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Originally posted by: alina.b

I had a lot of time on my hands this past year because of my gap year and I didn't have much to study

@ B...much or any🤪

Originally posted by: alina.b

I'm not social.....they are the ones who call me or my parents force me to talk to them. I used to be really close to my relatives when I was little and considered them part of my family but as I grew up more cultural differences started showing up...now it's like...I don't want to talk if I feel obligated, I'd rather talk because I WANT to talk to them

This happens to many of us...when we grow up we've our own life and many old habits go away

@Lavy - You don't need to feel embarrassed about missing your friend. This is something I can relate to very well also. Yes, that person may not be in your life anymore, but it is difficult to get rid of those memories. Your poem was beautiful and very heartfelt. All I can say is....It's a huge loss for your former bestie...she lost a really good friend ❤️ Friendships that fall apart can be really hard to get over but at the end of the day you have to think about yourself and see if the friendship is one-sided. It isn't fair is you are the only person trying or holding on because you deserve better than that. I know I shared this a couple days ago but sharing it again as it's my favorite quote

Originally posted by: Isabel

@ B...much or any🤪

Wow...you're in the mood to roast today 😆

Originally posted by: alina.b

@Lavy - You don't need to feel embarrassed about missing your friend. This is something I can relate to very well also. Yes, that person may not be in your life anymore, but it is difficult to get rid of those memories. Your poem was beautiful and very heartfelt. All I can say is....It's a huge loss for your former bestie...she lost a really good friend ❤️ Friendships that fall apart can be really hard to get over but at the end of the day you have to think about yourself and see if the friendship is one-sided. It isn't fair is you are the only person trying or holding on because you deserve better than that. I know I shared this a couple days ago but sharing it again as it's my favorite quote

With the time & need.......many things run away if it's not tied properly at both ends.....quote remember & nice one...

Originally posted by: alina.b

Wow...you're in the mood to roast today 😆

No worry...I'm calm & composed....no roasting.........

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

As I said before it's my former bestie's bday today..TBH all our memories are still crystal clear in my mind... we had been friends for 5 years, until things turned sour.. I will be lying if I say that I don't miss her...I do obviously... I choose to cherish the earlier memories... basically our bond was never strong and her thinking was completely different from mine... she had complains from everyone including her own family... she refused to see the good in others and that's where we lost... it started turning toxic and dark... she would only speak bad about others even about me behind my back...she completely changed in those 5 years... my 4th grade bestie was a different person... she used to enjoy things would listen to me and point out my shortcomings but the latest version was different... I am not blaming her completely... I must have been at fault too but maybe I am unable to see it...whatever the reason is I can't stop my mind from thinking about her, at least today... I penned down my thoughts in a poem today... I don't know if it makes sense!

17! It's a huge number with a sense of responsibility

Hope you find success with clarity

Your smile with those braces

Are memories my heart still embraces

Rem' the day I danced to my fullest

You stood aside and held your own behest

What a lovely day it was

Though you weren't the cause

I stood below the school for you

But you forgot me and exchanged with a few

Was it that easy?

Do I sound cheesy?

The happier ones are better

At least you weren't sombre

I was naive and let my secrets out

Only for you to raise a doubt

The memories will never fade away

In my heart they will always stay

Both of us giggling with the other

Delicate moments they were

Wish you had adapted with the change

And not acted all strange

We would be swimming in the pool

Chilling, beautiful and cool

Forever was replaced with former

Wrong decisions were wider

I'll still cherish the time; it ain't any act

Just a simple fact!

Sorry if I confused you... do ignore it if so😆

I am being senti for no reason...

It's a nice poem...you're a good friend...🤗❤️

Originally posted by: Isabel

No worry...I'm calm & composed....no roasting.........

How are you today?

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Did I miss something?

Yes...you crazy girl trying to say RIP to me........

Originally posted by: alina.b

How are you today?

OK...bud...Just stuck in a meeting....hoping to be out soon.....how...about you?