Episode 182 - Pati, Patni aur Wo - Page 6

Originally posted by: Priya12000

Every instance you have said now na..not one do i sense a dominant -submissive relationship between them.

Vansh asked her to cut the saree. She did not obey him. She was curious. she cut the saree

Vansh did not want to tell her about his business. So what..Riddhima understood the same and was mature about it.

Riddhima chose to take vansh by his word when he told about her parents. excited to see her reaction when she finds out he wasn't entirely truthful.

It is a matter of perspective.

obviously it's matter of perspective. you think it's sign of maturity i see as sign of dominance (with dominance i didn't mean bdsm master-slave). i don't believe that submissive people are weak it's your perspective i feel they are more resilient. you think vansh is not controlling the narrative for ridhima i feel he is doing that. you feel ridhima is his queen and he gives her equal respect and rights but i feel she is his princess whom he loves more than his life but still don't think she is mature enough to be his queen (understand his dark world).

it's just about perspective, it's not necessary for two people to feel same, for some glass is half full and for some glass is half empty.

Originally posted by: bahi.

Control might not always be the right word to use. He tries hard to project things as he wants. But he does this on everyone. He said to Riddhima, that dadi only knows what he tells her.

Sometimes he puts up rules that she can't go out, ask questions, not to spy. Handcuffed her. He always indicates that she should trust him (blindly). He decides to marry her again to divert her mind. Yeah, you can say he protects her. But it's also important to let her use her own wings. There is a find balance. Only time will tell how deep this obsession of protecting her becomes some kind of controlling/manipulation. 😊

I agree with one thing. Vansh is a big hypocrite when it comes to talks about trust. But for me, personally, there is not controlling relationship here..

Your one line - "Let her use her own wings"..Let her...Who is he to let her..If she wants she ll use her own wings is my perspective.

Vansh decides to marry her to divert her mind, riddhima in turn uses the same marriage rituals to her own advantage..This shows that they are standing on par....I see both of them on equal footing.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Kya keemat chukayei Riddhima? Aur kyun har bar us bacchi ko majburan keemat chukani parti hai..Kavi toh Kabir full keemat chukaye?

Pata nahi kya hoga ab..I dont think whether kabir blackmailing riddhima hoga..do you..Its so cliche

Riddhima phirse kyu chukayegi keemat..Kitni baar chukayegi wo.

Originally posted by: Priya12000

Its not about trust..its the fear of losing her that is making him not disclose the truth..He cannot correctly guess how she ll react..but he doesn't want lose her so he takes the easy route.

Why is that you love this vansh who puts his head above his heart, as you put it, yet complain about his antics.

i am not complaining dear i am enjoying the show. i am just telling my perspective about their relationship. i am a pessimist and i don't really believe that love should be equal. as long as love is true its beautiful for me. i know vansh love is true he loves her differently than what world (moral policies will say is good) will accept as the ideal form.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

obviously it's matter of perspective. you think it's sign of maturity i see as sign of dominance (with dominance i didn't mean bdsm master-slave). i don't believe that submissive people are weak it's your perspective i feel they are more resilient. you think vansh is not controlling the narrative for ridhima i feel he is doing that. you feel ridhima is his queen and he gives her equal respect and rights but i feel she is his princess whom he loves more than his life but still don't think she is mature enough to be his queen (understand his dark world).

it's just about perspective, it's not necessary for two people to feel same, for some glass is half full and for some glass is half empty.

I ll rephrase your one sentence..I dont think he gives her equal right and respect..I am saying she claims her rightful place as the queen..She doesn't need his permission or anything.

But yeah when u say submissive, to me it sounds almost like a puppet. Riddhima is resilient no doubt on that one though

As long as we agree to disagree. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Jab tu meri dil ki bat bolti hai toh i feel.shoo happy

But i partially agree to Phoenix. He treats her like a doll. But i also agree with u Priya,He does this bcoz he wants to protect and love her. The man himself confessed that She is stronger than him but yes Riddhima loses herself in love.

Kabir "s lowee love is not convincing to me at all. She will slap him hard

and it will piss him up more.

Both me and phoenix are looking at the same thing completely in a different way. I can understand why you partially agree with both of us.

I am actually waiting ki kab margi, kab maregi..Will it be after some love confession or will he badmouth vansh infront of riddhima.. I feel the second one

Originally posted by: Priya12000

I ll rephrase your one sentence..I dont think he gives her equal right and respect..I am saying she claims her rightful place as the queen..She doesn't need his permission or anything.

But yeah when u say submissive, to me it sounds almost like a puppet. Riddhima is resilient no doubt on that one though

As long as we agree to disagree. 👍🏼

the queen of the world

she can claim her right to be queen of her life which she is but in order to become queen of the world it would be world who will decide if she can be world's queen. same way for humans as well, you can be king of your life but it would be other person who will give you that right to king in their life. vansh hasn't given that right her yet,ridhima too didn't gave him that till yesterday but now she has given him.

Originally posted by: phoenix27

i am not complaining dear i am enjoying the show. i am just telling my perspective about their relationship. i am a pessimist and i don't really believe that love should be equal. as long as love is true its beautiful for me. i know vansh love is true he loves her differently than what world (moral policies will say is good) will accept as the ideal form.

the porcelain doll and the princess statement made it sound like complaining. I apologise if i misunderstood and came off as rude.

Obviously our perspectives is different in this one but i agree. For me both vansh and riddhima are obsessively in love with each other for which they can go to any lengths..and i love it..However dark it gets..Moral policies be damned

👏nice detailed review. But I too fell vansh will be arrested or something drastic will happen- Kabir will blackmail Ridz to go back to him to save vansh. Now what ridz does will be Turning point.

Poor ridz😭

Originally posted by: Priya12000

Neengalum ah..Why do you think vansh wants to control her..i am curious now..What is the indication that he is trying to control her..I personally did not find anything like that.