I am sorry, but i think the gravity of mistakes also matter and Virat's mistakes have life altering effects..for example marrying Sai and telling her afterwards that he has someone else..
Also after marrying Sai telling Pakhi, he still only loves her.
Also,
If you support someones education you make sure you give them peaceful environment , not the junglee environment his family has.
According to me.. he is leading Pakhi along.zIf he clears the situation everything can go back to normal.
Exactly my thoughts, pakhi to hai hi khudgarz but viray being this much thoughtful, he had ruined his brother's life too! The way samrat went mia isn't it for virat's stupid vada to pakhi which rose hope inside her? I have question from the very beginning if they both were this much in love with each other why didn't they fight for it? They could have say these to samrat or his mother before samrat pakhi marriage. When they couldn't fight for their so called love so why all these mess now? All these love drama? Did they forget what is their relationship now? Or pakhu expecting some EMA and virat instead of sternly putting a line of their relationship he's also gave her mixed signal.
Not just that take sai na...the way their marriage happen and all sai's father death ( in attempt to save virat) a girls life is already upside down that time right? Now think how she felt when his husband told those nonsense to her right after the marriage. Yes it was forceful for sai but she never said she will take it as deal! It was virat said that to her...a girl would feel dead from inside if her husband says that to her. And for a girl who has no one but that husband of her!
So for me main culprit is virat, but with time as his character is developing I'm really hoping he won't do some stupid things like those past things again at this moment where we can already see he's falling for sai but just his mind is not taking it that way yet.