Episode 182 - Pati, Patni aur Wo - Page 7

Originally posted by: phoenix27

the queen of the world

she can claim her right to be queen of her life which she is but in order to become queen of the world it would be world who will decide if she can be world's queen. same way for humans as well, you can be king of your life but it would be other person who will give you that right to king in their life. vansh hasn't given that right her yet,ridhima too didn't gave him that till yesterday but now she has given him.

I believe one can bend the world with their will.

Coming to Riansh, They have right on each other right..With that right, she claimed her status. Riddhima is the queen of the game in my opinion. She is not confined to being Queen of vansh. Thats my way of looking at it

Originally posted by: shilpagowda

👏nice detailed review. But I too fell vansh will be arrested or something drastic will happen- Kabir will blackmail Ridz to go back to him to save vansh. Now what ridz does will be Turning point.

Poor ridz😭

Thanks 😊.. I really don't want to think about it,..Its so scary.. I dont want to go through that cliff drama again.Kabir blackmailing riddhima is too cliche..I dont know why i dont want it to happen. She has given too many keemat for love.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Actually problem hai yeh ki we are so used to riddhu 's jasoosi skill and her curious nature that when she obey Vansh calmly logo ko jhatke lag gaye. I think its the trust she is showing him. Vansh loves to project dominance. He does that with all and his family accepts it . but Riddhima despite she loves him so much is very independent and volatile in nature and sometimes gulible too. She actually is trusting her man as she was guilty. Ppl r misinterpreting it as her submission.Woh vansh p ankh band karke bina sawal kiye varosa kar rahi hai. Yeh hazam karna mushkil hai 😜😜😜🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ mujhe toh lovable hubby nazar aya asal mein log riddhima ko itni good girl pati ki bat man ne wali digest nhi kar pa rahe hai😝😝😝😜

@Bold - exactly. Yehi toh mei bolrahi hun.. Vansh hamesha se authoritative position pe raha hai we all know that but that doesnt ki wo puppet ki tarah haan mein haan milati hai na..Her latest accusation has increased her trust in him and the guilt as well.

Originally posted by: Priya12000

I agree with one thing. Vansh is a big hypocrite when it comes to talks about trust. But for me, personally, there is not controlling relationship here..

Your one line - "Let her use her own wings"..Let her...Who is he to let her..If she wants she ll use her own wings is my perspective.

Vansh decides to marry her to divert her mind, riddhima in turn uses the same marriage rituals to her own advantage..This shows that they are standing on par....I see both of them on equal footing.

you're right, riddhima doesn't need permission to do things, but she certainly gets stopped by Vansh if she breaks his so called rules. When the car accident happen Vansh tells Riddhima she can go anywhere she wants he will never stop her. But later he commands her not to walk out of the house. He talks from the heart sometimes and sometimes he brains overtakes everything. We all know he does this to protect her. She is more like a princess to me than a queen. But even a queen is below King (if we stay in the kingdom world). I don't believe that a relationship should be equal in all areas - Riansh's love is true and beautiful in their own way. Vansh admits Riddhima is stronger than her. She is. So I am not complaining it's a dark show, so it's bound to be this way. Our morals won't work on this show all the time😛. Especially mine, cause I'm similar to Riddhima (not in every aspect) . But i'm also very stubborn and do what please me. But as a partner I expect that I can be vulnerable in front my partner so should he. We should be able to show the dark scars as well and accept it. Vansh hasn't reach there yet. He still doesn't let her touch his scars. If he did then I accept that he treats her equal to him. Riddhima will always understand him better and will doubt him less and trust him more.

He says she is his shadow, but really? She only know him to a limited extend. But I accept that this it the way Riansh will be. Vansh protecting her by hiding his dark side but love her and treasure her. And Riddhima showing him the meaning of life.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

obviously it's matter of perspective. you think it's sign of maturity i see as sign of dominance (with dominance i didn't mean bdsm master-slave). i don't believe that submissive people are weak it's your perspective i feel they are more resilient. you think vansh is not controlling the narrative for ridhima i feel he is doing that. you feel ridhima is his queen and he gives her equal respect and rights but i feel she is his princess whom he loves more than his life but still don't think she is mature enough to be his queen (understand his dark world).

it's just about perspective, it's not necessary for two people to feel same, for some glass is half full and for some glass is half empty.

Originally posted by: Priya12000

the porcelain doll and the princess statement made it sound like complaining. I apologise if i misunderstood and came off as rude.

Obviously our perspectives is different in this one but i agree. For me both vansh and riddhima are obsessively in love with each other for which they can go to any lengths..and i love it..However dark it gets..Moral policies be damned

i never meant that ridhima is weak or submissive in her life, she is strongest person among the three.

Wonderful analysis.but this track could have make sense earlier but not now coz what kabir did to ridhima its very difficult to connect with his new found obsessive love🤮.jab kabir uska deep love baya kar rahe the main bhi like keya karu main mar jau 🤔

Thanks.

Originally posted by: Priya12000

I believe one can bend the world with their will.

Coming to Riansh, They have right on each other right..With that right, she claimed her status. Riddhima is the queen of the game in my opinion. She is not confined to being Queen of vansh. Thats my way of looking at it

with will you can bend the world, but you can't make a person love you differently (change has to from that person only). Vansh loves her immensely but he is not ready to show her his dark scars, the day vansh will be able to show her that she will be his queen for me.

queen of the game for sure, but vansh queen, i don't she has reached there yet.

Regarding the Queen vs Princess

Vansh is the king and Riddhima is a Queen to be.

Vansh by nature is overprotective specially to the ladies of the house.

Firstly I agree that there is no submissive dominant relationship here

Vansh 's rules the hurdles created by him.can never stop her to go against the norms he set.

Ridfhima always do what she wants. She gets hurt by that process. Vansh dont want that. He tries to protect her like a strict yet loving father (He treats everyone like that but the others did not defy him)Riddhima defies him and that makes her the Queen.

She bring him to the edge of the temple and made him take the aarti when they first meet near Bappa 's temple. He was a non believer of God and she is a staunch believer. But still he came and took the aarthi or she made sure he takes that.

She slapped Aryan and she was forgiven though Vansh is a protector.

Riddhima played a part of a warrior in the entire Ragini fiasco and his numb serum could not stop her

I dont wanna elaborate my post but there are 100instances that she was a queen.

In case of Handcuff and his house arrest Ridfdhima broke the rule and track down the juvenile home and got the papers. He even did not take any drastic step regarding the truth serum thing.

There are many wives who does not show interest in their husband's business call.

The saree scn was just a obsessive way of gifting.So i think on the basis of that we cannot call her submissive. Its just the new found or u can rebooted trust she is showing to him. We are not very used to "Good Girl Riiddhima"😝😝Isnt it.

Priya, keemat toh Ridhu chukayegi. Kabir kuch bara karke riddhima ko as a person shayed chin lega.

Deal cracking k din kabir kuch vi kar sakta hai

Blackmail

Manipulation (This is the hardest thing bt he is a master of it )

Ridfhima can come in front of the duo or in the feat of saving Vansh she may gt head injuries and memory loss so technically kuch bhi ho sakta hai

Ek bat hai whenever it come to Keemat chukana Yeh Riansh ne sath mein chukaye hai except he got married to him that was the keemat Riddhima ne akeli chukai thi...

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Actually problem hai yeh ki we are so used to riddhu 's jasoosi skill and her curious nature that when she obey Vansh calmly logo ko jhatke lag gaye. I think its the trust she is showing him. Vansh loves to project dominance. He does that with all and his family accepts it . but Riddhima despite she loves him so much is very independent and volatile in nature and sometimes gulible too. She actually is trusting her man as she was guilty. Ppl r misinterpreting it as her submission.Woh vansh p ankh band karke bina sawal kiye varosa kar rahi hai. Yeh hazam karna mushkil hai 😜😜😜🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ mujhe toh lovable hubby nazar aya asal mein log riddhima ko itni good girl pati ki bat man ne wali digest nhi kar pa rahe hai😝😝😝😜

@ underlined...this is what even I think...she has been and absolute rebel with vansh😆Which deep down vansh enjoys...it is guilt, n a big guilt..calling him a murderer...n she has done this alot of times for ragini, uma n her parents...