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Had a crush on a nerdy girl in 9th grade. I was one of the comedians of the class but that doesn't mean I was a mandir ka ghanta. I was a cool comedian who was popular among the boys for my hilarious antics and jokes, but nonetheless I was a comedian. That means I get respect only in my club. The nerds only see me as a weird guy who makes them laugh. So I never bothered to ask her out because I knew she'd say no.

In eleventh grade, I changed my school and state. I was now a private guy in class, minding my own business. Some bully classmates played a prank on me telling me that a girl in the same class has a crush on me, and were pushing me to approach her. I believed them because they were some signals from past few days, but later on a friend of the girl told me that they are joking.

That was karma biting me for mocking a guy so badly in 10th grade that I was ended up being pulled to the Principal's office but I didn't care because those days I was very carefree.

Had a crush on a female teacher in my first year of college. The whole class knew about it. But never approached a girl on a date and those who approached me, I denied it because I thought I was never good enough to be something more than a friend.

Romantic talks bore me anyway. It's much better to be a casual friend than being in a relationship unless you only want sex.

Very interesting topic TM. 👍🏼

My story:

The girl I loved died in an automobile accidence before I had a chance to tell her I loved her. 😭

This happened about 20 years ago (god I'm old! ). We met because of work. I was guaranteed a position, but when I got there to take care of the formalities, they told me that my position went to someone else because of some internal mixup. I got to know the other person over time as we tried to work things out between us. It sucked because we both needed the money for personal reasons, but the company refused to accommodate both of us.

Anyway, after getting to know her a bit more, I started to like her, but I never got a chance to tell her because I rarely met her.

After her passing, I didn't think I would find love again. But I did. I'm happy to report that we've been going strong for a little over 14 years now and there are no signs of things changing! 🤪🥳

So a happy ending to a depressing thread 😊

EDIT: Why is my DP a question mark?

Originally posted by: Ennuyi

I have not seen u so cant comment on your outward beauty..but I have interacted wid u enough to know what a lovely person u are..funny, compassionate, twice sheep game champion.. thats a lot darling🤗

*Runs to add that to my Ugly looking matrimonial Profile* - *Ugly Bragger PIUN* 🤗

We went to the same school. We were friends in kindergarten. After elementary school girls and boys were not allowed to speak with each other so we slowly drifted apart. He shifted to another school in 11th grade but ne lived nearby my home. And then we went to the same college too which was purely coincidence. But we haven't talked to each other since 6th grade. We did once in college but I know it's never going to work out and he's never going to reciprocate my feelings. So I told him I can't be friends with him coz obviously I am going to develop feelings for him if I get anywhere near him. Now it's been 6 month since I last saw him. This has been the longest I haven't seen him. We saw each other every day since we started our schooling. ❣️

Such a beautiful thread. 🤗

Originally posted by: RingsOfFate

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EDIT: Why is my DP a question mark?

Because your life isn't a question mark anymore!

Waise did you and your dead love happen to be thick glasses wearer tree talkers?! 😲

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

Because your life isn't a question mark anymore!

Waise did you and your dead love happen to be thick glasses wearer tree talkers?! 😲

Oh that is a very nice way to put it. Thank you Pain-In-Ur-Neck. Hahah. I’m sorry, but your name is very long, call I call you something else please? You called yourself an ugly duck, so maybe I can call you beautiful duck?

Hahaha. No, my passed love did not wear thick glasses or talk to trees. Neither do I. Is it common to know people who wear thick glasses and talk to trees here? 😆 They sound so full of life.

Me reading these stories in thread

Originally posted by: kuchnaakahoo

What. Call kyu nai kiya. He must have been more heartbroken this time around.

All these years, didn u feel like talking to him !!

Aww. 😆 I know he would have felt bad. More like disappointed and that's okay. As you grow older some memories become sacred to you and you don't want even the person in them with you to change how you feel about these memories. He was my first crush and that's all I wanted him to be and stay. Adult expectations often destroy the childish and happiest memories and I didn't want that to happen to him :)

Not really.I have been in love,actual love, with people over the years to the point of getting proposed twice so I haven't really thought of 'what ifs' with him.

Originally posted by: RingsOfFate

Oh that is a very nice way to put it. Thank you Pain-In-Ur-Neck. Hahah. I’m sorry, but your name is very long, call I call you something else please? You called yourself an ugly duck, so maybe I can call you beautiful duck?

Hahaha. No, my passed love did not wear thick glasses or talk to trees. Neither do I. Is it common to know people who wear thick glasses and talk to trees here? 😆 They sound so full of life.

Shouldn't it be "Beautiful Swan"?! - But alright, it's fine! Given you still may be traumatized over your dead love, even ugly duck will do!

They do - Would you like me to hook you up if you're over your 14 yrs of a supposedly sugar filled blissful marriage?!