiatrist around 2013 for anxiety ( which seems like it's genetic in his family) but the doctor himself revealed he wasn't diagnosed with depression. Who knows how serious it was then and maybe he kept it to himself.I mean she had no reason to lie on National TV she did say might get anxious but he was never depressed or on medication when he was with her which is true. Also, After that it was his golden period in the industry where he was not only a rising star but also there was barely any negative press around him.

Originally posted by: Talis

It only ever looks easy from the outside. Rarely do any couples just break up after being together so long. It takes years of build up and usually quite a bit of trying and failing before packing it in.

https://indianexpress.com/article/entertainment/bollywood/sushant-singh-rajput-death-cbi-probe-6579601/

According to his brother in law, in 2009 he told them he was feeling strange. In 2013 he went to his family and told them he wanted to quit acting. His sisters said he felt very low and sought psychiatric help in 2013. Yet Ankita said there was no history of depression. Either she's lying, ignored the signs or he hid it from her. Either way that denotes cracks in a relationship. Cracks that maybe by 2016 caused the end of it.

I think it can also happen that between a couple, one person is happy and is under the illusion that they are a happy couple.. and if you ask their better half they will say that they don’t have a happy married/ relationship or life. Some people either expect too much or take too much in a relationship/ want something different and other partner is aloof to their needs (could have to do with personality of both partners; they are unable to understand each other). Could also be cultural factors- it does impact the way people behave or understand each other. Like Maharashtrians are pretty straightforward in their nature, with Biharis, UPites, you have to read between the lines in order to actually understand what is being conveyed..everywhere it’s different..

For all we know, she may not be lying and was blissfully unaware of what was really going on with him, me may have only “looked” happy but may have wanted to part ways, we will never know. A depressed person doesn’t have a face or an expression that can be read through.