Is that - that easy to move on???

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes, people move on- NOT within a year after that tragic death/murder of own love !!


I don't have any problem accepting that meher is willing to stay with sarab….


if reason is RESPECT/appreciation: he accepted her whole heartedly in family with Karan in that situation.... OK understand.


He is a gem of person (NO ONE can be that nice in real life, at least would ask for who/where is the father and why she is marrying him instead - again this is itv).


I can not accept that she forgot what happened to manav, even after seeing VD (she didn't recall/regret) !!


More logical would be:

after Manav gets memory - they show proper conversation(about what happened) between all 4 (VD -his wife, Meher and sarab) … meher tells them all.. she will stay with sarab as he is the one stood by her when she needed him the most (they are her family now)..... apologize to manav for what happened to him because of her... send KK to jail (for AOM)…. and move on !

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yeap totally agreed.. great points indeed

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes your points are valid, but you have to remember initially in Meher’s mind Manav was dead right so her first priority was to keep her child safe at any cost, then she fell in love with Param and now only has realized her love for Sarab, it’s been a gradual process, She saw what kind of man he was and like I said only now has she developed feelings, it’s not like she threw herself at him from day one and she still doesn’t do that they have a very pure relationship, now regarding Manav, yes he’s come back into her life but she does not know that , she see’s him a Vikram and yes emotion’s should come back to her which they did that night of the party when Vikram recreated the murder scenes, but I feel like she is still clueless as w to what she should do, and yes their should have been a faze where she should have tried harder to get justice for him, but I think she is still that scared girl, scared of what her mother can maybe do to her child, and yes she could get Sarab’s help, but she has yet to tell him the whole truth , I think she is also scarred of ruining this new life she has created. Why is so hard for people to understand she has moved on, it’s not a crime to move on, it’s not wrong to see yourself happy and it’s not wrong to love again, especially when that man has been nothing but wonderful to you at a time when everyone left you alone even your own family.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Whilst I do agree with some of your points, I disagree with others.

Moving on is not time related. Each situation as to be looked on its own merit. Here Meher didn’t just move on she witnessed how Sarabjeet is and In her mind Manav was dead. Even before she accepted Sarab she let manav go. Some memories will always be there but like she told her sis in law that even if Vikram turns out to be manav that part of her life is over. In fact it’s very realistic. That meher died with manav and now what we see is a different meher who has a life child and a good home and it makes sense to not rock that.

Technically, manav moved on too with Aditi albeit as Vikram. Meher had sarabjeet and Param who were her support system and sadly manav has none. Life is unfair to him and it’s very sad - he gets his memory but things can never ever be same again. I do think a sit down talk would be a good idea but I don’t know how Aditi will handle that. Sarab is confident and he knows meher and knows that when she commits she commits wholeheartedly- like she did when she asked him to let her stay. However, Aditi I don’t know how that would work plus manav would need time to process this new reality . It is going to be very hard for him but he has to eventually accept that meher is lost forever to him but perhaps a joint custody of the child? Let’s see.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes each situation is different - if Manav left meher for his family pressure or cheated on her or even died in natural death - that makes sense.

IMHO:

Here, meher family did murder him (he was dead per meher's knowledge) - in front of her - she is the one who called him at home (tricked by her family) - responsible for his death !!!


If not for love - any other person (with good moral) will be drawn in guilt until gets justice to the person lost his life...


at least sarab tried to find him... even though he just met him once.


And yes, manav did not move on, Vikram did marry aditi - he was different person as he lost the memory - did not know self identity.


For aditi - she has rights to know everything as now manav recollected his memory. Yes, she would not like it, will take time to accept the situation - may move out of relationship for time being - it is natural way to respond to that drastic change.


Is hiding everything will help her ? NO. she is already noticing manav is moving away from her (and Manav's care for meher) - how long one can hide it?

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