Jealous waale Babusahib - Page 17

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. And generate the light toh chhodo, he goes out of his way to dim the light....and still he expects Imlie to give him all the regard in the world.....lol what a spoilt brat you are, Babusahib.

And good point....as usual he got busy in his own confusions and forgot that poor Imlie also hasn't eaten since morning since she's running around for her study notes.....the collateral damage of his inability to understand or manage his emotions keeps adding up....and Imlie is always the one at the receiving end. So yeah, he has a LOT more to make up for than just asking her to marry someone else😆.

He needs to at the least shut up with the "illegal" crap if nothing else...if it's illegal to you, toh theek hai na, tumse kaun puchh raha hai? Did she ask you to make it legal? Tum itna kyun uchhal rahe ho? 😆.....and agar illegal hai toh stop declaring it to be some "absolute truth" in public every other day🤔😆.....can't have it both ways. At the very least, she should ask him to pick a stance on the shaadi and stick to it😆.

Imlie is being too nice to her BS.First of all,it’s not illegal because you go every day and tell someone or other that she is your wife.As I pointed out before,the scene after the exam he could have said anything from she is my friend or she works at my house to my family member but no the answer was woh meri patni hai!The villagers weren’t there,who was he trying to fool?

No matter how much he apologize,Imlie should ask him to pick a stance and stick with it.But I suppose what they are trying to show is a character who have subconsciously accepted her as his wife but he is unable to accept it consciously as he is not able to fully face repercussions of his actions.But that does not mean he can be a pendulum and go back forth.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

That's that .. rest not like one can respect the other fellow members and leave them alone .. I consider that harassment where you can't give the mental peace to some of us to talk about the show wee are watching without distractions

Exactly. Thank you for pointing out the difference between harassment and “hate”.

Unfortunate how the atmosphere here has been ruined. Anyways, people are welcome to enjoy the rest of their weekend with those they find mature.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Bringing this from the last thrad but idk I have fallen in love with this still ..and the feeling keeps growing the more I look at it.. so much going on in this little bit.. itna out and out push and pull😆

😉 such a beautiful moment full with so much tehraav.. can we got more such moments Plz.. this is the kind of stuff pulls me towards this show and makes me want to continue

As of right now this scene and the scene where they meet for the first time after he lands in PD are at the top for me. So many emotions, so much want, the push and pull of it 😆

I love how perfectly this cap captures current dynamics though... Imlie is doing everything she can to pull away while facing this relationship head on. Even if it does pain her to pull away, she'll do it because she needs to. Whereas BBS (this could easily stand for BailBuddhi Saab which I love) is holding on for dear life, but he doesn't know why. He's trying to avoid the truth of this relationship but his actions show it so clearly what he actually desires..

Every time BBS does an action, I think of it as him dropping or removing another brick in the wall he's built around himself. The grand declarations, the actions, all of it isn't for her yet. It's for him to dismantle that internal block. Sadly, every time he manages to remove his own block, he's slowly building up her walls because he's not focusing on her. That's strange in a way because all of this is for Imlie to be near him, but he's not thinking about her, he's still stewing in his own confusion and turmoil...

I don't think this is the kind of guy who can ever do for her what she's done for him though so how does he atone for all this? 🤔

Let’s all take a step back and see what the actual problem is. There is a set of people who are looking at the story for what it is and then there is a set of people who are looking at it for what they want it to be. There is no harm is extrapolating situations to what could happen, reasonable to do that. When it starts turning into a headache is if people start repeating the same fear over and over again especially related to who the main lead is going to be or not be or willing the female lead to be with ten other people. Everything that stems from it just deviates the topic unnecessarily for everyone in the current thread.

And it is not like people are bullying anyone because other threads on these topics are getting responses too. Everyone has been been pretty respectful everywhere in this forum.

Peace out and be mindful of each other everyone. Democracy hai. Not everyone has to speak to everyone.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. Thank you for pointing out the difference between harassment and “hate”.

Unfortunate how the atmosphere here has been ruined. Anyways, people are welcome to enjoy the rest of their weekend with those they find mature.

Sure the mature discussions that only consists of fiction based assumptions and imlie should hook up with any living thing and some Malayalam version.. thought this was a forum for hindi version but clearly our maturity is really not upto the mark .. I didn't knew we were meant to discuss everything else besides discussing the hindi characters and hindi show.. my bad.. but then am immature na

Happy weekend to all and sorry for disturbing your mature talks in the forum with our immaturity

Originally posted by: tellyme

Most people here Adilie fan.. And threads are made for people to post their views.. Why is so much hatered among people here and surprisingly when all are Adilie fans... Just because the way of expressing is different... It's like my thread write my language or just leave.. Why do people want to write in their thread as per their wish.. Threads should be healthy and open to take views of all in all different ways.. If you don't like any post ignore it... But asking one to not come to thread looks like grouping up and bullying... I suggest that let's open up and accept everyone view and ways of expression how much different it is from ours..

I love the analysis in these threads and come regularly to read them... But when threads are so mature can we not be mature enough to be little tolerant.. Sorry if I have hurt anyone but intention is of peace in forum as it will make it healthy.. That's my POV...

Thank you for standing up against the obvious bullying but let's just leave her and her pseudo maturity. When I praised her for her awesome analysis she felt offended. I know that posting in someone's thread is not against any rules. She can complain against me, like I care. But thank you. People like you are so pure.❤️ She thinks my posts are spam.😂😂😂 This is her maturity when my discussions are clearly related to the show and Adilie.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: Exactly. He's done this so often in front of Imlie now that no one can blame her for thinking he's just trying to play the hero but doesn't really mean any of this stuff. As she rightly pointed out in that argument, a lot of this is stemming from his own need to assuage his guilt or shame.....and that isn't fair to her.

If he wants to apologize and atone, it should be from a place of genuinely trying to make amends to her.....not from just wanting to make himself feel better.

And again, it's fine if he isn't ready to face his own truth yet and realization is a ways away....but in the interim, he needs to realize why his words are beginning to lose meaning in these casual back and forth flips.....it's best he not even touch the subject if he doesn't know what he feels about how much of this marriage/relationship is his "absolute truth" now. Instead he makes it worse by making grand claims and then trying to show that he's doing it all as a favor to her.....lol yeah I know he's just using that as smokescreens but show him struggling with it a bit please....don't make it so casual at this stage.

And to think he is supposedly a serious journalist. Someone who has such a close relationship with words has no clue what their impact could be on those closest to him. Imlie will be absolutely right to close the door at this guy, similar to how he did it the first day she came home. Life will come a full circle.

But will he stop ever though? He does seem to be the kind who will continue this guilt shaming forever with Imlie even if the equation changes. And as impulsive as his apologies are, so are the things he does to make up for those. Like when he apologized during the sadak ki dhool time and immediately decided he should take her into his room and baat khatam. Iss ghode pe lagaam nahin lagne wala lagta hai

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, based on the way they showed him comparing his feelings for Malini with Imlie in this epi, it did seem like the writers are opening the door to a new phase.....that of Adi actively comparing the two.....yeah he's generally a 0 or 100 kinda guy but this realization doesn't seem like it's going to go that way.....it would be too quick a jump from him thinking one time about how he feels differently for Imlie v/s how he ever managed to feel for Malini and directly jump to a full realization.....7 years of delusions....heck his whole life of delusions will take time to be broken down I guess.

Right now the truth is knocking at the door of his mind but as he told Imlie also, he will keep denying it....in that sense, as Fary said in one of her posts too....lol it's quite something that he does end up blurting out some honest things about how he will conduct his denial even as he's building his castle of lies overall😆.

Re: NN giving him a reason....yeah I also think it was another one of those events where luck favored him to make him a "hero" instead of the villain😆.....problem started cuz of him only when he lashed out at Imlie....but end mein hero ban gaya kyunki sabke saamne badi declarations kar di to support her when he only was the one to call their marriage illegal.....lol yeah ok maybe he also felt some sense of "realization" as he was saying zaroorat....but unless he follows up on thinking about it, confirming it in the next epi, it will be another one of those things that get rendered pointless as something he just said in the moment😆.

I think the walls are already up pretty clearly in Imlie's mind vis a vis considering him belonging to Malini.....she's already resigned herself to managing it all alone.....he's done an effective job with all the Malini PDA, taking Malini's name after the snakebite....lol and then yes, never leaving a chance to call the marriage illegal. Some days back we were discussing in one of the threads maybe that he wants Imlie to call him her pati.....well, has he ever said to Imlie's face ki TUM humaari patni ho? 😆.....he goes around telling all manner of random strangers ki Imlie uski patni hai....bas Imlie ko kabhi nahin bolta....cuz telling Imlie would be like admitting it to himself....she's that mirror for him right now that he wants to hide from......so sorry Babusahib, you don't get a cookie for telling 10 villagers that Imlie is your aadat/zaroorat😆

Re: Adi-Malini scene.....yeah that is why I liked it too....it brought some clarity about the history of their relationship....and how Adi mostly treated it like another checkbox in his life which he could manage with some flowery words, milna-milaana, khaana peena......lol.....it worked cuz Malini also never asked for anything more than that....neither of them tried to form a genuine connection....they thought that was "understanding" and "space"....when infact it turned out to be disconnect.

In Imlie's case, he's forming a personal connection to everything related to her....her dreams are now becoming his dreams, he's calling her family his famliy too....the most striking thing is that he kept telling Malini for so long, "aap toh humaari hi rahengi".....but phir bhi apnapan nahin laa sakaa....while with Imlie, everything related to her is becoming his apna....he never knew what apnapan was before Imlie, basically. He couldn't even find it that much with his own family even though they are also warm/nice people....but only Imlie could teach him apnapan I suppose.

In term of relationship progress, his random declarations are pointless. Imlie does not take them seriously nor he. Unless he ponders on why he is so comfortable saying them now when he was so against it last time he was in PD, they are just khokla words. The major turn would be when Imlie actually questions him but she is only telling him to not do it as 'usse aadat ho jayengi."...I do think that this is stacking up somewhere where he is going to get blasted with it. Like you said he is a 0 to 100 kind of a guy, and this would be part of that blast once the time comes where denial will no longer work.

The other thing is the restaurant. He is a guy who was bothered to even join his family being in the same restaurant, who is not known for adjusting his schedule because of work but now he is going out of his way so that he can take them to a restaurant, because unknowingly he started getting that feeling of apnapan, that now he is leaving everything in Delhi and insisting that he want to take Mitti to the restaurant.

Having said all that, I still feel his end goal is to take Imlie back. The reason might be padhai or now how the villagers will react but he came for that and I think he is going to try till the end for that. His falling on knees, I feel is also part of this. All his actions that he is been doing is for this goal and the justification is for her padaai or to keep her safe from "gaonwalas" not him, her😛

Originally posted by: ITVfan2020

I am a Newbie and first time I am chatting. Kahan se tapak padi main?😢😢

Ayyo, sorry . I am not talking about you. The person you were referring in your comment. Lot of negativity from that member in the forum . She goes active and inactive mode and talk so much rubbish which doesn’t even make sense Not u., sorry for the confusion

Originally posted by: Tulips123

Ayyo, sorry . I am not talking about you. The person you were referring in your comment. Lot of negativity from that member in the forum . She goes active and inactive mode and talk so much rubbish which doesn’t even make sense Not u., sorry for the confusion