Reeling annoyed fans back in with today's episode? - Page 2

Originally posted by: aquaHP

MishKu is their trump card. It will keep coming back again and again and again! They are never going to resolve that.

Absolutely right about the OTT sweetness! Over ho raha tha. If they would have built it dheere dheere then it wouldn't have looked odd.

Abir is never going to stop. He needs to be the savior in situations. He will save whoever needs the most saving, and it is so annoying! He comes up with these so called solutions that actually don't even work as a band-aid. Atleast bandaids help in the healing process. IMO, he chooses solutions that will threaten the people involved in the situation so they have no choice but to make a decision. He has been doing that with Meenu since the show began and now, he is doing the same with these 2. What he doesn't get is that they need to be able to talk it out rather than come together in extreme situations.

Going to quote @journalgirl321 from her post on KuhuNal AT because she wrote it much better than I can/will:

"Varsha never blamed Mishti, but BM jumped in to defend her regardless. It was so unnecessary, and I definitely felt that more than being concerned about Kuhu's disappointment, she was concerned with what Kuhu may have said to Mishti, and how Mishti must be feeling. Like, seriously? And then she says she doesn't differentiate between the two."

Lol that means Mishku issue won't be resolved until the last episode of this show where they will show everything magically gets better in last 2 minutes

I just hope Mishti doesn't give into Abir's bandaid theory this time

Thanks for sharing the quote. I actually thought I missed a part of BM-Varsha convo because of BM's reaction

The problem is not Mishti related. The problem is Kuhu is she is ilogical and stupid and shallow - blaming Mishti for things Mishti does not seek to or want to do. Why should Mishti put up with this imaturity - you did not get something and Mishti got it instead without asking...Blame God, blame destiny - what really can Mishti do? Mishti's problem is putting up with Kuhu so far. She should frame the front page and put it in the hall.

Also Kuhu does not stop at just blaming - she acts on her issues - very first episode - she trips her sister during a race, she tries to prevent her from realizing her love. All these sudden Mishti - I actually like you moments are so fake. Kuhu is unhinged - needs treatment.

Originally posted by: priyapak

The problem is not Mishti related. The problem is Kuhu is she is ilogical and stupid and shallow - blaming Mishti for things Mishti does not seek to or want to do. Why should Mishti put up with this imaturity - you did not get something and Mishti got it instead without asking...Blame God, blame destiny - what really can Mishti do? Mishti's problem is putting up with Kuhu so far. She should frame the front page and put it in the hall.

Also Kuhu does not stop at just blaming - she acts on her issues - very first episode - she trips her sister during a race, she tries to prevent her from realizing her love. All these sudden Mishti - I actually like you moments are so fake. Kuhu is unhinged - needs treatment.

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Abir is also being ridiculous here. He is putting undue pressure on Mishti to put up with Kuhu's mistakes. That way Kuhu will never learn - she will keep repeating her tantrums. Entire R and M families have gone crazy. If any of you were in Mishti's position would you apologize?

Also Mishti did not pull out the jetani card to show her higher status in the house. If so she could have done this much earlier. She did it to say - if you can be so illogical - try this for size.

If Mishti's ilogical ask bothers you why hasn't Kuhu's ridiculous tantrums bothered you thus far? Mishti has no need to validate Kuhu - Kuhu is a mature adult married woman who does not need her sister to validate her insecurities.

If I was Varsha and my daughter created drama in her house because she did not appear on a magazine cover and was insisting on an apology from her sister who did nothing wrong - but just happened to be in a situation not of her making - as a good mother I would advise my daughter of her mistake and look to show her the right attitude. Not go crazy defending my daughter and cause her to be more illogical in future. Good mothers want their daughters to be sensible and wise. Varsha always wants Mishti to be mature. Maybe she can ask her daughter to be the mature one sometimes. BM knows how Kuhu would have been nasty to Mishti - thats why she tends to jump in to protect her. Abir is such a wimpy inconsistent husband. If I were Mishti - I'd tell him to live out the rest of his life with his brother and between the 2 of them just adopt a kid. Just when the show starts to make some sense with Abir telling Kuhu off - they go back to pandering to her like a baby to maintain peace in the house at Mishti's expense. He is coming off lately as a joker with no substance - who just wants to turn a blind eye to addressing issues and push them under the carpet. ugh

Originally posted by: priyapak

If I was Varsha and my daughter created drama in her house because she did not appear on a magazine cover and was insisting on an apology from her sister who did nothing wrong - but just happened to be in a situation not of her making - as a good mother I would advise my daughter of her mistake and look to show her the right attitude. Not go crazy defending my daughter and cause her to be more illogical in future. Good mothers want their daughters to be sensible and wise. Varsha always wants Mishti to be mature. Maybe she can ask her daughter to be the mature one sometimes. BM knows how Kuhu would have been nasty to Mishti - thats why she tends to jump in to protect her. Abir is such a wimpy inconsistent husband. If I were Mishti - I'd tell him to live out the rest of his life with his brother and between the 2 of them just adopt a kid. Just when the show starts to make some sense with Abir telling Kuhu off - they go back to pandering to her like a baby to maintain peace in the house at Mishti's expense. He is coming off lately as a joker with no substance - who just wants to turn a blind eye to addressing issues and push them under the carpet. ugh

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Completely agree with everything you said here! 💯

Originally posted by: Sense9

woah! That was quite a read! Amazingly written with apt description and so many points to discuss.

I hated this line. I detest it when people (in reel and real life) demand respect because of their age or some position/relation that they hold.

The parent show also does this a lot - “woh badi hai, aise baat mat karo.” Respect has to be earned and not given only coz someone is older than you or is superior in some form.

Also loved that small line of Varsha speaking up. She needs to do it more. I seriously loved Varsha in the parent show and would like to see her addressing this situation. I sincerely hope the writers dont butcher her character by reducing her as an insolent bahu to BM coz she speaks for Kuhu. I doubt they would but given the ottness of Kuhu, and what they did to Jasmeet (vs parent show), who knows 🙄

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I'm glad everyone is loving my sense of humour in the P.S.. Feels good🙈

Thank you for taking out the time to read it, @Sense9!! I'm so happy you liked it!

IKR?! It annoys me so much! Like I can respect the fact that you're older than me because culture, tradition and other things but if you think being older than me gives you the right to order me around when you don't even nibhao the relation then I'm sorry but you can complete your demand/request/whatever yourself.

Seeing Varsha speak up felt so nice! She didn't say anything out of line and just pointed out the obvious. The woman has to bear BP-BM's pendulum parenting/leadership without Daadi and Omi Kaka for so long. Kabhi na kabhi toh yeh hona hi tha! (In the interest of full disclosure, I haven't seen the PS recently and when it was airing, I was more into other things but I have come to appreciate the nuanced writing thanks to a few friends from the KuKu AT who recently revisited the show and would share clips.)

Jasmeet was a sweetheart in the little Kuhu episodes, but I don't know if I would call it a complete turnaround and butchering. Yes, her character is a somewhat exaggerated version of what would have actually happened because she has been away from her husband, son and actual in-laws for so many years.

Originally posted by: priyapak

If I was Varsha and my daughter created drama in her house because she did not appear on a magazine cover and was insisting on an apology from her sister who did nothing wrong - but just happened to be in a situation not of her making - as a good mother I would advise my daughter of her mistake and look to show her the right attitude. Not go crazy defending my daughter and cause her to be more illogical in future. Good mothers want their daughters to be sensible and wise. Varsha always wants Mishti to be mature. Maybe she can ask her daughter to be the mature one sometimes. BM knows how Kuhu would have been nasty to Mishti - thats why she tends to jump in to protect her. Abir is such a wimpy inconsistent husband. If I were Mishti - I'd tell him to live out the rest of his life with his brother and between the 2 of them just adopt a kid. Just when the show starts to make some sense with Abir telling Kuhu off - they go back to pandering to her like a baby to maintain peace in the house at Mishti's expense. He is coming off lately as a joker with no substance - who just wants to turn a blind eye to addressing issues and push them under the carpet. ugh

But Varsha doesn't know about Kuhu's demands. She just saw the magazine cover and was worried that her daughter would be sad because she was excited for the cover and it was a very big deal for her.

Fair tha BM was jumping in to protect Mishti (without Varsha even blaming her) but then she should not claim that she is not biased. Just because you say you're unbiased doesn't make you so and that is exactly what Varsha was telling her.

How did Abir's shouting at Kuhu make sense when he put Mishti through so much guilt and secrecy when revealing the truth could have gotten her support and help? If he would have just let Mishti tell everyone the truth like she wanted, things would never have gone this far. I don't think Abir was justified in the whole of the last track. Instead, he was the catalyst for Mishti's situation.

Coming back to Abir and Kuhu, the situation is very different as of now. Before, he was behaving as Mishti's savior and talking to Kuhu, the sister/bro, but now, he is talking to his brother's wife. The situation is very very different.

I think I don't agree with you in some cases...

Like mishti agrees before everyone then she digs back...comeon yes she do..but only when other issue like that cameup..harroz subha aur Shyam bath karthi hey kya..??( If she don't do that..when kuhu will learn...har bar vo nahi manegi..)

Nahi na..she talks bcz kuhu keeps on repeating same mistakes...har baar usse kyu sunna padthi he...isliye vo example dethi ki..uss din bhi tum ne kaha..me maan gayi..again you are asking something like that..

Example of kuhus insecurity or jealous or vo jo kabhi mishti ki kush dekhar apni kushi ko enjoy nahi karthi: Mishbir wedding...after her demand of mandap..before entering house she said " vo abh dramam karegi..meri shaadi..meri mandap..blah..blah" and when she entered bhoom "mishti agreed" she should be happy..but no her expression se saaf diktha he ki vuse laga mishti drama karegi aur sabse kuhu ko soft corner milega...that time mishti ko bura bhi nahi laga..but immediately kuhu said mahaan bangayi...WHAT?? seriously..tumhara problem kya he..if not accepted she will say mishti is selfish..if accepted she will say mahhan bangayi...

This one I took example just to make you understand kuhu mindset..

She should sort out this mind set...bcz this will not keep her happy..even she get all her dreams come true..

Originally posted by: Puririya

Everybody has its own opinion jo logo ko kuhu shi lg rhi hai vo ussi ki tarah hnge jaise jalkudi types jo unse better ho unse jalo

Hayee!! So sweet! Thank you so much for the compliment and your sweet words. Really made my day!