Anupama and Vanraj’s upbringing

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I feel none of Anupama’s kids understands the word “Responsibility “.


Toshu is not earning 1rs and just got married. Samar is no less here, agree dance is his hobby but it’s not at all easy to become one of famous dancer and earned enough money to support family.


Anupama , Samar’s mother is running for job here and there but none of her kids are trying to search bare minimum part time job in professional world. All are doing just time pass on the name of education.

Neither her kids are performing domestic responsibility nor financial responsibility.

Basically anuraj’s kids doesn’t understand “R” of responsibility. Who is responsible for such a irresponsible kids? Of course parents is responsible here including mother😡


I have never seen Anupama or vanraj scolding their kids for not doing domestic chores or not doing job after completing graduation.

Seems like husband was busy in doing extra marital affair and wife was busy in pleasing in-laws , husband and kids for their insignificant/unnecessary demands.


Today none of their kids are behaving as per age. All of 3 are 5 years old kids in grown up body whose mother is feeding them and doing ironing of their clothes 🤢


If in laws are interfering and not letting you do upbringing of your child in correct way which you feel , as a mother you should take a charge of situation and should shut up your illiterate mother in law and husband both to build your kid’s future.

As Anupama Said ek maa mai bahot takat hoti hai and she can fight with anybody for child’s betterment then where was Anupama’s takat and SHERNI avtar when her kids were expecting from her to serve them foods or do ironing on their clothes.

2 thappad laga kar bhi baccho ko responsible banana maa baap ka farz hota hai . Anupama and vanraj both are failed as a parents.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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yes no mater what the situation is at home its up to mother to teach her kids every thing because you dont know what is coming up in your and in thier lives next . the cvs are making a show regarding anupmas growth but forgot first it starts from home , mothers lap is your first school . and secondly they are showing Anupma gets a job of as teacher without any qualifications who cant even pronounce the word properly how and what she will teach the students , they should have shown it step by step first part time learning and get a proper degree then yes .i am talking from my own experience i started my further education when my youngest one started the nursery and never stopped it when my husband passed away all my boys and girls were studding i had worked 7 days a week and 3 jobs at a time .sorry i am not showing it off but gets annoyed about it .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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sorry forgot to say all my boys and girls were doing the part time jobs and use to help in the house hold cores since thier child hood

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Agreed. The parents have sheltered the children from everything and in the eagerness to make their lives comfortable, they have forgotten that these *kids* will have to face the world someday. They have absolutely no sense of responsibility or following through when they commit to something - Samar said he is going to join a call centre but that was not explored further. They want to continue to be dependant on Anu for everything!

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