Few thingsOriginally posted by: neeraja91
Virat only clarified that he couldn't give her a place in his heart because he has already lost it to someone else but he didn't warn Sai about his family until AFTER marriage. How much it may have changed the decision to marry - unlikely to have but still he didnt really warn her about that before marriage. He "assumed" that his house is a safe environment when its clearly not and hes still in denial about that. He thinks if Sai "adjusts" and "gives it time" everything will be hunky dory. He should look at his mothers condition to get a reality check about how that will turn out. But until Sai came into jis home, he couldn't see what was Obvious about how his mother was treated for 20 something years . And the technicality about Sai being able to refuse really doesn't hold. If you factor in her age - shes a legal adult but shes literally just out of school, shes vulnerable after basically losing everything when she lost her father, and then this rushed marriage. Sai really did NOT get a choice. She begged Virat to find an alternative solution but he was the one who felt like marriage was the way to go. I dont buy that her suicidality was the reason for him to marry her. Infact if shes suicidal she needs an inpatient psychiatric admission for medical management of depression and not a forced marriage. Living in CM would only cause her to become suicidal again!
1. Virat never knew how his family would react this way .We saw the shock he felt after he brought Sai home and expressed his helplessness infront of Sunny .How could Virat warn her when he didn’t know in the first place .
2. Ashwini’s condition cannot be compared with Sai . They are two different situations .Ashwini situation is because she is married to a spineless guy . She is facing a lot mainly because of her husband. In case of Sai , they are unable to do what they did to Ashwini because she has her husband’s support .They were able to stop Ashwini from studying further but they were unable to do that Sai because her Sai’s husband is not like Ninad.
3. If she is legally allowed to marry then it means she is a adult enough to take decisions on her own . It’s unfair to treat her as a kid who was forced into the marriage .I agree because of circumstances she didn’t have much choice but that doesn’t mean Virat forced her because he said yes to marrying her .
4. Virat is not obligated to find alternative solutions in the first place .As per Virat , this was the best solution and Sai had a choice to accept it or suggest a better alternative suggestion or reject the marriage proposal.
5. Lastly , CN is definitely a safe place for Sai. It might not be a happy one for now but it’s not unsafe for her . If Sai was in GC we cannot imagine what Vital would have done to her . Kamal Joshi knew no one in GC can face Vital Mane hence he asked his student to take his daughter’s responsibilities instead of his other friends whom he considered as his family .