Will you accept a man like shaurya? - Page 2

Originally posted by: jhankarbeats87

I have seen a lot of guyz these days wanting housewives. N no these r not only conservative people who cage their wives at home, bt also a few whose mom's hv been working women. The only explanation they hav is that they hv not received enough care from their moms while grwng up, n wd nt like to do same for their children.

Though personally I don't agree with them, it's all about perspective.

Yes there are are a lot of girls too (mind you even educated ones) who want to be homeowners.

It's all right to be so, only thing is that you sdn't be forced to gv up on u'r dreamz. I f u think u wanna build a career just don't marry one of these guyz and go for someone who wd stand wth u and support u.

This is where I have a problem.. Whether to be at home or not should be a woman's choice too... It's easier in a scenario of arranged marriage, where we can refuse getting married into a household who does not allow working woman...

In case of love marriage, it gets trickier with the whole expectation for a woman from societal point of view... If man has felt they did not get enough 'love', 'care' and 'attention' why blame only moms and not dads??? Seriously? Why can they not plan to stay home for kids and let wife have a fulfilling career? It's just all about rules and roles set by society.

And absolutely, a woman who chooses the path... Or a man who chooses to be stay at home dad... Nothing is terribly wrong...

Also let's suppose I am a woman who prefers marrying a rich husband like handsome Shaurya and just be at home with family... I should not be judged as a gold digger... It's literally a double standards of society.

Now to answer the title question - Yes, I would marry someone like Shaurya😆.. He is rich, he is handsome, he is least interested in romantic relations... I love traveling... I can spend all his money to travel the world and that too without slogging day in and day out in office... Damn... That's a life I would be crazy to deny...

Originally posted by: janecastle

One thing I like about Shaurya is that he is very straightforward with what he expects from his future wife. He is not like some men who gives false promises and then cage the women. And Shaurya's insecurities stem from his childhood trauma and the actions of his parents and Sabherwals. Once he sees the truth, he will definitely change his expectations. And Shaurya is not completely wrong. He has some expectations from his future wife and he communicates it before marriage. And it is up to the women to make the decision. There are many women who are happy in being homemakers and don't aspire for a career. That is their choice and there is nothing wrong in that. So yeah, there will be many women who would be ready to be Shaurya's wife by accepting his conditions. Personally, I like to have a career and my freedom. So I may not choose him as a husband.

On a lighter note, if the man is hot like Shaurya, I might give it a try. ☺️ Just kidding 😆

Hotness par to sab ready hain😂🤣

But thats quite brilliantly written by you. We still have a perception that if a women is house wife, either she is stopped by the man or dhe is not capable of a career.

It can even be her choice which is not even considered as an option.

Thats what i like about the character. He is straightforward not some hiding behind false image.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

This is where I have a problem.. Whether to be at home or not should be a woman's choice too... It's easier in a scenario of arranged marriage, where we can refuse getting married into a household who does not allow working woman...

In case of love marriage, it gets trickier with the whole expectation for a woman from societal point of view... If man has felt they did not get enough 'love', 'care' and 'attention' why blame only moms and not dads??? Seriously? Why can they not plan to stay home for kids and let wife have a fulfilling career? It's just all about rules and roles set by society.

And absolutely, a woman who chooses the path... Or a man who chooses to be stay at home dad... Nothing is terribly wrong...

Also let's suppose I am a woman who prefers marrying a rich husband like handsome Shaurya and just be at home with family... I should not be judged as a gold digger... It's literally a double standards of society.

Now to answer the title question - Yes, I would marry someone like Shaurya😆.. He is rich, he is handsome, he is least interested in romantic relations... I love traveling... I can spend all his money to travel the world and that too without slogging day in and day out in office... Damn... That's a life I would be crazy to deny...

Bold 1: i personally find nothing wrong in it. But will men or society will accept it? Thats tricky even in love matters!

There is nothing wrong in getting married for money and settled life. As per islam, money can be one of the requisite to chose a partner!

But then these titles exist in reality; gold digger, misogynist, conservative, extremist , etc and we try to break or prove these wrong which in reality may not entirely be wrong given the reason and circumstances.

Last para😂🤣....thats a great aspiration. I wish you find one🤣....even KV is single ( i assume) ...try out😂

i am already married and have two kids..😆

i am not even eligible to buy the application of shaurya's matrimonial ad.

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

i am already married and have two kids..😆

i am not even eligible to buy the application of shaurya's matrimonial ad.

Assume yourself unmarried and then answer🤣😂

Forum is all about imagination😂

I personally can't even think about marring someone who has this condition of giving up carrier after marriage.

But I don't think he is doing any injustice to anyone. Its a personal choice. You can demand anything in your life partner and that's ok, as long as you are not forcing your choices on anyone else and the other party also knows these demand before making any decision.

Originally posted by: krazykaju

I personally can't even think about marring someone who has this condition of giving up carrier after marriage.

But I don't think he is doing any injustice to anyone. Its a personal choice. You can demand anything in your life partner and that's ok, as long as you are not forcing your choices on anyone else and the other party also knows these demand before making any decision.

Such a concise reply.

I like it!❤️