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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I dont understand why people dont understand that if we need to make this universe better then giving freedom is the first thing

Letting someone get their own identity is highly necessary

I agree many times they misuse it but cant generalize it na

Exactly we can't generalize it in any way behen... Freedom is a must to everyone individual to cherish, explore and established themselves and their dreams..!!
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

Exactly we can't generalize it in any way behen... Freedom is a must to everyone individual to cherish, explore and established themselves and their dreams..!!

But why do some people do these things?

I am highly repulsed at their way of parenting

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

But why do some people do these things?

I am highly repulsed at their way of parenting

The reason is SM re.... It has rooted a deep fear in parents heart regarding today's youth.. Parents want their children to be safe at any cost even by taking their freedom.. We are thinking from the children PoV but when we think from parents view it will be difficult to revert their feelings... My mother used to say, you can never ever understand or feel the turmoil of a mother to save their children no matter how well you understand me or close to me.. Only God can understand a mother's turmoil and agony for their children till her last breath... How irony is this na that though being close to each other's heart, we the children and parents can't understand each other mutually.. That's the saddest irony..
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Home786

The reason is SM re.... It has rooted a deep fear in parents heart regarding today's youth.. Parents want their children to be safe at any cost even by taking their freedom.. We are thinking from the children PoV but when we think from parents view it will be difficult to revert their feelings... My mother used to say, you can never ever understand or feel the turmoil of a mother to save their children no matter how well you understand me or close to me.. Only God can understand a mother's turmoil and agony for their children till her last breath... How irony is this na that though being close to each other's heart, we the children and parents can't understand each other mutually.. That's the saddest irony..

Some children arent even on SM Shaheen unka kya? Unki kya galti? Unka koi nahi sochta. Some children tell they are in a story sharing platform and also tell their ID. What about them. Dont they deserve a bit of privacy. What about depressed kid who cant speak out and sees the diary as the only place where they can say anything but to no one. Why dont we think of them. Nahi hume kya. Hum jo sochte hai humare bacchon ke liye its always right. Even if it isnt. Hume uski feelings se koi matlab nahi. Jo mere hisaab se will make him/her a great person they will follow that.

Bridging this gap will only happen if parents understand that they also make mistakes and they need to try asking their children. Dont give in to everything but atleast try listening to them. Some parents dont even want to do that. One sentence 'Because I told so'

I agree Parents have turmoils and agony but they are the matured ones they know what result will be for their actions

I agree its not easy

But if taking away freedom can never be understood.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Some children arent even on SM Shaheen unka kya? Unki kya galti? Unka koi nahi sochta. Some children tell they are in a story sharing platform and also tell their ID. What about them. Dont they deserve a bit of privacy. What about depressed kid who cant speak out and sees the diary as the only place where they can say anything but to no one. Why dont we think of them. Nahi hume kya. Hum jo sochte hai humare bacchon ke liye its always right. Even if it isnt. Hume uski feelings se koi matlab nahi. Jo mere hisaab se will make him/her a great person they will follow that.

Bridging this gap will only happen if parents understand that they also make mistakes and they need to try asking their children. Dont give in to everything but atleast try listening to them. Some parents dont even want to do that. One sentence 'Because I told so'

I agree Parents have turmoils and agony but they are the matured ones they know what result will be for their actions

I agree its not easy

But if taking away freedom can never be understood.

Yeahh, here I completely agree you... Parents can listen to their children at least before jumping into conclusion. Listening is a habit which everyone has to inculcate. It's makes this easier.
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Posted: 5 years ago

I dont know why after Lockdown my hairfall is so drastic

And so much hair falls that my hair has thinned too much😭

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

But why do some people do these things?

I am highly repulsed at their way of parenting

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I dont know why after Lockdown my hairfall is so drastic

And so much hair falls that my hair has thinned too much😭


Maybe try aloe vera gel, the natural one though not the one in the packaging.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Hi:)

Nithya here.

Anyone here?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: RoyalDreams97

Hi:)

Nithya here.

Anyone here?

Hi, Akka.. 🤗

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