Bank balance of dignity, delusion, and deep intimacy

Good morning sisterhood! 🌻🌻🌻

Chakram niwas ke 'Dum' me dum hai,boss.. ek Baar maar lo toh mahino mahino valid rehta hai 😤😤 Prabodini ekadashi and Basant Panchami came in the SAME month according to Kaku 😱😱 can you get a bigger high than ordering festivals to fit into any month you like 🙄

So, today's biggest revelations of the show: Ninad does accounts of monthly expenditure; Omkar has a business; Patralekha thinks bado ki daant bekaar lohe ko hathiyar bana deti hai and the Baap of all revelations: Karishma knows about the mahila Suraksha kanoon ( officer kaun hai, pata hai Kya? 😅 But memory is short. She won't remember the next time she joins in infliction of insult or injury on the same officer's wife.)

I was left aghast at the shamelessness with which Patralekha is propped as the "aadarsh bahu" for every reason on this earth... Naturally, when they smoke the same brand of 'Dum', delusions become reality. So Karishma has a tongue -- but wait,Sonali the saas is very adept at passing the buck to Sai -- and everyone gladly accepts.

The scene was telling -- the respect in a joint household almost always depends on the position one enjoys professionally. Mohit's reluctance to see reality and make a wise choice to shoulder responsibilities is a very real possibility that many passionate artists face. But unfortunately, it is true that one needs money to survive. Obviously, he is born to rich parents -- Omkar is said to have a business and Sonali is a mine of gold. Now, given the time that Omkar spends drinking zehereeli chai and spitting venom in that zillat arena, I wonder what kind of business he runs -- must be marketing the Didi-chaap Dum-- but it is definite that he has no respect too. If he did, would his son have been treated this way -- and the compulsion to side with Bhavani even when the son and daughter in law are being put through humiliation and being called a 'nithalla' breaking 'muft ki rotis'..

Now, ideally parents like Omkar and Sonali could either push the son to live his dream with full backing and help him realise his dreams or help him find his feet. But I doubt their parenting skills that seem to be forever dictated by Bhavani -- it is appalling how they can't take a stand for the son, who definitely lacks the kind of parental support one needs to see life in the real sense and such bad examples as parents the two have been with the only aim to have the son enter the good books of the rigid matriarch.

The tension in the relationship between Mohit and Karishma is visible. She has to bear the brunt of being the 'unchahee' bahu, mainly because the husband has no standing. The constant comparison with Virat's professional achievements are an indication of the fact that if Mohit hadn't been 'irresponsible', perhaps Omkar and Sonali would have been able to have Karishma get more recognition than she currently has. Karishma speaking for herself was much needed -- why should any woman have to go through such humiliation and in reality, there is no one who can speak for hee because in her need to vent out her frustrations she has ended up being a traitor to both teams of the house.

I loved how Ashwini stood up for Mohit and Karishma. For a change, even Didi decided to console Karishma. I was surprised when she began talking in sympathy -- only to realise that it was yet another attempt to sell the 'susheelta' wala dum to Karishma and the 'parivaar ki izzat' wala dum to family to get one more raise in the height of her aadarsh bahu throne... Someone tell her, the higher the rise the greater the fall 😐

It also shows that despite Virat's marriage to an 'unchahee' bahu as well, he still commands respect in the house because of his 'raub, rutba and shaan' as a police officer. Kam se Kam, the image is up for the society... But in Mohit's case, he's brought shame even to the sham that they seek. And karishma is blamed even for his unemployment. I am glad Mohit spoke about how it's a matter of dignity for his wife and him.

The positive side is Seven days - seven days is all it would take Mohit to join Team Sai.

Ninad's worry about 'jyada kharcha' in the month was so real 😒 Becharon ne uss Namak wali chai ko bhi waste Nahi Kiya Hoga... Waise bhi Chavan niwas me ann aur chai Ka anadar Nahi hota...😝

Does Kaku and her accountant Ninad know that chaheeta beta is planning to foot the hospital bill of some unknown namesake of their other chaheeta beta Samrat?

Now, simple math addition due to the magical calendar of Chakram niwas means that Chavan saheb spent 4.5 lakhs on medical college admission in the same month as he's spending money on this hospital bill. Ab 56100 ki salary mein se, how can all this be possible... Chavan Saheb ko bhi monthly Jeb kharcha milta hai kya? Bappa re! How many days are left for the ration to end?😅

Samrat is evoking much emotion in the brother inside Virat -- it was enough for ACP to personally tend to the little girl (what happened to the mandatory presence of lady constables to do the job? Arrey! Ye kya hua? Phir se logic dhoondne Nikal gayi Janki 🤣) Chalo we understand. But there are some unanswered questions:

1. Why didn't he inform Sai /Aai about his whereabouts to prevent the hysterical bout of vahini and the known nautanki of chakrams that will now follow?

2. How did Sai reach the hospital at 2:30 am? I assume that DIG uncle made the arrangement for being picked and dropped safely in husband's custody ☺️

3. Are we to assume that everyone went off to sleep like good boys and girls till Delusional Didi will go and wake them up and so no one saw Sai leaving, Nahi toh DIG ko mahila Suraksha ke officer ko Naya case dena padta 😅?

4. Three layered tiffin ke liye ITNA bada basket?? Whoever told me that she was carrying a huge basket to crack plates on the heads of those officers who went to her college, please STOP watching those misleading news items 🤣🤣

5. Chavan Saheb did not want to know how she travelled at 2:30am?

The scene was soft and short as usual -- ab toh aadat si hai mujhko aise jeene ki (2 minutes of the last of 23 minutes for navra Baiko)...

For a change, Virat gets to hear a word of assurance about Samrat. What a change from 'Wo aayega ya Nahi/Uske aane se kya fark padega' to Sai's "Wo zaroor aayenge... Sacche dil se ki huyi prarthana bappa sunte Hain..." and that tender touch of assurance on the shoulder -- sometimes that is all you need. I'm sure the dew-drop that she is, Sai herself will start sending out the most sincere prayers for Samrat 😊

So Baiko did not want to start a fight about Navra's college visit in the hospital corridor -- who calls her immature? Teaser de diya lekin -- 'Aap mujhe Kahan sab batate Hain, mere bhi khabri hain... Policewale ki beti hoon...'

Dekh lo behen log, Jin Jin ko bhook lagi thi and hangry feeling ho rahi thi dinner scenes miss hone ke baad, take this candy. 🤣 Today toh khaana khilane Ka hissab level ho gaya. Round 1 finish. 😆

Sai's monologue with Aaba's picture in civil clothes -- so she has two frames and they keep coming back to the dressing table whenever she needs to vent out -- was sweet! "Why is he doing my jasoosi when it's only a deal marriage?" Now, please ask this spashth question when he's home 😅 she also knows she's missing him and worrying about him.

By now, Virat should be able to tell who his Baiko will call if he ends up being incommunicado for a sufficient time -- she has a history in directly connecting with the bosses, bejijhak 😅😂 and DIG Ka card toh Saath me lekar ghoomti hai, ladki 😂

I hope she's saved the number on the phone unlike someone-who-did-not save a certain phone number 😅

Uska khamiyaza has to be borne by the audience because jiska number tha, she roams around in corridors with cups full of freshly brewed dum and finds potential tasters 😅 So "Wo tumhe ignore Kar Raha hai?"wala Dum was almost sold -- Sai took one snort of it but thankfully snapped back to reality and did what she does best -- turn Miss Marple. Who said ki only IPS officer ACP Virat Chavan can find Sai Kisi bhi keemat par if she's lost? Baiko toh IPS officer ko bhi dhoondh Nikal Sakti hai..😅 Topper hai topper.

What a difference in the level of worry and solution finding -- when Virat returns with Sai it will be for him to see (but he may not) that Mallika-e-Maturity has already decided that Virat is not coming back home because of Sai 😂😂😂😂😂 Isn't this a super speeding case of mental degeneration? I mean mujhe laga that 'khana khilana seriously le liya' was ultimate but Didi ke dum Ka asar toh gehra hota ja Raha hai... "Virat ne Sai ki wajah se toh Ghar aana Nahi chhodhh Diya.... Main Virat ko kho Nahi Sakti... Mujhe sabko Uthana padega" 😂😂😂😂 what's the song-- pata nahi ye Kaunsa nasha Karti hai, oh kaise kaise sapne bun Leti hai 🤣

Chalo jitna khayali pulav pakayegi, pulav jalne ki smell bhi utni aayegi 😂

But thanks to Ashwini, something within Sai has been ignited for her relationship with Virat. Ab no matter how much she tries, it will be difficult to extinguish the fiery heat of the inner flames.

I am so keen to see Sai's journey in this relationship (as much as Virat's). They are both experiencing these emotions as a first. Even Virat has crossed the 1.47 hours level of love with Sai so he hasn't experienced this before. But Sai, especially, given her age, her traumatic past and also her self-restrain in the 'deal' which is much better than the man who offered her the dealwala Dum 😛

With Sai, her encounter with her raw emotions is going to be a challenge. It's noteworthy how she keeps reminding her self about the 'deal' (Virat never does it to himself)-- the dealwala Dum is the only one she actually bought as of now 🤣😂

But after the constant push from Ashwini, she's now beginning to do what a girl falling in love would -- she thinks often about Virat and only happy memories, she has a sense of belonging but it is accompanied by the uncertainty and frequent interruptions when Delusional Dum wali Didi walks into her space and sets up the stall...

Her 'tears' when Virat was feeding her the dinner gave away so much of that mixed emotion of desire, helplessness and anguish -- she knew that in her silence, she was trying to push him away although she could see he didn't want her to. She knew she didn't want to either but it was coming out of her conditioned self-restrain in matters related to their relationship. And then she gave in, held the hand and conveyed that they could live that moment -- he could finish the action of feeding her that dinner. It broke one layer of the wall between them.. Yet, she's yet to feel the same kind of physical desire that he seems to be already feeling for her...

As a result, the action seemed so effortless and right today. There was no hesitation and no awkwardness -- for a change, the moment was lived and a memory made. Another intimacy experienced and another affirmation exchanged.

Isn't it the sunshine of these moments of emotional oneness that keep one doing on days when the sky is grey? The positive memory bank needs more such love deposits -- in the form of appreciation, affirmative actions, gentle words of assurance and even spending intimate moments together. Saving 'love deposits' for a rainy day always helps tide over negative times that haven't left the account holders with an irreparable emotional damage... 💞

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Do you have a memory bank with a good balance? Go ahead and make a small withdrawal today -- may be of a person, who's no longer physically around but through the deposits made in the memory bank, you'd be able to bring him or her closer or alive again 😊🥰 of course, it goes without saying that good memory balance is based on those experiences enjoyed without the stock from Delusional Didi ke dum Ki dukaan 😂

Nahi toh, we will have to sing: Kisi Ka sikka, Kisi ki daulat, Kisi Ka (1.47 wala) love, Kisi ki mohabbat... Yahan pe Zindagi ki har Khushi rupaiya hai ya dollar ya pound....

What's your good dum for the day? Coffee ☕☕☕☕, tea 🍵🍵🍵 or some chocolate treat🧉🧉🧉

Khush raho, haste raho and wherever there is a deserving candidate, hugs 🤗🤗🤗 and pyaar ❤️❤️❤️ baant te chalo.

Meri subah everyday shine karwane ke liye manapurvak aabhar 🙏🙏

Will be right back

❤️ J

didi needs to be admitted in mental asylum immediately. heights of delusion - ‘ kahi virat ne khud ko kuch kar to nahi diya? mein virat ko nahi kho sakti.’ i was rofling listening to this dialogue. 😂😂😂

Yesterday I said Didi is in level 5 inception wala delusional world.

But no, she is in an alternate universe within nth level of some delutional world 🤬. I have no idea what I am saying. She crazy. Poor Samrat.

Funny thing was she said Sai was being delusional 🤣

Waise Virat was taken aback when she gave herself a tag line similar to Virat Chavan ki pakki zuban.

Sai Joshi pakde sache doshi

I don’t think Virat came home this late for the first time . His family will be used to his odd working hours , PP would have scared them with her delusional talks . Virat believes Sai doesn’t wait for him so he never bothered to inform his Aai or baiko . After today we might see someone waiting to have dinner with her “ye” and “ye” will be calling his wifey dearest to let her know about his whereabouts.

You are right Sai believes in approaching the senior officials . For her Aaba’s retirement, she fought with her dad’s boss and now for her Aaba boss whereabouts she called his seniors . She doesn’t believe in talking to peers and subordinates .

Good morning janki 😊

Thank u for lovely update .

Didi chaap dum🤣🤣

Meine kal kaha tha kaku mandali ki partnership hain didi ki dum wali company mein , so omkar is handling marketing department & advertising it also 😆, chalo kuch to kaam karta hai main yahi sochti ye kya karta hain muft ki rotiya todne ke alwa jo isse itni mirchi lagti hain sai se.😆

Janaki aap kamaal ho, I really like the way you explain about intimacy....

I think Didi delusional ke sath sath gagini bhi hai.. subha subha sai kitchen Mei ithna bada heart attack valla news bathaya.. sub bool Gaye and thinking that sairat fought with eachother... And thinking virat might done something to himself... Is she dum,,,,, seriously yaar .... Even when virat is in GC , she is used to call him every hour as if he is not IPS but sitting Vella like hyena gang..... I don't understand one thing... In her delusional world Didi things virat loves her like some majunu right ??? So she really things that a man survived deep deep heart break but kill himself for a argument for zimmedhari( in her delusional word sai is virat's zimmedhari right) ... Is that mean ,so where she accepted sai is more important in virat's life than her... ( Because, drastic steps will be taken only for most important people right🤓....

Wonderful analysis..as always...kayal ho gayee aap ki lekhni per...

wonderful episode...bahut saare important points disclosed...C niwasi ke occupatiosn bayen hain...hum itne dinon se soch mein the ki Omi kaka karte kya hain...😂 😂
But would love to know ki kaun sa business hai where he gets all the time to come up with nasty talks to all the girls of the house....

Pakhi and Sai ki sochni and karni ko bhi spasht roop mein dikhaya hai...😂

Pakhi ke brain ki analysis zaroor karni chahiye....jo koi soch bhi nahi sakta she comes up with those reasons...😂 😂

Awesome post by you, Janki! 🤗

Jaaaaannnnnnnnnkkkkkkkkkkkkiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii!!! 🤗 Meri jaaneman! Kaisi hai yaar tu?

Pata nahi kitne dino baad tumhare post dhyaan se padke reply kar rahi hoon! But yeah, aaj se roz mera lamba wala reply dekhoge tum!😉

Today's episode actually uncovered more layers in the Chavan Niwas. And honestly, my heart went out for Mohit and Karishma today. No wonder Karishma is the way she is. Being the unchahee bahu in this toxic family and the wife of the most despised son must be difficult. Though I do not agree with Karishma's way of dealing with things and her constant plotting, it is situations like these where you see why she's doing all this. In a household where she hardly commands respect, if disrespecting and insult the other bahu gives her that brief taste of respect, she would gladly do it. And Mohit too, cannot stand up for Karishma, because things would become worse for the both of them!

It also shows that despite Virat's marriage to an 'unchahee' bahu as well, he still commands respect in the house because of his 'raub, rutba and shaan' as a police officer. Kam se Kam, the image is up for the society... But in Mohit's case, he's brought shame even to the sham that they seek. And karishma is blamed even for his unemployment. I am glad Mohit spoke about how it's a matter of dignity for his wife and him.

^I totally agree with this. In situations where Virat takes a stand for Sai against his family, though they are dead against it, they let him do what he should do without another word, because he is the pride of the family, the Chaheeta beta. Whereas, if Mohit did take a stand for Karishma, both of them would be called out and torn down bit by bit. Kaku would rend him with her evil tongue and probably even disown him!

The positive side is Seven days - seven days is all it would take Mohit to join Team Sai.

^I hope so! But I wonder if they would give that much importance to Mohit-Sai bonding because CVs hardly have time for anything else, given the amount of importance give to the family drama and Devar-Bhabhi relationship🤔

Samrat is evoking much emotion in the brother inside Virat -- it was enough for ACP to personally tend to the little girl (what happened to the mandatory presence of lady constables to do the job? Arrey! Ye kya hua? Phir se logic dhoondne Nikal gayi Janki 🤣) Chalo we understand. But there are some unanswered questions:

^Janki yaar! Tu baar baar kyun bhool jaati hai jab show aur Virat ki baat aati hai, dimaag ko remove karke, ek glass container mein rakhke, phir dekhna chahiye??

1. Why didn't he inform Sai /Aai about his whereabouts to prevent the hysterical bout of vahini and the known nautanki of chakrams that will now follow?

^We should ask him the same dialogue Pakhi asked him on Sai's result day - "Tumhe apni parivaar se itni ummeed hai kya?"

2. How did Sai reach the hospital at 2:30 am? I assume that DIG uncle made the arrangement for being picked and dropped safely in husband's custody ☺️

^Sai doesn't just have the ACP, but also the DIG wrapped around her finger (in different ways though). DIG would definitely do anything to help Sai jaise nittal aur sacchi ladki.

3. Are we to assume that everyone went off to sleep like good boys and girls till Delusional Didi will go and wake them up and so no one saw Sai leaving, Nahi toh DIG ko mahila Suraksha ke officer ko Naya case dena padta 😅?

^Or everyone else were in Bhavani's room, planning for the next occasion and plotting against Sai. And Ashwini was probably in her room, enjoying the alone time before Ninad comes back.

4. Three layered tiffin ke liye ITNA bada basket?? Whoever told me that she was carrying a huge basket to crack plates on the heads of those officers who went to her college, please STOP watching those misleading news items 🤣🤣

^Arre, Sai would probably save those plates for later, when Virat pays another visit to Aniket.

5. Chavan Saheb did not want to know how she travelled at 2:30am?

^I think for now, he's enjoying the fact that his Baiko brought food for him and is ready feed him too!

For a change, Virat gets to hear a word of assurance about Samrat. What a change from 'Wo aayega ya Nahi/Uske aane se kya fark padega' to Sai's "Wo zaroor aayenge... Sacche dil se ki huyi prarthana bappa sunte Hain..." and that tender touch of assurance on the shoulder -- sometimes that is all you need. I'm sure the dew-drop that she is, Sai herself will start sending out the most sincere prayers for Samrat 😊

^Oh my god! Yes! This scene is hands down my most favourite SaiRat scene. It shows how easily Virat can confide into Sai about things he otherwise never says out loud, and the immediate understand with which Sai responds. It might have been a relief for Virat to hear words of assurance that the usual "Samrat aayega bhi ya nahi" or "mere dil mein Samrat ke liye koi feelings nahi hai." All the more reason to look forward to Sai-Samrat bond!

As a result, the action seemed so effortless and right today. There was no hesitation and no awkwardness -- for a change, the moment was lived and a memory made. Another intimacy experienced and another affirmation exchanged.

^It really felt like for a brief moment, Sai left her guard down and let herself be a part of that moment without worrying about anything else. And I love how that touch of assurance came so naturally, with no hesitance or awkwardness. And it was only after Virat looked at her hand that she shied away.

Lovely post babe!!! Chalo, take this Jaadu ki jhappi🤗

P.S. Are you a chai person or a coffee person??

Love,

Niya🤗

I loved your explanation of Sai's feelings. She's a young girl after all! Today's dinner scene, one more positive deposit in the Sairat account. Good way to keep track😆

When Mohit issue was happening, I missed Sai. She is the Geeta of this house😆 ...you know from Seeta Aur Geeta. I guess we will see that roop later this week. I'm glad they are giving us little little scenes of Virat Sai. Too little but, theek hai, what can we do.

The past two episodes have seen Ashwini taking a strong stand, not Sai. I guess even the Ladakh trip with Sai is her idea.

Pakhi is really getting unstable. At this point, she looks like she can turn completely vicious, and will turn black without any grey shades.

Her monologue made me laugh. She saw and heard Sai in the morning. And yet continued her irrational talk. Scary, she's getting to be.