Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 03 Sep 2020 - Page 38

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I've really just come to accept that it is Mishti's built-in automatic response.

It is NOT going to change until and unless Mishti herself consciously chooses to stop it.

No matter how much Abir constantly tells her he loves her, he supports her, he's with her, and that BP/BM pyaar is not ehsaan. No matter how many times they tell her that...

ultimately the change has to come from inside Mishti. She has to stop thinking of herself as a bhoj, she is naturally going to be grateful and feel blessed to have loved ones like Abir and BP/BM but she needs to realise they are not doing her a favour. Mishti needs to understand that she isn't just 'lucky' to get BP/BM as parents or Abir as a life partner...it's not luck. It's what she deserves!

That's the difference she needs to learn.

That's not easy given her whole childhood and even now the constant negativity and problems she faces.🥺

I just personally think it is her character flaw, and you cannot change it. Even when she was a more fierce angry chorni in season one, she was still this Mishti who said sorry even when it wasn't her fault. (especially to elders, not Kuhu).

Underline - very well written nandu , I absolutely agree with you, honestly speaking I can understand mishti at this point of time , I also know why she fallen so weak and can't take a stand for herself as strongly as we expect her to be , so much has happened with her throughout, person falls weak , loses self confidence, self esteem and that results into lack of courage to stand up for yourself, If I was at her place I owila have also felt broken and weak who knows

But I agree that change has to come within, mishti is a kind of girl who always loved her loved ones more than she loved herself, I remember when she realised abir loves her ,.instead of being all chirpy happy she was crying more shocked to see how can a man like abir even think of loving her The girl runs on low esteem and doesn't love her individual self over others, now that's her flaw he weakness , circumstances made her feel so jo kehna hai keh lo ...but I guess in life self love is more important , you lose the connect with world when you stop loving yourself and you can't love others will full honesty if you can't love yourself first ...I hope this track makes abir realise how low on self confidence this girl runs on and he pulls her out of this , I know he has hurt her too but then he has become her ointment and solution too , pulled her out of darkness too and he will do it all his life till we get out angry chroni back again...m sure we will get her one day , this will end when mishti starts speaking for herself, BP and abir have already started speaking for her , ab bas chidiya ke udne ki deri hai 😳

We were watching the show on TV n after hearing Meenakshis dialogues my mom is like '' kuch zyaada hi dikha rahe hai, aisa kabhi hota hai kya''.. RS ppl are not able to relate to this nonsense 👎🏼

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Yes, even though the dialogues are OTT, I understand that there are people who feel very much the same as Meenu does in society. But most of the people who feel that way also would be quick to blame the girl in case of an assault, which she didn't. I can't reconcile this kind of character inconsistency. I know though that it's not a complete about-turn for BB to feel this way. She has always thought that girl's family should be subservient to guy's, girl cannot refuse a rishta.

If she has no plan behind what she did today, then I would say the outburst is due to different things all coming together - her hatred for Mishti, her anger at Abir not being the son she wants, her anger at Kunal for publicly accepting Parul, and her disappointment that she will not be a dadi. If she does have a plan, then it would restore my faith on her intelligence and reestablish the main reason I so dislike her character.

No daya that wasn't character inconsistency, the way I see it , she was quite clear when she said I am supporting mishti in this case but that doesn't mean I can guarantee this in future ...that was a hint a warning a non acceptance form heart and acceptance out of circumstances just like she had to accept kunal and parul out of circumstances not affection

She must have been proud of mishti because meenu herself never bowed down to mehul and fought against her till he lost the battle , somewhere she saw a glimpse of herself in mishti but her ego couldn't allow to nurture that feeling much

She must have also said it purposely to stop abir from leaving the house and hee main motive could have been to just save abir and saving mishti became a collateral thing, since abir was equally involved in the case along with mishti...

Even after all this it turns out that meenu did all this on purpose to keep the family together so she made the family go purposely against her and deep down she loves everyone , I might forgive her but i will never forget her.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

meenakshi will never agree for surrogacy ..when she didnt accept kunal as her own son,no way..i hate this woman

But according to promo it seems she only gave the idea for surrogacy 😆 Anything for abir se utradhikari 😆

If not anything or her self respect. Meenakshi was talking abt getting abir married again, getting waaris from him even if d mother is not mishti at least she should huv reacted in dis 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

Matlab tumare pati ki dusri shaadi ke baat kar rahe tumara samne at least react in dat.

Too much over dramatic n too regressive dialogue. Bhai dialogue kisne lekha hain. Yrphk was always known for its meaningful dialogue but aajke dialogue itna bakwaas tha ki kya bolu

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Not sure if I can say this as this is a public platform guruji

But I have literally seen this happen.. Not such bad way but yes..... Two marriages cause the first wife could not conceive n the second wife too could not bare a child..... No one..I say no one questioned the man🤢

This is the sad reality of humans.. Not sure if it's only in India that it's taken to such brutal level

I'll again say we might have felt Meenu was way pathetic today.. But such people do exist😖...n it's a sad reality😣

I should say today's episode was actually some dhamaka n gave us some points to think about what's going on in society😔

I know cool, it happens in real , it's a dark area of our society infact I know its much uglier than what was shown in the show Forget idea there are others parts of the world where things are even worse ...😒in the end i can only thank God for for making me live in a better place 😒

I am still not able to get over the ugly part of the episode

I feel makers would have shown mishti being career oriented too along with taking care of family had it not been for trps. Trp janta ko bas gharelu drama hi pasand hai. I so wish this rat race dint exist at all. Wud have seen such great content on ITV.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

my sincere advice never get married to the son of a single mother 🙏🙏🙏

more than ladka,mil should like you..seriously..ho saktha hey tho instead of bride and grooms kundali matching do it with your saas kundali.🤣🤣🤣🤣

only if a whole family likes the girl,the life will be in peace. try to win your mil than your husband,it will put things in right places. no one teaches this technique 🤷

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Bold - 😆😆 Thank you for teaching me the right mind blowing techniques 🤣 I will focus more on impressing my future sasuma maa 🤪 I will have courtship with her first 😆

Originally posted by: Su94

@bold:Thank you for saying this! You have no idea how long have I had the itch to write this whenever someone said ki these things happen only in India. "you can take the Indian our of India but not India out of the indian." And man, don't I know this is true. Migrants go both ways when they emigrate: they either adapt and adopt new ideologies/nayi soch for the sake of mingling or actually reflecting on the regressiveness of their inherited soch; or they end up getting more deep rooted in their inherited value system that oftentimes you'll find that India has moved ahead and these expats have stayed put. If anybody can't understand what I'm trying to say, I can elaborate but it'll become a tedious read. Also, it's not just India, a lot of societies/communities have backward beliefs (but right now, I'll just leave it to them to address).

I love your other points too. Very accurate. Showing this contrast in characters is extremely important to highlight what's wrong in our society and its mindset. And dealing with situations isn't always in black and white. SItuations get entangled in emotions, relations(dil ke rishte) and other intangible elements that can't be ignored and make the solution more complicated. We will fail to recognise this until we ourselves are faced with one. This is for anyone saying MishBir should have walked out of the house today itself.

Bold - and thank you for saying this 👏

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

my sincere advice never get married to the son of a single mother 🙏🙏🙏

more than ladka,mil should like you..seriously..ho saktha hey tho instead of bride and grooms kundali matching do it with your saas kundali.🤣🤣🤣🤣

only if a whole family likes the girl,the life will be in peace. try to win your mil than your husband,it will put things in right places. no one teaches this technique 🤷

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This is so true. India me u get married to the whole family, not just the guy. We shud be careful in choosing them too. Meenu jaisi saas dushman ko b na mile. Had I been in mishti’s position I wud have thought thousand times before saying yes to abir’s marriage proposal.