Originally posted by: AK_2010
The two times she left home with 'paraya mard' was based on trust.
BW was a godly man claiming whatever he could do... Even today, smart and literate people believe in these so called godly men and end up like Bon and Sampoorna- exploited and cheated.
In the second case, the man was introduced to her by her caregiver. Her family, Mama and Mami. Don't we tell our children to not interact with strangers? What if some we introduced them to will approach them at their school and say your mom sent me to pick you? Won't the kid go along with them? She knows the person and so does the family. She trusted them to be good people.
Its the nature of relationship. I am sure that people in RC mansion will judge Bon after this drama because she stayed in Hira Mandi. People know what sort of men visit that place and what happens to women there. People will talk about things that they understand and percieve. Now that perception could be right or wrong. A married woman without pallu would be shamed.... Just like even today, there are people who say that woman's clothes are responsible for rape because she was asking for it.