Abir rajvansh - my prized possession

hey guyzzz its been long like longgggg i made a post... but here i'm for the first time to share my disappointment on my treasured possession i mean Abir (thoda cliche hai its ok adjust karna 😆😛)..

Confession time 😆😎 *thank you mish for the one-liner* 😛

Even though i love both of these cuties.... 😆

This lambe baal wala cute sa maasum sa handsome sa dashing sa #humangoals insaan se thoda zyada pyaar karti hu... 😆 here i said it... 😆 even if i love both mishbir my love for abir is little more than my love for mishti 😆❤️

I dont love the #husbandoftheyear abir or #lovergoals abir only..

I love the feminist abir who stood for every woman in this show be it his sister who he fought for to get her what she wants,...

maasi who raised him as his own child, fought to get her the rights she deserves as a mother...

sister in law even when she was a mere stranger, then stood by her when he got to know his brother did injust to her, supported her to be independent..

or his present love for whom he fought for her right to choose, for her respect, to get her justice when his mother did wrong to her...

I love the brother abir who had to become a big man at early childhood itself to look after his brother as raise him literally as his own son...

cant stand his brother going in the wrong path n even confronts him just bcoz he loves his brother... broke ties with him so that he realizes what he is doing is wrong...

I love the family man abir who puts his family's happiness before his, tries to give everything they need.. and helping the maheshwari family whenever they are put on the spot or humiliated by his own mother or anyone... bcoz he knows the value of family...

I love the son abir who loves his mother n craves for her love but still doesnt hesitate to point out her mistake, at the same time respects her n apologies n also forgives her everytime bcoz he loves her...

I love the sanskaari abir who respects elders...

I love the empathetic abir who understands n always looks at the other side of the coin in every situation and try to solve it with minimum damage even hiding his own feeling n pain... be it very first holi incident to recent holi... who tries to empathize with every single soul of this show..

I love the ngo worker abir who is supporting numerous women to be independent n helping people in time of need for which he got awards too...

I love the husband/lover abir who fought for the respect of his love, not ready to make a choice as she is not a thing but his love, never treated her as a property, fought to get her love, to get her in his life, now fighting to keep the promise he did to her n her loved ones...

I love all of these shades of abir not only abir the husband... Abir heera hai hamesha not only when he is supporting only one person...

But today i dont support him you know why he is not himself now... i have accepted him, loved him even when whole fd blamed him breakup ki time pe ya market incident ya coffee pills, he did all those for a reason... i do agree he was wrong at all this situation but i understood his pov as it was for the good of one or the other.... but today seeing him reaching his limit which is not doing any good to anyone i cant support this blindly like how he is blindly doing all this...

i understood abir when he came back to stop mishkun GD as i know he is not an anthrayami to read mish mind that she likes this kunal only who was actually abir...

i understood abir when he bought back kunal to mandap as again he is no anthrayami to read kunal mind after kunal didnt open his mouth even after abir repeated asked if he truely loves kuhu... and also it was about a girls respect n life...

i understood abir when he decided to break up with mishti bcoz it was not an easy choice for him with getting to know back to back truth n for trying to protect his brother fearing the worse that could happen to him, he didnt wanna lose his brother even if it means he has to loose his love n let her have a better life jiski kismat abir jaise nahi hai.. he was wrong in this completely so only even i wanted him to realize soon what he did was not a solution..

i understood abir when he decided to say the truth to kunal bcoz he realized that it was wrong to hide this truth...

i understood abir when he got angry in market bcoz he saw his brother in a near-death situation which was his ultimate fear for doing all this...

i understood abir when he didnt wanna say about coffee pills bcoz its not only about kuhu but about his brother too, his reaction, his marital life...

in all this i understood his pov n accepted the fact that abir is wrong but cant help love him more for looking at all the perspective n being compassionate...

but but i criticized abir for being over forgiving, over protective, treating kuku as kids, immature, hiding truth for it comes to hit him back n hurt him more badly, for trusting people easily, not trying to understand meenu too at some points, for hurting mish during breakup, or coffee pills, for letting everyone assume things about him, lets them walk over him, not standing up for self...

now what he is doing is for no ones good he is blinded by love to see that he is not protecting mishti but forcing her to forget n move on which is pushing her into dark more... he is not being entirely compassionate but selfish too...

the difference between previous situation n now is there abir is aware of the consequences n he was prepared n he actually protected them, but here he is not at all clear in his head... still its a mystery if he realizes the consequence or not and he is not actually protecting mishti....

And talking about abirs trauma n emotions? 🤓

the man who went through so much since childhood from

his father leaving him, mother trying to control him

brother for whom he had to hide his pain n become a mature kid at young age and also for this same kid he had to bury his pain of missing his baba or talk about him openly

a mother who constantly tries to put him down

who finally was able to get love n things settle down, he gets his another wish his baba...

got to know about his brothers betrayal, mothers betrayal, family's betrayal who lied to him and backstabbed him, guilt of their mistake.

then comes the ultimate shock of his life about his fathers reality and gets into the guilt of hurting his family

and within few hours getting to know his brothers birth truth n within few hours had to breakup with the love of his life, live a lonely life for 2 months.. ye koi choti baat nahi he would've gone into depression too for suppressing so much in his heart...

then rubbing salt in his wound comes the jealous game, love test,

then almost losing his brother for which he did all this, then getting to know the truth about his brothers grave mistake,

then getting to know about his love's love and trying to get her back and seeing her with someone else.. losing her the second time... almost losing his life..

and finally, when fed of all this he started living in the fear of who will betray next, what his mother will do, now seeing his love in this condition...

lol this is definitely not something new for abir, some of us have been saying about this since long, abir bhi traumatized hai at every point he went through the same fear of losing his loved one, he has lost himself to the point that he would've gone into depression long back..

CVs are not that big hearted to show this...

unfortunately, i'm also a wisher of this coming true even though deep down i know its impossible... but abir ko bhi dard hota hai, not only now but for a long time which he is living with,...

why did no one care about this trauma during break up where he faced back to back shock and lost the love of his life... why was he wrong then but right now? in both situations, it is about losing the person he love... and both time he is hiding something which he shouldnt, just trying to forget n move is not an option in both situations but why is he right now n wrong then?

all i ask is please please dont try to justify abir, as a person who loves him completely even when he was wrong i know n understand what he is doing but i dont stand this knowing the consequences which even you guyz will understand when what we say will come true... protecting mishti is good but is he actually protecting her or putting both in danger? he needs someone to put sense in his head that what he is doing is wrong didnt everyone expected the same in kunal birth truth, mind you even kunal is abirs life he had the fear of losing kunal and almost lost him, even saw it with his own eyes... this time its much serious, getting legal help is not gonna put mishti behind bars... he is very influenced too, not a commoner without any knowledge of law, any lawyer can help him to solve this without even involving mishti, lol we have kediya type of lawyers who gives idea to prove wife as mentally unstable... abir can get a very good lawyer who can guide him to get out of this situation, after all, that is what lawyers are for, to help us out, there are even lawyers who help criminals, here they are innocent so definitely its the best way to atleast be prepared before varun or meenu or kuhu exposes mishti n gets her arrested... is it ok if mish gets arrested without any prior idea wont then everyone blame abir,? bas we are doing now itself we dont want both to suffer more n dig their own grave...

PS: even after all this he is and will always remain my prized possession. i still hope he is prepared before his worst fear comes true... i'm sorry if i hurt anyone... and sorry for the long rant..

Diyuuu😲

You don't have to justify ur love for Abir yaar... evryone knows how much you love Abir .. waise he is my prized possession also..better you understand it.😆😆

He don't have anyone surrounding him...he may not be in right situation...he will emerge stronger yaar..he may be the weakest now .he may be doing wrong in fear for losing Misht...but he will come out stronger...

I'm still a proud Abir fan...I still love Abir with my whole heart...and I do know you do so...🤗

Diyu Yaar we all know how much you love abir 😆

This time he do behaved impulsively, although I am still waiting for whole picture to get clearer and the thing that he do went to check again for that boy and when he got to know that the boy is dead, maybe he got scared for mishti, already 1 time he had loosed her, maybe fear is more this time. Ab jo Ho gaya so Ho gaya but now want him to behave rationally and be ready with proofs to save mishti

This post❤️

Abir is my prized possession too☺️Loving him since the day one and will always love him and support him proud to be his fan 😎 sorry here's a little more soft corner for Abir more than Mishti😳

Diyuuuuu 🤗🤗🤗 Thank you is a small word for this post yaara , I am in tears while typing this, i can completely understand your feelings today, I remember since baba track we have been saying this that guy is already suffering a lot and hence we just understood him and never judged him but since we know the character too much we can understand what are his insecurities and where are the higher chances of his suffering , its just a concern for him and mishti at the moment and not a judgement

I know mishti is nor a criminal, she did what she did in self defense and she shouldn't be feeling guilty and afraid to speak her mind, abir should definitely be getting her ready to face the world confidently and not advise to let it go , she needs a closure, abir needs a closure.

I understand abir not only as a supportive husband but as a supportive son , son in law , brother, brother in law , as an in individual, that's why in m situations in the AT or here , usually I find in the situation where people criticise him but I keep understanding and defending him , currently I am extremely happy to see that its the reverse case here

There are 2 sides of a coin , hence two sets of consequences, I am also in 2 minds now , I believe that he let go off a lot of legal issues and family issues by keeping the raaz to himself and deciding to heal mishti and make her forget it since she is already not at fault, but my other mind says he invited another set of issues because the family is already suspicious that something is wrong , mishti is still not healed and extremely vulnerable and it seems those light hearted moments are just making her forget but not really heal , varun has reached his house, wait for him to start his game , abir's added responsibility to handle ketki also now ! What if the police again enters and asks that if you were there at the crime site , why did you hide it ? Hai koi jawab ? Aur agar jawab hai toh pehle kaha ghum rahe the ?

As we were discussing yesterday about benba and baba, ke benba was right in case of baba but always choose to hide her fears , today her single mistake is costing her a messy relationship with abir

How long will they live under the fear that someday they will be doomed or caught?

I care for mishbir, I understand them and that's why a permanent solution is needed here for their own sanity, long term problems ke short term solutions nahi nikaal sakte , simple

This time he is way too emotional given that its aboir the love of his life - Mishti , in emotions we take decisions which seem right but practically they might not be viable on long term basis

Yes our legal system is a tough nut to crack , but he is abir rajvansh , who owns an NGO that works for the upliftment of underprivileged women and children , he made an tracker app for government services, his family is influential enough to handle the media and even mishti's family for that matter, they can easily hire a top notch lawyer and medical professional to help her out in the best way possible, arrange security for her , this way also he can protect her , there is no problem in protecting, we are just saying that there are much better long term ways to do that , an opinion thats all

Rahi RV family ke members ki baat, toh let me tell his once and for all , even if mishti will die, they will blame her ghost.... does it really matter to them if abir reveals the truth or not? They are anyways going to blame her

People who are saying ke police , doctors, media , family , questions, legal system in sab se darr ke chup ho ke baith jao , agar saalon pehle draupadi ne tumhari tarah socha hota ke family , legal system , society ke darr se alag hone ke darr se chup hoke sab bhool jaati hun, toh mahabharat hoti ?

If years back maa parvati had decided that I won't fight against the demons because I might lose my dignity, peace, love, life, would she be called Maa Durga ?

Abir is at the moment being all emotional, that's why he is not able to form a straight policy but he is all protective of mishti, putting up his best efforts and I am sure there is more to it diya !

He never disappointed us till date , diya at least I can say this for us , and he won't disappoint us in future too ....

Once again, thank you for this.....bohot saari jhappis and GGCs 🤗👎🏼🤗

Post itna pasand aaya that I liked it 3 times 😆😆

Thank you so much for posting! There are so many things I want to say but no time right now. Will post more soon, but agree with so much of what you've said. Still waiting to see where things go, and just like most here, hasn't changed my love for the character 🤗

Diyuuuuu 🤗🤗

Thank you for penning your emotions down on our Abira ❤️

I completely understand where you are coming from and what you are feeling today... I am pressed for time and still emotionally drained from yesterday, so will have to come back to this over the weekend.

And I cannot not cherish and love Abir, possible hi nahin hai... just that the Mishti in me with a strong sense of right and wrong just needs time to process and make sense of a few things, that's all.

Love you for this

Tbh I didn't find anything wrong in it. He felt dat time d guy died and if police comes mishti will be arrested. He beheaved according to the situation. It was only afterwards when he went to police station he came to know dat due to excess alcohol he died.

His fear abt mishti is also correct. Even if mishti confess d crime. She will be arrested and later d trial , prosecution and all. In d court he has proven her innocence. If not she is going to be jailed even if it was an accident. His concern for her is somewhat correct in its place

All I can say is that "Abir Rajvansh" will rise again! It's just a matter of time! 3 months, they were alone, he did not see the effect of others' interference in Mishti's mental state. Ab toh yahaan stress sir chadke bolta hai, toh Woh jaag Jayega, don't worry...

In the same situation, every person acts in the way, that seems right to them. It might be right or it might be wrong! Knowing Abir, all we can do is not judge him. We all love him yaar. Diya, you yourself told that there is more to the story than being showed yesterday. He showed his worst fear today! Let him also vent out! Let both Mishti and Abir heal together! That's all I can say! Healing is a big penance-like process!so it will take time

Diyuuuu... Time to add few more lines to your post..

Holy your Heera boy made your disappointments and dhuki emotions vanish... See he proves in today's episode that he is indeed a prized possession🤗