Suprabhat Bhagininno! ☀️☀️
Marathi greetings of the day: Til Gul ghya ani godd godd Bola(Please have a mouthful of sesame- jaggery ladoos and speak good thoughts too) Happy Makar Sankranti, Pongal, Uttrayan!🌿🌾🌻☀️
But godd godd bolne ke badle ye kya!?😲 Chavan Saheb is still in PMSing mode 😂 -- call it Possessive Male Syndrome (Sai can call it Pati Mera Sadu as well) kitne din chalega? 😑
Definition of PMS in males: When jealousy gets the better of deeply protective men, who have deep rooted issues with relationships arising from their fear of rejection and abandonment. (Totally original, but copyright free😅)
His confused super-proud-but-still-cross look continued and there was 'surprise' when Sai said "Is Ghar ke Kisi bhi mard ya aurat ne Nahi seekha ki aurat ki izzat ke liye aawaz uthani Chahiye"... So, does she view Virat as separate from this 'Ghar' where she likes no one else except his mother? 😂 Chavan saheb, tube light Ka button on Karo !
Of course, also, a moment of balm on his heart when she told the creep, "Mere Pati school ke principal Nahi Hain.. you are a criminal" 😅
Bechare Chavan saheb must have also gauged that now he has to come back from work and do some homework today 😅 Baiko totally ignored his hand holding moment and walked away to Shivani's side leaving him waiting 😎 He must have remembered Gadchiroli days 😅 But that moment of hand holding was enough for someone harping about susheelta to realise that burns ointment tube she was holding was khaali.... 😵
Frankly, I was disappointed at the anti-climax with Virat's anger. I wasn't expecting him to bash Amey to be honest because I knew he wouldn't take law in his hands. But his painful "pyaar se jyada pavitra Kuch Nahi... Koi rishta Nahi", which made 'true love' swell with pride for a moment, left me confused. I couldn't connect it to his feeling because he doesn't feel in love with Sai yet nor is he in love with Patthar-lekha anymore. I am viewing this statement as made in context of Shivani and his general gyaan. (Anyone else who can help add context to that dialogue please do). I can only see it as another bhavishyavaani, when he finds out the complete truth of the 'pyaar' he thought he had found and the 'vyapaar' that was made of it with the 'neech harkats' that have now been licensed by his 'dil-ke-acche' Ghar ke bade bekaar.
But Sai ne bhi ek premonition Kar diya "saccha pyaar kismat me ho toh Kisi ke chahne na chahne se Kuch Nahi hota"✨🌟
So, Amey's take down essentially was to be done by the women. It was significant given that each one was affected in some way. I LOVED how Sai and Shivani instilled confidence in Sarita with Shivani saying, "Tum apna sar mat jhukana". Why should a woman be blamed for a man's misdeeds. Also, Sarita turned out to be a more self respecting woman than aadarsh bahu Mallika-e-Maturity 👍
But did this drama actually change anything that Sai wanted to change with the "awarenesses" of Chakram niwasis? No. Because kutte ki dum seedhi Nahi ho Sakti. But it has restored Shivani her dignity and it shouldn't matter what anyone thinks. And he also took her to file the official complaint -- it was significant👍
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The highlight of the episode was Ashwini and Sai. ❤️💞❤️💞❤️💞❤️💞❤️💞
I love, love, love this bond. (I just HAD to go hug my Aai after watching it 🤗☺️ ) I loved how Sai gave her the hug from the back.
How much pain did Virat cause his mother? Far greater than he did to Sai. And it's true that Ashwini has already forgiven him. Only a mother can do that without even expecting an apology and tell herself, "Wo bhi taane sun sun Kar pareshaan ho Gaya hai"
Well, that's true to an extent and Ashwini is right but I am not convinced because Virat is capable of ignoring the taunts on a normal day. He reacted on purpose in his moment of vulnerability and hurt both the women on his side on purpose even after saying 'Main Jaanta hoon'. He has to explain himself.
I don't think this can be left unresolved. 😒 I am really disappointed with no scenes at all for the bond he shares with his mother (even dad for that matter. Why hasn't he spoken to Ninad straight)
Sai's aane do, "Aai ki Aai Yaad dilati hoon..." 😅😂😅😂 Wow, can't wait for that. It better be part of the fight we are going to see. Go Sai go!
I want to reserve comment on Virat until he returns home for the homework, frankly 🙄. We have been told Virat has never been in a relationship before -- so it's natural he hasn't handled these feelings before; and it's such a complicated 'deal' where even making yourself vulnerable is a scary thought but it's beyond control. It is actually best to talk to the spouse candidly what one is feeling -- insecurities, struggle, attachment, affection, confusion. It helps develop intimacy. But phir jalebi ki dukaan kaise chalegi? 🥨🥨
The past two episodes also have me thinking about another aspect surrounding this suddenly 'infuriated' Virat: Why wasn't he frenzied like this when he learnt that his 'true love', who he was on a mission to find, had blocked his number after judging him only with one random call and even gone ahead and consented to marriage with another man without waiting for his "special moment" that he promised her? All in a matter of about three-four days? He wanted to give up chasing that 'true love' for his brother without showing any sign of this kind of anger? How is it that he couldn't take kindly to his 'Hum Aapke Kuch Nahi' wali wife putting up a flirting act in his presence and her 'don't care about your pasand', but was able to counsel his 'true love' to find happiness, friend, best friend, lover and husband in the man she had married, in the calmest of his tones?
And he can't help burst out at this fake flirting by his 'wife' whom he said, 'Main Nahi bandhunga'...
Ever since the conversation after her suicide attempt, Virat has told Sai at least six times "ummeed mat rakhna, Pati Nahi ban paunga" including one time during their argument after 'true love' left the house where he said, "Farz Karo agar main Pakhi ko pasand karta bhi hoon toh tumhe takleef Kyun ho rahi hai... Hamari baat ho chuki hai iss baare mein..."
Now isn't this a bit 'jyada umeed' that he can claim to be 'emotionally involved' with some other woman while being 'physically loyal' to his marriage, but Sai can't even indulge in 'emotional flirting'? If his "pyaar se badhkar" dialogue today was in anyway related to his leftover feeling or his sense of pride for his pakki zabaan for that bhankas vaada, then Sai should better shift to Shivani Bua's room. Shivani will be more than happy to have room mate 😑
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Karishma ke baare me toh kya kahein 😂😂😂 Bhavani's punishment just broke her bubble that she had been accepted on Team Makad Sena. Omkar and Sonali's expression was laugh worthy, especially Omkar telling Sonali to ask vahini why was she punishing the darling bahu. 😅😅 I am sure he will remember Sai's chapat to Amey today the next time he opens his gutter mouth 😐
Bhavani's reason for punishing karishma - jhoot Bola par pakdi gayi isiliye 😯😯 Wow! And then the gyaan -- Sach dabi awaaz me Kaha Jaye toh seena thok Kar bole huye jhoot se dab jaata hai 😤😨 I wanted to see Ninad's expression but it did not reveal anything. He had cursed his kismat when his IPS son was enjoying his wife spinning a yarn to expose the criminal 😒🙄
So Patthar-faced Toxic Didi has finally met Mephistopheles -- Kuch bhi Karo, har keemat par? What is Patralekha's keemat in her own eyes? Her pale face and possessed eyes look did not leave much room for any interpretation so I am assuming that when her lips made the only movement on her face for her to mouth 'Mujhe acche se pata hai mujhe kya Karna hai', she means she will now visit the couple's bedroom as often as she can. She knows Sai's reactions will be enough to kill any moment of peace between the husband-wife and her job will be done.
Someone please bring those chillies already 😖🤬 Has she found new hope in the 'pyaar se badhkar dialogue' today? I hope Sai also latches on to it and connects it to "pyaar... dosti". Can't wait for the Sam Dam Dand Bhed in the true spirit.
Am not sure about the involvement of Ninad in this whole thing -- he just seems to be zombied. Even Omkar and Sonali looked surprised. My only hope is in the silly Karishma blurting out this plan one fine day 😂
How conveniently has everyone forgotten about the other chaheeta beta? And Makad gang enjoys their meal when no one is watching? Baaki saare bhookhe, Especially the husband wife? 🙄 I guess Sai and Virat will soon understand what it means to live on love and fresh air, literally 😂😂😂
Now that Sai is stepping out everyday, she should really bring a door lock and some chipkali traps for the bedroom 😐
I am looking forward to the Devyani track because it will lead to the much needed break this fighting, confused couple needs. Distance does make hearts grow fonder, only if the hearts are indeed 'connected'. And 'connection' toh, we all know, is very strong💕.
Today is the day of new beginnings, as the sun moves to the Northern Hemisphere and nature begins to seek the spring. Here's wishing all of you a heart full of new dreams, new goals, new thrills, renewed spirit and renewed energy! May everyone celebrating the sun today find warmth, harmony and contentment around them 🌾🌻🌾🌿
Sending warm wishes for Makar Sankranti, Pongal, Uttrayan from my family to yours, accompanied by a plateful of Gul poli and of course Tilgul ladoos or chikkis, if you like!! If you have any delicacies to share, Dil Khush ho Jayega ☺️🥰 whoever is flying kites today, please take care and fly higher!
Warmest hugs 🤗 and lots of love ❤️
J
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