Barrister Babu Episode Discussion Thread - Page 63

Originally posted by: dsm123

Totally agree with you Mugs.. Rudhita already have purest form of love from both sides.. ab suddenly Ani ko leke jo U Turn maara hain its 👎🏼

And the thing I didn't get at all is Ani was himself aware about having changes after hitting puberty.. he knew bon might develop such feelings (for him or not but in general) so instead of making her understand ki its all natural n all (but its time to focus on studies).(she doesn't have crush on him but hota toh ka bol rahi main🤣) .. He's kind of telling her ki she shouldn't have such feelings for "HIM" as their marriage is fake? matlab agar inka normal shadi hota toh Ani wouldn't have mind it?? Like he said during consummation fiasco ki wife adhikar nahi de sakta bcuz zimmedari maanta hu? Matlab normal shadi hota toh deta?🤪🤣 these ppl need to be careful what they're writing and what type of things we might conclude from whatever they are showing 🤣 mujhe samjh nahi aata kya phook ke likhte hain😵😆

Or they're Trying to show that Ani will never ever accept her as wife? If it is the case then Ani needs solid reality check 😡 all his pati patni jaap, Pati babu ki bon n allwhat's that???

Iss sabse Ani ka redemption kaise hoga yaar😭🤣

Oh god,mein yahi sabh likkhe ai hoon twitter pe😆Bas shabd aage piche hain 😆

I outrightly agree with this particular pov!

Anirudh is a matured man! He knows the feelings of first love / like/crush whatever! Aur itna hi swang tha toh pehle din se itna nataak kyon bhai? Bondita ko jhutha Sapna dikhane ke liye?

Now I so wish , Bondita develops a crush for someone else😆 writes his name in her hands and says he is my life😆!

Just think, we express our love only to know that it's a farce , and what not , that too , infront of an entire mob😲

Humiliation at its peak!

Abh toh aisa lagta hain love is the last thing we should do in life!

Originally posted by: Ka_ta

Oh god,mein yahi sabh likkhe ai hoon twitter pe😆Bas shabd aage piche hain 😆

I outrightly agree with this particular pov!

Anirudh is a matured man! He knows the feelings of first love / like/crush whatever! Aur itna hi swang tha toh pehle din se itna nataak kyon bhai? Bondita ko jhutha Sapna dikhane ke liye?

Now I so wish , Bondita develops a crush for someone else😆 writes his name in her hands and says he is my life😆!

Just think, we express our love only to know that it's a farce , and what not , that too , infront of an entire mob😲

Humiliation at its peak!

Abh toh aisa lagta hain love is the last thing we should do in life!

Hey🤗😆

Exactly my point yaar. If.. If at all bon had crush on him, he's to be blamed entirely for that. He's the one who did pati patni jaap more than her in last 100 episodes, his dil ki ghanti, mann ki taar and what not.. if he never wanted to accept her as wife then why the hell he behaved all typical husband and at times man in love type with her???

And my biggest issue here is calling shadi swang/fake.. he never ever said shadi is fake.. even to mini.. he used to say bon is kid and hint ki won't give her wife's status but never denied shadi🤢 and now third angle making it worse.. as if he got new girl to love he's out of bon zone fully.. it makes him look more😵

They shouldn't ruin leads at least😆 but alas damage is done🤣

I agree this type of humiliation is totally unacceptable for me too... whatever reason behind it... nothing can justify this for me. Nothing 🤢

One more thing is it's 1920... women (specially after hitting puberty) were touched only by their husbands the way Ani touches bon😵 well that's diff topic of debate altogether 😆

I badly want viewers to always remember its 1920 and then look at Ani's behaviour and its impact on bon and her life. Period 😆

Originally posted by: Mugkale

Loved your thoughts... I have slightly different perspective on bon's crush.. may be Caz of my personal experience..having crush in teenage never distracted me from my studies or other personal chores.. it was just another beautiful feeling .. n I am sure this is the case with most of us

so i don't think bon is going on wrong path.. n for ani even he had such feelings for mini but he stayed focused for his degree even achieved gold medal, could set goal for life other than being happily married n wealthy person ..

the problem is he is unaware/ not accepting his own feelings for bon.. n at the same time he is having admiration/attraction towards another person....

@bold: cannot agree more

True Mugs! But in the 21st century, we treat first crushes very differently. I was explained how it is a different feeling that I should enjoy and not let it affect my studies etc. Plus our crushes were secret between us and a few close friends, since no-one took it seriously, we didn't either.

In 1920, it is a different story. Primarily because Ani-Bon are married, such behaviour is not only accepted, but expected from Bon. Society has tied it into the whole patni-dharm concept. So it ties down and distracts Bon a lot more.

Even for Ani-Mini, while Ani was a bit removed from the situation due to being abroad. Mini clearly was already being moulded into a RC bahu. That is why she was so much more affected by Ani's marriage than Ani himself.

Good morning behenas🤗

So finally watched the episode😆

I badly wanted to share my views with all of you😃

I'm relieved that ani was not completely wrong in the episode....and again learnt the lesson that never trust the promo and precap of this show ever 🤣. ...

But one more thing I felt is that bon is not wrong either. She is now a teenager and her behaviour is understandable.....But ani here failed to realise that it's not just due to the society but it's also due to their deep attachment that bon would obviously develop a crush on him👍🏼...he had earlier told kaka that bon is growing up and her emotions will keep changing too but I think barrister babu is still unaware of this aspect practically.....afterall he can't be blamed since he is also still displaying the mood swings of a grown-up teenager🤣

I was really disgusted with the way that photographer was trying to take their photos🤢..no wonder ani behaved in that exact manner....😵

Now coming to bon , my heart went out to her on realising that she has still not developed crush but is being fed the wrong info by the society😔....I wish ani really had composed his calmness and tried to make her understand that all these feelings are natural at this age but now you don't have to give much attention to it and just concentrate on studies...I think she would have understood it of he had explained this matter in a calm way but can't blame ani too since he is also a young man who is still in a stage of handling a teenager 🤔

It seems that ninja girl is so far a good person and it looked like she has no interest in ani😆...

Eventhough many of ani's actions are trying to be justified by the makers still some parts are putting the viewers off due to certain reasons below:

1) they could have showed this ani confusion in explaining to bon and bon's changing behaviour without this ninja girl....because evenif we cut the ninja girl's scenes from this track , there isn't much change in the feel of the track

2) many scenes are clearly edited we can feel it from some of the discontinuity in the episode

3) now evenif ani genuinely cares for bon's bright future or do this out of his dedication towards his zimmedari , it has great chances of attracting viewers wrong attention that he is doing this just to get his responsibility completed and give a chance to ninja in his life

4) ani is shown to be so understanding regarding matters like menstruation , teenage changes etc...and when he himself had a crush on mini at a tender age , instead of remembering this or making her understand it calmly that it's not wrong but don't give much attention to these now, his outburst on bon's crush seems a little bit overboard....it can have negative effect on her....now she will become more adamant and it will be more easy for her to get manipulated regarding this matter by others like sampoo that too in his absence

5) I still don't understand in one scene they showed he loves ninja in that day's flashback scene but on the other hand when he comes infront of her no such changes in his behaviour🤪....

6) now I'm honestly no more bothered about ani loving ninja or marrying her ...because now both ani and bon are neither right nor wrong in their own perspectives....But due to the mess that the makers have created in the past few episodes, I have somewhere lost that emotional connection i had with Rudhita as a pair....😵..don't take me wrongly but now only time will tell whether I would accept rudhita as a pair again😊..

Ani is correct in finally revealing the truth to bon but the way he is going to reveal it is still going to be too much for the kid to handle....he could have revealed it alone to her calmly but ani being ani will do it in his usual angry tone and he will regret it later for his impulsiveness again

Bon has been in a bubble that he married her due to letter and conditions , but alas she is gonna break in the worst way possible..she will surely question him...and I'm waiting for her comeback with a swag...

In a way this harsh revelation will only act as solid base for future bon who won't be manipulated by emotions , relations and customs of society ever....she will surely be more reserved in matters related to heart...she will surely distance herself from ani and rc men due to her self esteem...she needed this to become a very strong revolutionary in future but I hope it doesn't scar her in her personal life...🤔...after all these fiasco if I was in place of bon I would have never believed in the sacred union of marriage ever with anyone 😕...and here in bon's case it's as if she is betrayed in almost all relations except with her mother....so I hope she tackles this situation strongly and arises like a Phoenix 😎. ..

So at the end of the day , all I can say is I'm relieved that ani is not completely butchered but still I have lost that connect with him.....thanks to the poor execution from makers side👏👏...i was the one who believed that ani won't be damaged ever but alas no words Now....he is somewhere different from that old ARC🤔...hope someday i get him back

Now all I'm focused is on the journey of a strong barrister bonditha😎

It's just my opinion friends don't take me wrongly😃

Originally posted by: Doc.love

Heyy Indira... 🤗Sorry for the late reply. Your points are very valid and I agree with them.

The makers scraped off because of the fan's reaction. And now they are trying to control the damage.

I am amongst those very few people who were not bothered about his feelings for AE because kt didnt matter for many reasons. I was preaching about normal hormonal locha and was advocating about his loneliness and all.

I got angry after I saw him announcing their marriage truth in such a stupid manner. And I am still unhappy with how hes dealing with the whole matter.

But lets just wait and see how all of this turns out eventually.

I was tou open to the idea of divorce too...I mean, I was actually being very open minded and practical about all the eventualities, human emotions and everything. Mager mera ganda wala popat hogya. 🤪

Hi..

I think in that era the concept of divorce is not there...if any problem with couple..they used to just leave the girl (99% ladke ladki ko choddetha he..)or go for another marriage and three lives in same house like munshiji..so, u think bringing concept of divorce will be illogical according to that era..

But ha..Ani is a person having thoughts of 2021..so, may be he will help her in her love life to achieve it and do marriage again (if they are not bound to be a couple)

Waise no bts after bon bride pic, ye padosi boy bhi abhi tak nahin dikha?

Originally posted by: dsm123

Totally agree with you Mugs.. Rudhita already have purest form of love from both sides.. ab suddenly Ani ko leke jo U Turn maara hain its 👎🏼

And the thing I didn't get at all is Ani was himself aware about having changes after hitting puberty.. he knew bon might develop such feelings (for him or not but in general) so instead of making her understand ki its all natural n all (but its time to focus on studies).(she doesn't have crush on him but hota toh ka bol rahi main🤣) .. He's kind of telling her ki she shouldn't have such feelings for "HIM" as their marriage is fake? matlab agar inka normal shadi hota toh Ani wouldn't have mind it?? Like he said during consummation fiasco ki wife adhikar nahi de sakta bcuz zimmedari maanta hu? Matlab normal shadi hota toh deta?🤪🤣 these ppl need to be careful what they're writing and what type of things we might conclude from whatever they are showing 🤣 mujhe samjh nahi aata kya phook ke likhte hain😵😆

Or they're Trying to show that Ani will never ever accept her as wife? If it is the case then Ani needs solid reality check 😡 all his pati patni jaap, Pati babu ki bon n allwhat's that???

Iss sabse Ani ka redemption kaise hoga yaar😭🤣

Ani could have handled the situation better. He should have tried to understand bondita and her emotions and explain to her that she should prioritize her studies but I guess he was taken aback at the sudden information and acted impulsively again. Now when he regrets it, and apologies, bondita shouldn't forgive him so easily. It'll be nice to see her have a crush on someone else. He must feel jealous and realize what Bon means to him. 😄

Originally posted by: dsm123

Totally agree with you Mugs.. Rudhita already have purest form of love from both sides.. ab suddenly Ani ko leke jo U Turn maara hain its 👎🏼

And the thing I didn't get at all is Ani was himself aware about having changes after hitting puberty.. he knew bon might develop such feelings (for him or not but in general) so instead of making her understand ki its all natural n all (but its time to focus on studies).(she doesn't have crush on him but hota toh ka bol rahi main🤣) .. He's kind of telling her ki she shouldn't have such feelings for "HIM" as their marriage is fake? matlab agar inka normal shadi hota toh Ani wouldn't have mind it?? Like he said during consummation fiasco ki wife adhikar nahi de sakta bcuz zimmedari maanta hu? Matlab normal shadi hota toh deta?🤪🤣 these ppl need to be careful what they're writing and what type of things we might conclude from whatever they are showing 🤣 mujhe samjh nahi aata kya phook ke likhte hain😵😆

Or they're Trying to show that Ani will never ever accept her as wife? If it is the case then Ani needs solid reality check 😡 all his pati patni jaap, Pati babu ki bon n allwhat's that???

Iss sabse Ani ka redemption kaise hoga yaar😭🤣

Cannot agree more.. U turn is not acceptable at all.. confusion, frustration, awkward we can understand..But not U turn.. they have clearly showed us ani too was in the relationship with whole heart... You rightly pointed out he himself told her ki kuchh aur badlav aayene n aur bhi bure nai honge..

N yes they are emphasizing on ani's concern about jimmedari instead of her age.. about age just mentions here n there..it suchmuch feels like ke agar usane aise shadi na ki hoti to use koi problem nai thi..

I hope thay bring clarity in his thoughts n take this beautiful bond forward

Originally posted by: Fictophiile

Ani could have handled the situation better. He should have tried to understand bondita and her emotions and explain to her that she should prioritize her studies but I guess he was taken aback at the sudden information and acted impulsively again. Now when he regrets it, and apologies, bondita shouldn't forgive him so easily. It'll be nice to see her have a crush on someone else. He must feel jealous and realize what Bon means to him. 😄

hoga because i think on confornting bon would tell i dont have crush on you, society told me to do this , keep u happy but since we dont have marriage, i am not expected to do this

i think she will experience feeling of first cursh with someone else, she will. be someone else crush and ask ani for advice

Originally posted by: Rudhitafan

Good morning behenas🤗

So finally watched the episode😆

I badly wanted to share my views with all of you😃

I'm relieved that ani was not completely wrong in the episode....and again learnt the lesson that never trust the promo and precap of this show ever 🤣. ...

But one more thing I felt is that bon is not wrong either. She is now a teenager and her behaviour is understandable.....But ani here failed to realise that it's not just due to the society but it's also due to their deep attachment that bon would obviously develop a crush on him👍🏼...he had earlier told kaka that bon is growing up and her emotions will keep changing too but I think barrister babu is still unaware of this aspect practically.....afterall he can't be blamed since he is also still displaying the mood swings of a grown-up teenager🤣

I was really disgusted with the way that photographer was trying to take their photos🤢..no wonder ani behaved in that exact manner....😵

Now coming to bon , my heart went out to her on realising that she has still not developed crush but is being fed the wrong info by the society😔....I wish ani really had composed his calmness and tried to make her understand that all these feelings are natural at this age but now you don't have to give much attention to it and just concentrate on studies...I think she would have understood it of he had explained this matter in a calm way but can't blame ani too since he is also a young man who is still in a stage of handling a teenager 🤔

It seems that ninja girl is so far a good person and it looked like she has no interest in ani😆...

Eventhough many of ani's actions are trying to be justified by the makers still some parts are putting the viewers off due to certain reasons below:

1) they could have showed this ani confusion in explaining to bon and bon's changing behaviour without this ninja girl....because evenif we cut the ninja girl's scenes from this track , there isn't much change in the feel of the track

2) many scenes are clearly edited we can feel it from some of the discontinuity in the episode

3) now evenif ani genuinely cares for bon's bright future or do this out of his dedication towards his zimmedari , it has great chances of attracting viewers wrong attention that he is doing this just to get his responsibility completed and give a chance to ninja in his life

4) ani is shown to be so understanding regarding matters like menstruation , teenage changes etc...and when he himself had a crush on mini at a tender age , instead of remembering this or making her understand it calmly that it's not wrong but don't give much attention to these now, his outburst on bon's crush seems a little bit overboard....it can have negative effect on her....now she will become more adamant and it will be more easy for her to get manipulated regarding this matter by others like sampoo that too in his absence

5) I still don't understand in one scene they showed he loves ninja in that day's flashback scene but on the other hand when he comes infront of her no such changes in his behaviour🤪....

6) now I'm honestly no more bothered about ani loving ninja or marrying her ...because now both ani and bon are neither right nor wrong in their own perspectives....But due to the mess that the makers have created in the past few episodes, I have somewhere lost that emotional connection i had with Rudhita as a pair....😵..don't take me wrongly but now only time will tell whether I would accept rudhita as a pair again😊..

Ani is correct in finally revealing the truth to bon but the way he is going to reveal it is still going to be too much for the kid to handle....he could have revealed it alone to her calmly but ani being ani will do it in his usual angry tone and he will regret it later for his impulsiveness again

Bon has been in a bubble that he married her due to letter and conditions , but alas she is gonna break in the worst way possible..she will surely question him...and I'm waiting for her comeback with a swag...

In a way this harsh revelation will only act as solid base for future bon who won't be manipulated by emotions , relations and customs of society ever....she will surely be more reserved in matters related to heart...she will surely distance herself from ani and rc men due to her self esteem...she needed this to become a very strong revolutionary in future but I hope it doesn't scar her in her personal life...🤔...after all these fiasco if I was in place of bon I would have never believed in the sacred union of marriage ever with anyone 😕...and here in bon's case it's as if she is betrayed in almost all relations except with her mother....so I hope she tackles this situation strongly and arises like a Phoenix 😎. ..

So at the end of the day , all I can say is I'm relieved that ani is not completely butchered but still I have lost that connect with him.....thanks to the poor execution from makers side👏👏...i was the one who believed that ani won't be damaged ever but alas no words Now....he is somewhere different from that old ARC🤔...hope someday i get him back

Now all I'm focused is on the journey of a strong barrister bonditha😎

It's just my opinion friends don't take me wrongly😃