Epi 181: Happy Rakshabandhan !!!!! - Page 17

Originally posted by: Abhyudaya

I completely agree on the lines of I me and myself. Indeep whole RS clan is such that they think first them and later Ridhima.

See that is why I told in the post that Vansh cannot leave her because this girl doesn't think of her first. She keeps him first which none in the family ever done to him.

His shortcoming his is his family. As titli explained he is being Indian origin male hero of not able to choose family and wife so knowing the fact where he is wrong he is in guilt.

Which is why I really hope Ridhima gets someone like how Vansh has his family because neither the Vansh nor his family deserves her.

And he knows that fact.

They expects blind trust from her but can't even consider her family. There is a difference between possession & family. & she is not their family.

Bass pyaar se relationship doesn't work. It needs understanding, mutual respect etc.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

I'm not saying vansh shouldn't defend her family. I'm more annoyed with hypocrisy & insensitive behaviour. When it's about his mother he was going crazy he took revenge but it's about her damn parents & she had no right to know. On top of that both of 'bhai behen' made her guilty. Vansh failed as brother. Aryan became molester, ishani became potential murderer because of his so called protection.

They expects blind trust from her but can't even consider her family. There is a difference between possession & family. & she is not their family.

Bass pyaar se relationship doesn't work. It needs understanding, mutual respect etc.

I think Sia turned odd a little because of her accident but I agree completely. His protection had made his sister and brother the most notorious people. They don't even feel guilty for what they do. Because of Vansh bhai hein samabhal lenga. And everyone in the family expects the same to do. Remember when Vansh angry on Aryan Rudr said you will take care of the family so do it. Dadi said whatever you do I know you keep family front.

He might care for the family but he never pointed out their wrong things and let them do it and that's where he is wrong

Maybe why he wants Ridhima more and more because she is right. Tappad markaro koi batha nahi sahi and galat ka pharak.

I really want to see Ridhima in that attitude with everyone in the house. Though expecting much she should say they are wrong So Ishani points of my mistakes I'm doing the same types. But Ridhima cannot do it considering her role written it in that way.

And yes your last line is absolutely right - a relationship needs understanding and mutual respect along with love and trust.

Originally posted by: Abhyudaya

I completely agree on the lines of I me and myself. Indeep whole RS clan is such that they think first them and later Ridhima.

See that is why I told in the post that Vansh cannot leave her because this girl doesn't think of her first. She keeps him first which none in the family ever done to him.

His shortcoming his is his family. As titli explained he is being Indian origin male hero of not able to choose family and wife so knowing the fact where he is wrong he is in guilt.

Which is why I really hope Ridhima gets someone like how Vansh has his family because neither the Vansh nor his family deserves her.

And he knows that fact.

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

agar is tarah dkhne lage toh ho chala fangirling! Sirf Sarab aur Meher rahe jayenge jo ek dusre ko deserve karte hai. Omkar,Mahendra Virat,Kartik,Manik koi apni apni partners ko deserve nhi karta. Sarabjit and Siddarth Khurana are the two who deserves Meher nd Roshni. Yaha pe toh Dadi Chachu Siya Aryan sab ko malum tha ki Ishani did it. Vansh is like Elijah.

Well, I feel from not deserving they should turn as deserving. As you said Vansh knows what Ridhima is so he knows for the fact she deserves much better but he cannot leave her. So yes I don't think I was wrong in mentioning that he knows the truth and wants her love for him.

Now, Ishani said only Vansh and Ishani knows who actually did the accident. No one in the family knows that says the rest doesn't know the whole truth and most important they are Ridhima parents..

Originally posted by: Abhyudaya

I think Sia turned odd a little because of her accident but I agree completely. His protection had made his sister and brother the most notorious people. They don't even feel guilty for what they do. Because of Vansh bhai hein samabhal lenga. And everyone in the family expects the same to do. Remember when Vansh angry on Aryan Rudr said you will take care of the family so do it. Dadi said whatever you do I know you keep family front.

He might care for the family but he never pointed out their wrong things and let them do it and that's where he is wrong

Maybe why he wants Ridhima more and more because she is right. Tappad markaro koi batha nahi sahi and galat ka pharak.

I really want to see Ridhima in that attitude with everyone in the house. Though expecting much she should say they are wrong So Ishani points of my mistakes I'm doing the same types. But Ridhima cannot do it considering her role written it in that way.

And yes your last line is absolutely right - a relationship needs understanding and mutual respect along with love and trust.

Actually the problem is

Ishani was too small to bear the punishment. I still think its actually not ishani its someone else that will turn up later.

Vansh as a brother took the blame as he was elder and fulfil the duty of being a gurdian. And like any filthy rich they supressed the case.The irony is after so many years the secret had resurfaced its a ploy of destiny. Ab kise pata tha ki Riddhima hi wahi larki hogi jinki maut ishani ki accident se hui hai. Yeh toh Kabir vi nhi janta tha. Usney toh bas tukka mara aur tukka lag gaya. Vansh ki dar ne usey yeh karwaya hain. He is scared that Riddima will leave her if she will know the crime. Siya ke ilawa Sab usey dar ya dependence ki wajah se pyar ksrte hai.Dadi vi selfish hai. Vansh knew how much difficult it is to lose Riddima.thats why i always wanted separation. Zara hm vi dekhe Vansh babu kis had tak ja sakte hai. Riddhima ko woh ishani ki past ki galti ki wajah se nhi kho sakta....His anxiety and fear to lose her made him to hide the thing.Ab Riddhu k parents toh wapas nhi ayenge. So he is being naive here ki past ko choro present pe focus karo. Par agar woh Ridhima ko sach bolke yeh restart karta toh itni confusion aur problem hoti hi nhii.

Vansh was practical here that why to destroy his beautiful present for a dark and dirty past.He is being weak both as a husband and a brother. Truly he cannot lose both.but only irrational thing he has done is hiding. That is the biggest foolishness here. Baki toh Riansh flawed hai nd they deserve each other. Atleast Kabir Ahana ya Ragini se zyada accha life partner mila hai dono ko!

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

I get vansh's intention. But mighty behaviour if this clan put me off. Nasty dadi can give lecture to ridz but can't give it to her pota poti. They can't understand her can't sympathize but why they expect her to understand them. Everyone says he is her protector but I disagree. He can't save her from himself & his family. Kahe ka protector. It's riddhima who protects him from himself. She is his protection gear. That's why he can't afford to lose her.

Standing with her and protecting her are two different things. He always stood with her but protecting her from his family he couldn't. But when something happened in front of him he certainly took stand for it. When Dasara day everyone wants to hurt her and he warned AP, Chanchal and Ishani about the same. Don't interfere in his personal matters with his wife.

So yes if something definitely happening before him, he took the stand. He always stopped Ishani going over board with Ridhima.

But protection I don't think. Also, Ridhima never said anything too. In past, she couldn't because if she should say who has hurt then the reason is her jassosi on him again.

And now nothing such happening since Kabir is in the home. He does everything. Vansh will protect her from Kabir going forward I feel but from his family not until it happens before his eyes.

Because knowing the fact that Aryan also involved in the plan with Kabir - he isn't doing or saying anything.

Until unless Aryan in team Vansh

Originally posted by: pyaar2012

Actually the problem is

Ishani was too small to bear the punishment. I still think its actually not ishani its someone else that will turn up later.

Vansh as a brother took the blame as he was elder and fulfil the duty of being a gurdian. And like any filthy rich they supressed the case.The irony is after so many years the secret had resurfaced its a ploy of destiny. Ab kise pata tha ki Riddhima hi wahi larki hogi jinki maut ishani ki accident se hui hai. Yeh toh Kabir vi nhi janta tha. Usney toh bas tukka mara aur tukka lag gaya. Vansh ki dar ne usey yeh karwaya hain. He is scared that Riddima will leave her if she will know the crime. Siya ke ilawa Sab usey dar ya dependence ki wajah se pyar ksrte hai.Dadi vi selfish hai. Vansh knew how much difficult it is to lose Riddima.thats why i always wanted separation. Zara hm vi dekhe Vansh babu kis had tak ja sakte hai. Riddhima ko woh ishani ki past ki galti ki wajah se nhi kho sakta....His anxiety and fear to lose her made him to hide the thing.Ab Riddhu k parents toh wapas nhi ayenge. So he is being naive here ki past ko choro present pe focus karo. Par agar woh Ridhima ko sach bolke yeh restart karta toh itni confusion aur problem hoti hi nhii.

Vansh was practical here that why to destroy his beautiful present for a dark and dirty past.He is being weak both as a husband and a brother. Truly he cannot lose both.but only irrational thing he has done is hiding. That is the biggest foolishness here. Baki toh Riansh flawed hai nd they deserve each other. Atleast Kabir Ahana ya Ragini se zyada accha life partner mila hai dono ko!

I agree with the last paragraph completely. Infact the whole comment.

The biggest mistake is he hid the truth from her and he needs to bear the consequences for it. As you asked is he ready at that time?

I hope with this track they show separation organically because the track has brought it. Rather than showing some stupid track and then get the separation.

When they got chance they can utilize this and make sure they get back more strongly.

Originally posted by: Abhyudaya

Standing with her and protecting her are two different things. He always stood with her but protecting her from his family he couldn't. But when something happened in front of him he certainly took stand for it. When Dasara day everyone wants to hurt her and he warned AP, Chanchal and Ishani about the same. Don't interfere in his personal matters with his wife.

So yes if something definitely happening before him, he took the stand. He always stopped Ishani going over board with Ridhima.

But protection I don't think. Also, Ridhima never said anything too. In past, she couldn't because if she should say who has hurt then the reason is her jassosi on him again.

And now nothing such happening since Kabir is in the home. He does everything. Vansh will protect her from Kabir going forward I feel but from his family not until it happens before his eyes.

Because knowing the fact that Aryan also involved in the plan with Kabir - he isn't doing or saying anything.

Until unless Aryan in team Vansh

Actually he is also from same breed naa. What he did to her in revenge track was pathetic. All of them are pathetic creature. I can't sympathize to this clan.

& anyone please don't say forget that revenge track I can't. I didn't develop amnesia like ridz & maker.

I just despise writer for all of this inconsistency.

Originally posted by: SexyPotato

I'm not saying vansh shouldn't defend her family. I'm more annoyed with hypocrisy & insensitive behaviour. When it's about his mother he was going crazy he took revenge but it's about her damn parents & she had no right to know. On top of that both of 'bhai behen' made her guilty. Vansh failed as brother. Aryan became molester, ishani became potential murderer because of his so called protection.

They expects blind trust from her but can't even consider her family. There is a difference between possession & family. & she is not their family.

Bass pyaar se relationship doesn't work. It needs understanding, mutual respect etc.