VASHMA is extremist be it in love or in friendship... She is not sacrificing her love for Uday due to Amrit... She is ready to gave up the relationship if it hurts Amrit that childhood friend of hers because of whom she met Uday at the 1st place. After watching sacrifices on ITV we have got a wrong impression about the concept of sacrifice, sacrifice is a much bigger concept than what we get to see on typical serials. Vashma can't seperate herself from the love she feels for Uday... She is not sacrificing, she is just punishing herself for betraying her friend, for having affair with Amrit's brother under Amrit's nose without telling Amrit anything about it.. at the same time she is giving Amrit the right to give approval... She is not degrading Uday, she is allowing Amrit to take the charge as she knows Amrit will do what's the best for Vashma. She is putting her everything on her friendship with Amrit. She has faith Amrit will do what's the best.