Stepping forward into a new phase - Page 9

Originally posted by: mayuri099

I know Malini had fleeting suspicions before, but this time it just felt different. It was at a completely different level. Whether they will continue with it or forget the next day, only writers know! 😆

I am so looking forward to Imlie-Sundar angle and BS's reaction to it!! 😳😆

She will remember what her dhadhi said next - after the kadam se kadam dialogue - she asked her to either catch up with your husband or stop him. I think she may do the former - she cant stop him now - he already brought Imli in - she will rush to Adi's side and chipkify :)

I think BS is suddenly going to get hit with realization - so far we have never seen him recall his PG moments with Imli except for when he got the award. I cant wait for him to recollect how he first met her and the billi ki bachi ke sagaai - she was a firebrand then. Post marriage Imli posture itself has been subdued and hunched unlike PG demeanor. I hope the cvs show her blossoming with the new phase with BS - with increased feeling of being accepted...with new found confidence and a spring in her step

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Yup warna tasve toh DC bhi baha leta hai but point kya hai jab woh Khali baaton ke saath aaye. How about kabhi koi ek bhooli bisri dafah hi khade ho jaayein to pata chale..

Before they stand up for anybody else, they need to stand up for themselves. AC has come and done tamasha so many times at your home but they never say anything to her. In fact they are about pacifying her like really. Even his mother yesterday was like we asked Imlie to keep the chain. Shouldn’t it be like take this chain and sort out your family matters at your home not ours. They were shown explaining to Imlie the other day, they should be explaining to Malini too that your parents always fight when they come here, are you sure it’s Ok to invite them. Nishan has come after 10 years, he should have been like what is this and the the badi kaki, should be saying that my son has come after so many years, please let’s not do it in front of him.

There is respect to a person and then there is a mutual respect to ones family and ones house. They are not even inclined to defend their own home or draw boundaries tho Imlie ko kabhi defend Karenge.

Originally posted by: nim_var

Nice points AY.

In the episode 10, where they take shelter in a hut at night, Aditya mentions that he believes in destiny or taqdeer and Imlie says no, 'sirf haathon ki lakeeren pe nahi, adha kudh ko likhna padta hai, hota wohi hai jo jum likhte hain'.

Again, he was not thinking of their nakli rishta at all but more on how he had hurt her with his words and wanted to make amends by bringing her to his private space.

This is why I don't like it when Adi / Gashmeer dismisses his eventual sway towards Imli as the force of destiny - as if he is powerless. I can see how destiny controls what cards are dealt - and scenarios that unfold etc.. but ultimately I don't believe fate or destiny - can dictate love. I think thats a precious feeling that you and only you can feel and control. You could live in a loveless marriage beacause your fate dictated it - but you don't love someone because fate made you. It is a personal and intentional feeling that you allow to blossom and then it takes over completely overwhelming you...which is what imli says - you have to write some part of it yourself :)

Originally posted by: pamk06

Before they stand up for anybody else, they need to stand up for themselves. AC has come and done tamasha so many times at your home but they never say anything to her. In fact they are about pacifying her like really. Even his mother yesterday was like we asked Imlie to keep the chain. Shouldn’t it be like take this chain and sort out your family matters at your home not ours. They were shown explaining to Imlie the other day, they should be explaining to Malini too that your parents always fight when they come here, are you sure it’s Ok to invite them. Nishan has come after 10 years, he should have been like what is this and the the badi kaki, should be saying that my son has come after so many years, please let’s not do it in front of him.

There is respect to a person and then there is a mutual respect to ones family and ones house. They are not even inclined to defend their own home or draw boundaries tho Imlie ko kabhi defend Karenge.

If they do this - story cannot continue :) - all the foreshadowing dialogues wont be able to be aired :)

Originally posted by: PPak

This is why I don't like it when Adi / Gashmeer dismisses his eventual sway towards Imli as the force of destiny - as if he is powerless. I can see how destiny controls what cards are dealt - and scenarios that unfold etc.. but ultimately I don't believe fate or destiny - can dictate love. I think thats a precious feeling that you and only you can feel and control. You could live in a loveless marriage beacause your fate dictated it - but you don't love someone because fate made you. It is a personal and intentional feeling that you allow to blossom and then it takes over completely overwhelming you...which is what imli says - you have to write some part of it yourself :)

I think you are taking the "destiny" point a little too literally. No one is saying that destiny dictates love.....destiny brings two people together, creates circumstances to throw them together.....love finds it's own way.

I disagree that love is a choice.....it is a feeling that grows on it's own - hardly something that you can control consciously. You don't ALLOW love to happen....it finds its own way in its own time.

So when the point about destiny is made for Adi-Imlie, no one is saying that they are "powerless"....the point is simply that destiny is bringing them together.....destiny isn't controlling their emotions....it's only bringing them together.

Good episode today. AY - get on it 😆

Originally posted by: PPak

If they do this - story cannot continue :) - all the foreshadowing dialogues wont be able to be aired :)

Anu is not going to to stop just because T’s say something. If she did not listen to her daughter, when Malini had already warned her last time, then T’s ka woh Kaha sunegi but them saying would atleast add little credibility to their character, like Samandhi respect. 😊

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I think you are taking the "destiny" point a little too literally. No one is saying that destiny dictates love.....destiny brings two people together, creates circumstances to throw them together.....love finds it's own way.

I disagree that love is a choice.....it is a feeling that grows on it's own - hardly something that you can control consciously. You don't ALLOW love to happen....it finds its own way in its own time.

So when the point about destiny is made for Adi-Imlie, no one is saying that they are "powerless"....the point is simply that destiny is bringing them together.....destiny isn't controlling their emotions....it's only bringing them together.

I think you are saying in a better way what I meant to say - destiny may have brought them together - but did not make them fall in love - they did that themselves. :)

Originally posted by: pamk06

Anu is not going to to stop just because T’s say something. If she did not listen to her daughter, when Malini had already warned her last time, then T’s ka woh Kaha sunegi but them saying would atleast add little credibility to their character, like Samandhi respect. 😊

ok i get what you mean - at least raise objection - not stop her altogether. The fact that they let her go on seemed so weird in the beginning - but then I wondered if they were just taking the higher road by not reacting. When someone stupid says something stupid and baseless - maybe let that person make a fool of themselves and keep quiet. Adi's lashing did zero impact - T's can say anything - Anu will not listen. I know people like this - they never engage with people who are out of control. They show their respect by continuing to be good and do the right thing. T's also probably love Moon and don't want her to be in any discomfort by reacting.

I don't understand this way of thinking - I'm always ready for battle - but T's have been consistent thus far in avoiding conflict even when their own daughter Rupi was impacted during the engagement date fiasco.

Ok guys waiting for the review for today’s episode. Can’t wait to see what you all thought about it