Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 03 Sep 2020 - Page 29

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Oh I don't know. Everyone suffers from short-term memory loss, including some fans (like myself) 😆

It's not our fault re...meenu is that devious 😆

Come let's choose the easy way and blame meenu.... You can fall and I can catch you... I can also and you can steady me 🤣

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

https://twitter.com/BellaSna1/status/1301344446475202560?s=20

😆😆 I’m sure makers are being influenced by Kokila’s avatar 😆

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Exactly. What happened to the promise Abir made to BP while asking for mishti's hand? He said he'll teach mishti to be ziddi but here we have a bechaari mishti 😒 I guess they showed the magazine mini-track to completely break mishti's self-confidence. She realized standing up for herself will only anger her loved ones who expect her to be strong in every situation

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Exactly, that’s why magazine track was given, Mishti learned that to keep Abir by her side she has to be all forgiving and noble beyond limit even when she’s not at fault to keep Abir and his family happy and together

She has to sacrifice her self respect and pride and apologize to people even when they are abusing her

Better to love and not get married than to become a hollow shell that Mishti is now....

I can totally understand both your feelings about seeing Mishti like this, not our original angry chorni: but a slightly different take on it (pg 31 LU): let me know what you think.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/154064048

disclaimer: I'm not trying to justify either Abir nor Mishti. Just trying to explain the human flaws they have.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I've really just come to accept that it is Mishti's built-in automatic response.

It is NOT going to change until and unless Mishti herself consciously chooses to stop it.

No matter how much Abir constantly tells her he loves her, he supports her, he's with her, and that BP/BM pyaar is not ehsaan. No matter how many times they tell her that...

ultimately the change has to come from inside Mishti. She has to stop thinking of herself as a bhoj, she is naturally going to be grateful and feel blessed to have loved ones like Abir and BP/BM but she needs to realise they are not doing her a favour. Mishti needs to understand that she isn't just 'lucky' to get BP/BM as parents or Abir as a life partner...it's not luck. It's what she deserves!

That's the difference she needs to learn.

That's not easy given her whole childhood and even now the constant negativity and problems she faces.🥺

I just personally think it is her character flaw, and you cannot change it. Even when she was a more fierce angry chorni in season one, she was still this Mishti who said sorry even when it wasn't her fault. (especially to elders, not Kuhu).

Yes, wanted to see her accept the good things in her life and stop blaming herself, but I guess you can't change habits of a lifetime!!

Originally posted by: Onyourface

My god , who wrote these dailogues 🤓

Tum ashubh ho , daag ho , bojh ho just because you can't conceive

Sasuma sach mein bohot gir gayi aaj toh itna bhi mat giro ke zameen bole madam jagah nahi hai upar jao

Why was mishti waiting for BP to take her away , she herself should have gone out of that sick place ! Self respect above love anyday!

So mishbir will leave the house and to stop them , the suicide drama along with surrogacy demand

Felt sad for all of them

Mishti because oh well when was she happy last time

Abir for having a misfortune in life called Meenakshi rajvansh

Kunal for being a *sautela* and a *galti* in life

Kuhu cuz ultimately her concen about kunal being neglected was right

Parul cuz she was yet reminded of her aukaat

But you know for whom I feel sorry the most , the baby...does this family even deserve a baby ? They don't want to celebrate a new life they just want to use it for their own selfish motives

Shame on humanity !

Not sure if I can say this as this is a public platform guruji

But I have literally seen this happen.. Not such bad way but yes..... Two marriages cause the first wife could not conceive n the second wife too could not bare a child..... No one..I say no one questioned the man🤢

This is the sad reality of humans.. Not sure if it's only in India that it's taken to such brutal level

I'll again say we might have felt Meenu was way pathetic today.. But such people do exist😖...n it's a sad reality😣

I should say today's episode was actually some dhamaka n gave us some points to think about what's going on in society😔

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Arre nahi, that was Meenu 🤣 I think she meant ab tak plans flop hote rahe aur ab usse woh bardash nahi hogi 😆

By the way, shouldn't mention it here, but first 6-8 minutes of shaadi-mubarak more than made up for the dialogues I had to listen from Meenu today. Love Kusum! 😊

You are watching that show kya 😃

1st 100 episodes will be super duper as history suggests... Sorry for doing mishti's job here 😆

It's love story kya??

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

@bold: I agree that dreadful day Abir broke the rishta, broke her heart, broke her self confidence and broke her completely. With no proper reason, her entire future with Abir was shattered and robbed😭 Abir had no idea how much Mishti went through and how deep her wounds were exposed again.

I accept that Abir did a grave mistake. And we indeed witnessed the suffering he went through as well. And then again we saw him beg and apologise at the hope of getting Mishti back in his life.

Mishti's self confidence can only be held up, IF she ultimately chooses to rise above all her insecurities. Ofcourse I know it's even 100x harder when you have people around you constantly putting you down and reminding you of your past/worth. But like Abir says, 'there is only so much a rock can withstand the blow against a wall, ultimately will break too' and that's exactly what Mishti is facing. In order for her to get to THAT state of mind to even have the strength to overcome/grow out of it all, Abir plays an important part. BUT I still believe it is ultimately Mishti's own choice. That mental choice she makes to be strong (Whether it be to fight back or ignore the negativity) is not possible just with Abir's 'promises' and love to make her ziddi etc. It 's mishti herself who needs to get out of that headspace, Abir can only guide her, mentor her and support her which he does a fantastic job of. And that's why she needs to accept Abir's long-time request to leave RV house, get away from the negativity, she needs to move on from that tag of 'home-breaker' that constant need to satisfy everyone or fulfil everyone's expectations, and learn to live for herself, for her own sanity and for her future with Abir.

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

i want all the three to happen.

Achaa😂

I don't see the possibility anywhere near..🤣

She is strong as stone and ready to break others 😈

Originally posted by: naq5

How will they convince kuhu to be surrogate. Right now kunal kuhu clearly know where thy stand in meenus eyes. Kunal will agree for abir but kuhu. She dosent love mishti so much that she will bear so much pain for her. Or will meenu threaten to throw kunal out of property n office n house n force her.

What plan is meenu talking about that she will do suicide drama n convince abir for 2nd marriage. And why hasn't surrogacy crossed her mind yet. I will be extremely disappointed with abir if he gets fooled be meenus suicide drama and heeds to her demands. They should just call the police and send her to therapy because she is suicidal. Last time he became all pighlo when Meenu did run away drama n fell from mandir stairs. So easy to fool abir kya😕

Oh Abir won’t be fooled now after the way she betrayed his trust.

Kuhu will be forced by Varsha and Jasmeet to secure her position in RJV by becoming Mishbir’s surrogate

Kunal and Parul will also emotionally blackmail Kuhu to help save Abir’s marriage as Mishti will be thrown out otherwise by Meenu

Kuhu might agree under such double sided pressure

But will Abir agree? From what we know of Abir he will never agree to use Kuhu for this, he wants KuKu to have their own child

Meenu is bluffing about remarriage, her aim is to make them agree to surrogacy

Originally posted by: riya27

You are watching that show kya 😃

1st 100 episodes will be super duper as history suggests... Sorry for doing mishti's job here 😆

It's love story kya??

Yes, seems interesting (at least for now as you say 😆). Couple are in their 40s, will probably eventually be a love story.