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Well guys i have been reading all bashing and sympathy
But i feel something else which i will try to put in words lets hope I succeed
Armaan and riddhima both love each other truely, deeply, madly and spiritualy but their approach is different
Armaan is at peace with himself and knows his mind that Ridz is the perfect partner for him but when realises that she is showing attitude or doesnt want to go ahead with this relationship he changes his behaviour on and off to old and new Armaan just to piss her off and trying his best to hate her (in Kasauli and then back in Sanjeevani irritating her) just to feel like the way he used to when they were not lovers just interns he loves her but has found this way of keeping himself away from her by hating her,thogh he fails everytime
Now we will see Riddhimas story
She has come from a background which is very secure and sheltered since she has never seen how guys grow up and her father is very strict and conservative i guess she can never imagine what a boys grooming is all about. all things like bike race ,fighting ,trekking ,speed thrills, clubbing,pranking and a lot of other things are like a taboo for her
( Armaan has done a few of these if he was into more of these he would have got more bashing from her and these are considered necessary in todays upbringing of boys though Ridz is oblivious of this)
She fall in love with his soft and romantic side but the minute she start exploring his other traits she got confused if he is the right guy for her. if you have noticed the decoit episode rang the first bell,then Muskaan fiaso and finally when she went to Kasauli and saw him at his best romantic date with the bloody boxer she got perplexed and the final blow came when he hit the guys who tried to molest Riddhima while her way way back from boxing rink( if u want u can see her expressions) .and that accounts for her "i am not sure about the relationship" part
( here the Rahul part,his comments as if he knows Armaan too well , also strengthens ridz belief)
Now she is in a big time dilemma if he is really the guy her family wanted her to marry. since she is adopted ( Armaan analysis is right) and has this burden on her to pay all the debts back to her father and sister she doesnt want to take any chances by presenting Armaan as their son in law and making them unhappy coz she knows and we also know that both parties do not compliment each other. Angies advice makes sense to her coz she wants to listen to her and doesnt want to disobey her (loaded with burden) and in this payback act she decides to sacrifice her love for the love and affection her adopted family has given her all her life.
But her approach is diff than Armaam she is not hating him she is doing all she can to make him hate her. She takes every opportunity to insult him and degrade him and hurt herself more than she hurts him and trust me no girl would ever ever want that to happen in her life. That is
the most heart wrenching expeience , especially when you have no one to share your emotions with and the only shoulder you can cry on is the one you are trying to crucify.
So both are suffering at the alter of love ,both in their own special way Armaan trying to save the relation and Riddhima trying to end it with the murder of her own whims and emotions coz she in her tender and fragile mind thinks that her this sacrifice would make up for the mercy her foster family has shown her. and she has preferred her family over her love (everyone has a right to make a decision its her life after all)
I personaly believe she is suffering more .Armaan is atleast easy with his expression but she is bundled in her own sorrow and do not have a single way to let out even a faint cry of her pain.
Pls guys let me know if u agree with what i think and feel
A simple one word agree or disagree will also do, so that we all know what the majority thinks
here is my another post which lets you have a glimpse of Riddhimas heart and mind
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=905476&T PN=1�
But i feel something else which i will try to put in words lets hope I succeed
Armaan and riddhima both love each other truely, deeply, madly and spiritualy but their approach is different
Armaan is at peace with himself and knows his mind that Ridz is the perfect partner for him but when realises that she is showing attitude or doesnt want to go ahead with this relationship he changes his behaviour on and off to old and new Armaan just to piss her off and trying his best to hate her (in Kasauli and then back in Sanjeevani irritating her) just to feel like the way he used to when they were not lovers just interns he loves her but has found this way of keeping himself away from her by hating her,thogh he fails everytime
Now we will see Riddhimas story
She has come from a background which is very secure and sheltered since she has never seen how guys grow up and her father is very strict and conservative i guess she can never imagine what a boys grooming is all about. all things like bike race ,fighting ,trekking ,speed thrills, clubbing,pranking and a lot of other things are like a taboo for her
( Armaan has done a few of these if he was into more of these he would have got more bashing from her and these are considered necessary in todays upbringing of boys though Ridz is oblivious of this)
She fall in love with his soft and romantic side but the minute she start exploring his other traits she got confused if he is the right guy for her. if you have noticed the decoit episode rang the first bell,then Muskaan fiaso and finally when she went to Kasauli and saw him at his best romantic date with the bloody boxer she got perplexed and the final blow came when he hit the guys who tried to molest Riddhima while her way way back from boxing rink( if u want u can see her expressions) .and that accounts for her "i am not sure about the relationship" part
( here the Rahul part,his comments as if he knows Armaan too well , also strengthens ridz belief)
Now she is in a big time dilemma if he is really the guy her family wanted her to marry. since she is adopted ( Armaan analysis is right) and has this burden on her to pay all the debts back to her father and sister she doesnt want to take any chances by presenting Armaan as their son in law and making them unhappy coz she knows and we also know that both parties do not compliment each other. Angies advice makes sense to her coz she wants to listen to her and doesnt want to disobey her (loaded with burden) and in this payback act she decides to sacrifice her love for the love and affection her adopted family has given her all her life.
But her approach is diff than Armaam she is not hating him she is doing all she can to make him hate her. She takes every opportunity to insult him and degrade him and hurt herself more than she hurts him and trust me no girl would ever ever want that to happen in her life. That is
the most heart wrenching expeience , especially when you have no one to share your emotions with and the only shoulder you can cry on is the one you are trying to crucify.
So both are suffering at the alter of love ,both in their own special way Armaan trying to save the relation and Riddhima trying to end it with the murder of her own whims and emotions coz she in her tender and fragile mind thinks that her this sacrifice would make up for the mercy her foster family has shown her. and she has preferred her family over her love (everyone has a right to make a decision its her life after all)
I personaly believe she is suffering more .Armaan is atleast easy with his expression but she is bundled in her own sorrow and do not have a single way to let out even a faint cry of her pain.
Pls guys let me know if u agree with what i think and feel
A simple one word agree or disagree will also do, so that we all know what the majority thinks
here is my another post which lets you have a glimpse of Riddhimas heart and mind
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=905476&T PN=1�
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