Chhal aur kapat ke pendulum se 'Option 2'! - Page 8

Originally posted by: jane_austen

Am I allowed to gush at this reply? Please excuse me but 👏🤗. Sorry 😃.

Awww you just gave me the kick I get only from the morning coffee 💞😅

When I read the main plot of Kusum Dola, I dismissed it as a trp-grossing on & off love story. I assumed that the hindi version was making it into a more logical version. But reading your reply, I wonder if KD was never supposed to be about a 'likeable' ML, but rather about a dark-grey ML and the complications his serious flaws cause in his marriage. I guess the problem is in the perspective - we want a 'likeable ML'. Your analysis of Virat in this reply certainly brings forth very logically, the mental state of a deeply flawed individual caught in the mess of his own making. If that is the intention, I hope they maintain the characterization and character growth that way (for the sake of consistency).

I think they will do a better job with showing his growth here than in the other one. I couldn't connect with that version of this character at all. Here, I can hate him for something but I know where he is coming from and it doesn't make his action justifiable but leaves hope for self realisation.

I am reminded of one my friends's husband. He was such a such a strange mix - highly educated but MCP to the core (had obnoxious views on rape😡). Believed in good values, and by all accounts, an honest man in his dealings with the outside world. He had manipulative mom and sister, yet cared for his family (especially his sister) to the point of self-sacrifice and self-denial. He was supportive of my friend's job, also got the feeling that there was care towards her as well...would be thoughtful towards her in some cases but controlling in other cases. I hope I'm not jumping to a convoluted conclusion about the show 🤪

I am sure your friend is still with this husband of hers. He doesn't sound like a toxic person but for his views on rape... I don't know what to say... By nature, it's very easy to manipulate men. That's a sad part (exceptions always exist)

@bold I wished so too....😆

Originally posted by: ash-912

Loved it!!!

Virat should stop confusing himself and the two ladies. Why is he giving mixed signals to both. And I hate him for his male ego, like seriously, you don't want your wife to cross her limits with you as well as outside world. I mean like she is just 18 and you have already forfeited her of her rights to love??? To feel what it is to be in love like??? I understand his pressures from his "achche ghar wale" but still how does he conclude with one version alone. How could he easily give into all the instigation by susheel bahu and her associates. A moment later he is seen drinking in her beauty and just wanna run away somewhere with her from all these dramas. What's with him. He is jealous because like @jankiraghav said he is unable to create the effect on her. At least she does not Express but his feelings are now beyond all that control stage. He wants to have her feel for him, long for him... but that would not happen until the loose ends are tied. Both of them need to resolve and get a clear outcome before it turns toxic.

Agree. Everyone wants a person like that. In many ways, he gives Sai that feeling when he's in a good mood... But Sai has her walls high. He doesn't know how to get to the other side and frankly, he's not trying but only staring at the wall and hoping it will crumble by his gaze 😆 but Sai ke cement me dum hai 🤣

I know a lot of things are happening after the yesterday's announcement. But I would request all forum members to keep calm as it's their personal. I hope the CVs are not fools to put forth the personal changes onscreen in the script and story.

Originally posted by: VioletOrchid123

Your posts are like oasis in the desert janki.... The healthy discussions here is the only reason i am sticking on to the show.... Otherwise I've lost all hopes from this serial... Family drama is eating up all the screenspace.... There's 6 episodes a week cant they dedicate 2 episodes for the leads and their relationship development?... They can continue with the family drama for the rest 4 episodes.... So disheartening to see good actors being wasted here.

Haven't seen the episode today... Wu was enough to boil my blood.... Virat's control freak attitude is a major disappointment.... No matter what he thinks him or his family have no right to force sai into anything... Even if it was a real marriage, he still cant force her... The way family treats her comes under domestic violence... Sai should make a police complaint for mental and physical torture.... Well i guess thats too much to ask from an itv character... If virat is Really intending to change sai, then i don't want him to fall for her at all.... He is better off with his vahini cum dost.... He should be stuck for life with that vile lady... Only then will he realise sai's value... If he is considering sending her to hostel, then he should do it asap.... We n sai will be spared of the circus happening in chakram niwas.

I don't mind the hostel at all. That poor girl Sai needs a break from being served jalebis over insults on empty stomach

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

Hi janaki, as usual your analysis too good, I specifically like the way you explained about virat and sai especially what they might be feeling at current situation... To be frank , there is no hope left in show but your analysis is the only thing thats giving hope to still hook up with this show. I am really sorry in advance to rant here but I am really pissed of this show yaar no no not because of Neil and Aishwarya engagement nor because of virat's pendulum behavior but dragging Alta fight to nearly two complete episodes that two with most idiotic behavior, seriously??? 😰😰😰 No offense to any fans but I think "ssk" is the most idiotic serial ever made even though I love rosid to the core bcoz even though there is lot of drama, rosid relationship/scenes ( atleast we can one scene per 2 episodes) is delight to watch. Not only this there are so many serials which are completely based on drama but we will get equal amount of lead pair scenes to balance it... But in this serial ml will have guest appearance in every episode, that's it. Every day there will be shouting match again I am really sorry to take the name but one BB Show is enough in TV yaar, no need of another one, CVS are putting all their creativity just to drag this fighting match to full week and this is really not done...

Keeping all the dialogue of virat aside for a moment, I really feel bad for him yaar. As a viewer we are not able to tolerate this daily shouting match then I can understand virat's frustration to return to wwf ring from hectic day, I pity him of this...

I agree to this as well. Much as he did disappoint me today, I understand his predicament but not the fact that he wants to rebuke Sai for everything despite knowing the truth and even making faces of disgust at all his Chakram niwasis... He should have taken option 1 for big good and hers. 😆

Once again I really sorry janaki for ranting in post... Probably this will be last post,,, but I will surely follow your post everyday, not for the serial but I really like the way you analysis the situation... Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️❤️

Arey why last? Do rant as much as you want. It makes the day better 🤣

Originally posted by: chinnu_kaku

Nice points janaki. But I am not ok with the physical intimacy point. there is a saying in tamil that"be a prostitute in the bed with your husband" 😡.I hate that. there are men who will look at their wife as only "that" in the bed and will just throw her away like a used thing, when their lust is complete. I have heard amd seen many woman who advise their fellow ladies that men are weak in bed and should control their husband using that weakness.. no ! absolutely no... not all men are weak... there are spineless and thick skinned men who use their wife only as a birth machine,atm machine, free maid and p**** ...sick of men with hypocrisy and double standard..

I am not talking about physical intimacy in the form of intercourse to consummate a marriage. The saying isn't just in Tamil but it's part of a Sanskrit sholka which very conveniently defines virtues of a good wife... One of them is "shayaneshu rambha" -- the one you are referring to.

Between a husband and wife the physical intimacy goes way beyond the consummation of marriage. It's about being intimate in mind, thought and emotions. Also physical intimacy is not just s-e-x. There is a lot of love that can be shared just by being around one another.

Also, the kind of men you mention exist but there are a million men who love their women beyond the scope of s-e-x! And I definitely don't think Virat fits into the category of men who lust. He is seeking companionship and conjugal relationship with this woman who's slowly taking control of his emotions. Physical attraction is just as natural. It is happening slowly.

Did Virat come in calling for Sai? Did I imagine it😆

Originally posted by: njain16385

Good Analysis dear.

in your post you have raised a valid point of physical intimacy. Yes that is needed when you are angry, frustrated....but just a hug solves everything. He is surrounded by negative vibes from his office to home. And the only woman who can give him the comfort of intimacy is moving away ( for her own valid reasons). There he feels suffocated and reacts in absurd way.

Moving on to Sai, who wants to get loved by her own husband, just like any other woman. But her marriage has been set on some pre condition. How can she allow a heartbreak and let someone play with her feelings. The only solution is separation.

The ground has been laid for it. Virat has to take final call.

Its said " You only realize importance of someone in your life when they move away. Else you take them for granted"

So, separation will do two good things, a bottleneck from CM " Sai" will be removed, when family will be at peace. But it will give rise to an inner turmoil inside hubby heart to realize what he took for granted was the most valuable thing he possessed "his Kohinoor"

Wow ! 👏 I loved how you summarised that one.. perfect. Yes we take things for granted until we have to do without them and then realise how much it means!

It will not only remove the bottleneck from CM and give him the heart break but also make him realise the goodness in his own family because Devyani's story will be an eye opener for him.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Did Virat come in calling for Sai? Did I imagine it😆

No you didn't. I was thinking, "arrey andar toh aao..." And aate hi poocha bhi toh kis se 😆

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

I am sure your friend is still with this husband of hers. He doesn't sound like a toxic person but for his views on rape... I don't know what to say... By nature, it's very easy to manipulate men. That's a sad part (exceptions always exist)

Yes, she is with him still. I can tell she shares a 'bond' with him, although 'traditional' values

'may' contribute to her stand. I have officially put him under "persons to avoid" list in my brain after his views on rape but his contrasting qualities/actions in other areas baffle me.

Originally posted by: jane_austen

'Kabir Singh' is a hindi movie, remade from telugu movie 'Arjun reddy'. The protagonist oozes toxic masculinity, is violent, has anger problem, obsessed with his 'love'. Boys want to be like him and girls want him due to his 'true love'.

🤣🤣🤣 oh now I know! I remember reading about it but totally forget who was the actor etc