Bigg Boss Tamil 4 - Week 13 - Promo Updates New Thread Link Page 71 - Page 49

Originally posted by: Pigeon13

Thx for sharing Aarthi 🤗

I'm not going to watch today's epi 😆 Pesama season-ah close pannunga pa..bore adikithu..😆

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True dhaan boring 🥱

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

It is bala’s own doing, no questions about that. I am not saying anywhere what Bala did was correct . I was just analyzing the reason behind his behavior. According to me he is still young, immatured and fell prey at the hands of both Bb team and Aari.

He lost his mind completely, he needs a therapy session with a doctor. Sometimes contestants go to BB in confession room to talk/cry and let out their frustrations ( heard this many times from contestants in various BB seasons). If Bala does it now, BB will confuse him more by saying what you are doing is correct. They need TRP, for that they will go any length to break a person mentally.

Aari is not at fault for Bala’s breakdown . It is Bala’s own doing . Aari says few things which could provoke others not just Bala. He plays mind games. In fact he plays this BB game the best. You still think Aari won’t win 😆.

There are more young,immature contestants in past and present season,no one behaved like bala,throwing mic,pillow...

Didnt bala say anything to provoke aari?

Yes,aari wont wini dont want him to win😛

Originally posted by: rosel

so you blame vtv and aari not bala who is behaving violently?No one laid a trap,he himself behaving like that,who would go against someone whom all family members said is playing right

Bala's behaviour is his own!

As for why they are conducting,that's the format and all HM's who are inside know it,why go when you know mental strength is more important?

You still think aari will win😆

Originally posted by: rosel

Fell prey,are you victimising him?

There are more young,immature contestants in past and present season,no one behaved like bala,throwing mic,pillow...

Didnt bala say anything to provoke aari?

Yes,aari wont wini dont want him to win😛

Everyone have different maturity levels , age is not a factor. Aajeedh, Gaby who are younger than Bala have more maturity than him. I am not giving age as excuse for his behaviour. Bala is like Bala, he is short tempered, immatured at times, going tit for tats, throwing tantrums, anger issues, raising voice to bully others etc etc.

I am not victimising him , otherwise I wont list out his negatives , will try to hide them and paint a good picture about him and will say only others are wrong, he is right etc. I am saying Bala is wrong at this time yet he was used for the program.

Is he is doing all these things from yday for provoking Aari ? In my opinion, no. If he wants to provoke Aari, he would do it different way, Bala is capable of that play also. Right now, he is behaving like Oviya, Barani, Madhumita - mentally lost the game. He might walk out of the show anytime either by himself or by red card.

Edited to add - he would leave unless someone helps him to calm down or explain things to him. Ramya or KH are the only help he can get, in this situation when he is still inside.

Originally posted by: rosel

so you blame vtv and aari not bala who is behaving violently?No one laid a trap,he himself behaving like that,who would go against someone whom all family members said is playing right

Bala's behaviour is his own!

As for why they are conducting,that's the format and all HM's who are inside know it,why go when you know mental strength is more important?

You still think aari will win😆

I don’t understand this projection of “Aari’s master plan” also. Sure, he asks a lot of cross questions knowing these people aren’t capable of answering him directly. But still, their anger is their own doing. In no situation did he induce them to scream. All he said in the nomination was that Bala has not been doing much work since his captainship. Even if it is bringing in “previous week’s happenings” does it warrant screaming like a mad man?

If extreme anger management is a strategy, then that’s something I’d want to mimic in real life too. For me it’s difficult to control my emotions if someone continuously screams in my face and uses insulting words. Time and time again Aari has managed to succeed in that in this house. No matter whom his argument has been with (previously Sanam, Anitha, Bala, Rio, Sam) he has said his piece and then let’s the other person respond however they want. When they are much calmer then he would apologise or explain. In no instance did I see him provoking them by smirking, cross talking, or walking away like others (especially Anitha, Suresh, Bala) have done.

Originally posted by: Honeyarjun

Promo 1 - Entha fight mudiyaathu pola . Bala completely lost it . This is not how you can tackle Aari. You need to calm down and ask questions in a calmer tone like Rio to corner Aari, if that is your intention. Aari knows how to provoke people, pillayum killi vittu thotilla aatra mathiri. He knows exactly how to handle Bala , what to say so Bala will lose control. Bala needs a consultation with therapist really. I know what BB game can do to people mentally.

Promo 2 - BB team somehow wanted to Bala create rukkus so KH can have some content and work to do in the weekend episode. They sent subtle messages to Bala in confession room talk, direct msgs through his brother and other families. They intentionally wanted Bala to become villain and send him out through red card. Bala fell for BB’s trap as well as Aari’s trap.

I don’t know why they even have to conduct this show anymore, break everyone inside mentally and finally giving the title to Aari ? For that they can do it this week itself. We can save our time by not watching the show anymore.

Idhu nalla irukke .. what about when he behaved irrationally with other contestants, spoke rudely , even that would have broke others emotionally .. when it happens to him , the show itself is doing something wrong nu solreenga.

May be we can all move to discussion forum for further discussions? Since this is promo and abt promo discussion thread ?

Originally posted by: silverfox

Idhu nalla irukke .. what about when he behaved irrationally with other contestants, spoke rudely , even that would have broke others emotionally .. when it happens to him , the show itself is doing something wrong nu solreenga.

When Bala behaved bad with other contestants, show didn’t do anything behind the scene for that. This time for Bala’s behaviour- I am saying from what I saw , I saw BB asking him to become old Bala during confession room time. His brother gave interview after coming out , he told Bala what BB team asked to say. He wasn’t saying in complaining tone and all. He is so naive not knowing what to say out or what not to say. So it proves what I said , BB team wanted Bala to become villain. Same thing they conveyed to Bala through other families.

Originally posted by: llptch

I don’t understand this projection of “Aari’s master plan” also. Sure, he asks a lot of cross questions knowing these people aren’t capable of answering him directly. But still, their anger is their own doing. In no situation did he induce them to scream. All he said in the nomination was that Bala has not been doing much work since his captainship. Even if it is bringing in “previous week’s happenings” does it warrant screaming like a mad man?

If extreme anger management is a strategy, then that’s something I’d want to mimic in real life too. For me it’s difficult to control my emotions if someone continuously screams in my face and uses insulting words. Time and time again Aari has managed to succeed in that in this house. No matter whom his argument has been with (previously Sanam, Anitha, Bala, Rio, Sam) he has said his piece and then let’s the other person respond however they want. When they are much calmer then he would apologise or explain. In no instance did I see him provoking them by smirking, cross talking, or walking away like others (especially Anitha, Suresh, Bala) have done.

The problem is HM trying to clear the mistakes, why they should do it ?? I have said this before also, if aari said that once these people repeat that again and again 1000 times .. why to take aari’s kutrachatu so seriously ..

I would still like to call it as aari’s game plan becoz he understood that it riles others .. initially it started with the frustration of being tagged as WP when according to him he was following everything .. then he started noticing and telling that and saw it riles others and started using that ..

It is other HM’s failure to take it and react .. In that way Ramya,som and Gaby have all kept that cool. Gabby has voiced out , felt bad but did not scream like mad person .. som and ramya ignored after giving their explanations ..

I have posted in discussion thread. Let us continue our long discussions there 😊