Will you accept a man like shaurya?

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" Will you accept a man like shaurya?"

Given, you know his mindset. These days, girls also put demands to get married; like she eill do job, the guy should be settled, separate home,this much income and blah blah ( yes, we all do this!)

So ,is it wrong for a man to ask k he wants a house wife. Given he put forward his demands at start, dont want a working woman and then make her leave her career ( what he did with shagun was straightforward) and there are women out there who wants to be just housewife.

Having said that, will you still marry ot be in relationship with this guy!

Waiting for opinions! I have mine but, i will add that later🤫

Depends on the perspective of the girl

As shaurya clearly told he wants a housewife and how his family is..women do not go out and work..

As he clearly stated his conditions and girl accepts it...then it's completely her choice..he is not wrong in putting a demand

Having said all this...the girl should think and decide..

I have seen a lot of guyz these days wanting housewives. N no these r not only conservative people who cage their wives at home, bt also a few whose mom's hv been working women. The only explanation they hav is that they hv not received enough care from their moms while grwng up, n wd nt like to do same for their children.

Though personally I don't agree with them, it's all about perspective.

Yes there are are a lot of girls too (mind you even educated ones) who want to be homeowners.

It's all right to be so, only thing is that you sdn't be forced to gv up on u'r dreamz. I f u think u wanna build a career just don't marry one of these guyz and go for someone who wd stand wth u and support u.

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Depends on the perspective of the girl

As shaurya clearly told he wants a housewife and how his family is..women do not go out and work..

As he clearly stated his conditions and girl accepts it...then it's completely her choice..he is not wrong in putting a demand

Having said all this...the girl should think and decide..

An interesting view!

Exactly, its mainly on the girls perspective.

But ,then why we categorize men like shaurya misogynist?? We never call out women who put their depend. In fact, they are complemented foe their rights and perspective!

Originally posted by: jhankarbeats87

I have seen a lot of guyz these days wanting housewives. N no these r not only conservative people who cage their wives at home, bt also a few whose mom's hv been working women. The only explanation they hav is that they hv not received enough care from their moms while grwng up, n wd nt like to do same for their children.

Though personally I don't agree with them, it's all about perspective.

Yes there are are a lot of girls too (mind you even educated ones) who want to be homeowners.

It's all right to be so, only thing is that you sdn't be forced to gv up on u'r dreamz. I f u think u wanna build a career just don't marry one of these guyz and go for someone who wd stand wth u and support u.

Exactly...the men who have usually seen working women, tends to incline towards housewives. Though i think career never takes a care of a mother. There are many children whose mothers are at home but,still deprived of love.

Fo you really think a career oriented women tends to care less compared to housewife?

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

Exactly...the men who have usually seen working women, tends to incline towards housewives. Though i think career never takes a care of a mother. There are many children whose mothers are at home but,still deprived of love.

Fo you really think a career oriented women tends to care less compared to housewife?

Nopes. i think career hs nothing to do with love n caring. I hv seen my frnd's mom who are all working moms who hv brought them up quite well. So it just depends on the upbringing.

Originally posted by: jhankarbeats87

Nopes. i think career hs nothing to do with love n caring. I hv seen my frnd's mom who are all working moms who hv brought them up quite well. So it just depends on the upbringing.

Thats i wanted to hear.

I am not married but a career oriented women but, the perception of working women is quite disturbing that there families are neglected. ( Which is not true)

Even this this wrong and a perception about men who demands housewives ( that he is a misogynist ) that is wrong too!

Originally posted by: attiya1.3

An interesting view!

Exactly, its mainly on the girls perspective.

But ,then why we categorize men like shaurya misogynist?? We never call out women who put their depend. In fact, they are complemented foe their rights and perspective!

Re: in bold

Im not sure if that’s entirely true. Women are also called out for their preferences in a partner. If she wants a tall or handsome man, people may call her shallow. Or if wants a rich, well do man, a gold digger.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their preference in a partner. If they’re transparent and upfront about it, and the other person agrees, no 3rd party can judge as it’s essentially a decision between two people. However it’s clear that some preferences can be derogatory and demoralizing such a preference for skin color or physical attributes. So it’s hard to know where to draw the line btw right and wrong.

for example, Anokhi’s ex fiancée was a liar and fraud and his entire family humiliated her as well.


Good topic!

Originally posted by: somewhereover

Re: in bold

Im not sure if that’s entirely true. Women are also called out for their preferences in a partner. If she wants a tall or handsome man, people may call her shallow. Or if wants a rich, well do man, a gold digger.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their preference in a partner. If they’re transparent and upfront about it, and the other person agrees, no 3rd party can judge as it’s essentially a decision between two people. However it’s clear that some preferences can be derogatory and demoralizing such a preference for skin color or physical attributes. So it’s hard to know where to draw the line btw right and wrong.

for example, Anokhi’s ex fiancée was a liar and fraud and his entire family humiliated her as well.


Good topic!

Partially agree on gold digger part!

But, i have seen girls having the career / living separate / this or that demands and they are literally complemented ( which i feel is wrong).

I am a practicing muslim, so living separate is within religion but, it depends on financial condition of a man ,but i have seen girls literally forcing!

Indeed, we dont know where to draw line!

One thing I like about Shaurya is that he is very straightforward with what he expects from his future wife. He is not like some men who gives false promises and then cage the women. And Shaurya's insecurities stem from his childhood trauma and the actions of his parents and Sabherwals. Once he sees the truth, he will definitely change his expectations. And Shaurya is not completely wrong. He has some expectations from his future wife and he communicates it before marriage. And it is up to the women to make the decision. There are many women who are happy in being homemakers and don't aspire for a career. That is their choice and there is nothing wrong in that. So yeah, there will be many women who would be ready to be Shaurya's wife by accepting his conditions. Personally, I like to have a career and my freedom. So I may not choose him as a husband.

On a lighter note, if the man is hot like Shaurya, I might give it a try. ☺️ Just kidding 😆