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Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

Like seriously the way vanraj defending himself and putting all blame on Anu for what he did is soo disgusting

How can someone be this cheap ?

He is not even 1 per guilty for what he did is disgusting and totally ethically wrong but no he is audacity blaming Anu and saying

Masale ke smell ate han hold on jo aurat 24 hour khitchen mei rehte han iss se masale ke hi smell ayege na

Aur mr vanraj shah jo kisi ke haath ke khana kaate nahi siwaye anupama ke aur wo iss cheez ko as his defence use kare iss se disgusting cheez toh koi ho nahi sakta

Second what he said anupama ko menu b read karna nahi ata hold on agar iss cheez ke itna hi sharam thaa toh anupama aage padne dena chahiye thaa agar wo ab tak grow nahi kar paye its because of you amd your mother she try to change herself and grow ek hi job tha wo bhi vanraj ke wajah se gaya

Third she talk about her saree itna hi saree se problem thi toh hud usske liye shop karte simple

Agar anupama aise han all blame go on vanraj because he was totally controlly her

Ek simple sawal for all : In many cases family force guy to marry their choice of girl toh iss mein guy should blame his parents why girl is blame for this jisko iss baat ke koi idea nahi

Why guy treat that girl like sh...t after married

Even she come from poor family she is daughter of someone wo apne ghar jaise thee khush thi why guy feel ek ladki ko shaadi ke baad dress aur khana mil jaye bas inn ke responsibility ho gaye

With basic need girl want an psychological need too jo anupama ko kabhi nahi mila

Now how badly i want to see anupama getting more suceessful then vanraj in career wise and i want to see vanraj regreting leaving anupama how badly i want to see this now

Maine kisi ko janti hu jise biwi se sirf iss liye problem thi kyo ki wo mahanagar se nahi thi wo chote city se thi aur ye ek arrange marriage thi wo shadi se pehle ek dusre engagement ke baad 3 month mile aur every day phone pe baat bhi ki and ye sirf 3 saal pehle ki baat hai

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

Exactly anupama is perfect wife..an perfect mother and perfect daughter.in.law

Vanraj ko abhi kavya abhi iss liye pasand becoz wo wife nahi jab wo wife banege uss mei b keede nikalega

Abhi anupama uneducation ke taunt marta han kavya ko khana na banane ki aur ghar ke kam na ane ke taunt marega vanraj kabhi kisi se khush nahi ho sakta as he think he is best only

Yeah kavya wife bnegi tb pta chalega

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

Why guy treat that girl like sh...t after married

Even she come from poor family she is daughter of someone wo apne ghar jaise thee khush thi why guy feel ek ladki ko shaadi ke baad dress aur khana mil jaye bas inn ke responsibility ho gaye

With basic need girl want an psychological need too jo anupama ko kabhi nahi mila

It's all about parenting in India whose standards have gone to the gutter for majority. I think the situation where India stands right now is educated, service class parents want their kids, be it girl or a boy, to be financially and emotionally independent. These are usually service class people in India.

Cut to a pole apart scenario: Indian businessmen families. Their parents, even though might be slightly educated but bring up their sons as kings but daughters as maids. Want to get them married early at around 21-23 and get that job dusted. Boys grow up like prince who have the right to control everyone, specially wife's emotions, in their house and have freedom to do anything w/o anyone questioning them or blaming them. Plus, here MIL's are such big craps. They grow up being dominated by husbands and in-laws can't now tolerate the fact the their bahu can get so much freedom in these changing modern times. Hence, all the problem pops up.

Sorry to say but being from Northern India, I have experienced this situation in every household, be it middle class or upper class. However, I have heard things vary a lot in case of South India. What are your views people?

Ek baar yeh jo reason diya hai vanraj ne anupama ko dislike karne ka ki anupama english nahi bol sakti theek kapde nahi pehante yeh sub reason vanraj ko court mein kehne do he will get big scolding from judge

Even his Divorce appeal for stupid reason will be khaarij by court

Like Anu said, if he would have left her and been honest with his relationship with Kavya, atleast there would be some kind of morality standard left. Here he was trying to play to the strengths of both and likening Anu to a maid. Pathetic excuse of a human being V is!

Originally posted by: arshi8927

Men like Vanraj will always blame other's for their mistakes. Even if he had been married to someone like Kavya he would have strayed. Then his reasons will be she does not care about his needs, family blah blah.....and the woman with whom he would have been involved would have some poor naive fragile woman who would boost ego.

It would be always woman's fault for these type of men.

Exactly vanraj kind of men never satisfy with anyone

And kavya gonna regret big time

That is anupama who tolerate this men for 25 years kavya will nt tolerate vanraj for sec

And vanraj still didnt show his real colors to kavya let them been husband and wife kavya will see

Originally posted by: Lennie

Ghatiya aadmi full stop!!!

Excuses and blame - thats all he has. The silly excuses he was givingthat Anupamaa was this and that, is no reason to put down a person, and a woman just to justified his own selfishness

Bapuji was right, when one does wrong, they apologise but this man is making excuses.

Not once has he thought thats its his own doing that the family are ashamed off and not supporting him, and will be distant from him. Nope he is blaming Anupamaa. He thinks his family think he is cruel and cheap - he is, cos its his own doing, nope he is saying its Anupama who has made him lower in the eyes of his family.

One should ask Vanraj if Pakhi's future husband does what he did, is he gonna stand there and not think what a cheap and shameless man he is.

Dolly after hearing everything says Anupamaa should stay with her brother. No, thats wrong after hearing such vile words. No woman would say to stay with a man like that

I love anupama reply to dolly behen this is not only anupama family its vanraj family too why only she try to make family stay together why not vanraj

Originally posted by: dipali13

Maine kisi ko janti hu jise biwi se sirf iss liye problem thi kyo ki wo mahanagar se nahi thi wo chote city se thi aur ye ek arrange marriage thi wo shadi se pehle ek dusre engagement ke baad 3 month mile aur every day phone pe baat bhi ki and ye sirf 3 saal pehle ki baat hai

I really feel this generation women should be that much educated so in future something happen that girl able to takecare of herself

Originally posted by: Shelly_392

It's all about parenting in India whose standards have gone to the gutter for majority. I think the situation where India stands right now is educated, service class parents want their kids, be it girl or a boy, to be financially and emotionally independent. These are usually service class people in India.

Cut to a pole apart scenario: Indian businessmen families. Their parents, even though might be slightly educated but bring up their sons as kings but daughters as maids. Want to get them married early at around 21-23 and get that job dusted. Boys grow up like prince who have the right to control everyone, specially wife's emotions, in their house and have freedom to do anything w/o anyone questioning them or blaming them. Plus, here MIL's are such big craps. They grow up being dominated by husbands and in-laws can't now tolerate the fact the their bahu can get so much freedom in these changing modern times. Hence, all the problem pops up.

Sorry to say but being from Northern India, I have experienced this situation in every household, be it middle class or upper class. However, I have heard things vary a lot in case of South India. What are your views people?

Iam not indian but i saw such an cases in most part of the country where they feed their children mind that your boy mean your an king, mean you can do any thing you want, you can treat any one like an shit, your are superior then the women

To be honest before i use to say i want to marry an guy who look handsome and dashing now i say i want to marry an guy who give me respect , freedoom to speak and love regardless how that person look now that doesnot matter

And upbringing play an hug role here if parents start telling them from the childhood ur boy u need to repect the girl , you have to take care of them , your equal no one is superior .

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Ek baar yeh jo reason diya hai vanraj ne anupama ko dislike karne ka ki anupama english nahi bol sakti theek kapde nahi pehante yeh sub reason vanraj ko court mein kehne do he will get big scolding from judge

Even his Divorce appeal for stupid reason will be khaarij by court

Anupma should appeal for divorce aise admi ke saath kon reh sakta han

Anupama apne bacho ke saath khush rahege

Jo 25 year tak vanraj torture kiya na without vanraj she will be much happier