Why is this not getting easy? : SSR - Page 3

Originally posted by: TakingAStand2

This is such a beautiful post and all those sharing your thoughts/emotions, the biggest hug to all of you!

I still can’t put my thoughts and feelings into words... maybe one day ❤️❤️❤️

Wherever sush is, i am sure ALL your words have touched his soul.

I genuinely get a feeling that whenever I cry thinking about him, he must be around me. Because I do feel a sudden surge of positivity after that which helps me get thru the day.

He was an enlightened soul, and I am sure he would tell me that "our souls are balls of energy that change forms and bodies, just like energy changes its form and shape but cannot be created or destroyed." For all I pray I hope he has attained Moksha, but if he is still around us, we should smile as much as we can and celebrate him, we shouldn't give him pain 🤗

Sorry, I understand what you feel. We all would have felt that emptiness with passing of some one. But we get over that feeling and move on. Unless that person was too close for us, we don't feel empty for weeks.

You don't sound like his die hard fan. You have watched couple of his movies like any of us. But your grief shows, his death has affected your normal life. I don't know the reason why he touched you so deeply. You have called yourself a sensitive person. You sound intelligent and emotional. May be he reminds a part of you. I am not a psychologist. But I hope you are not feeling low or lonely otherwise. If at all you are feeling low, just find one person on whose shoulder you can cry. Someone who can just lend their shoulder and does not ask why you are crying.

I have not been through depression. (I presume so). But I did have a lowest point. On many occasions, I have just cried on my mother’s lap. She did not ask me a thing. May be she understood. May be she did not, but just knew I needed a support. There were several days like that, where I would get angry for no good reason, where I would cry silently. Never shared my pain with any. Days passed. That phase passed too. After that, there have been many springs.

When I look back, I feel whatever happened, happened for good.

My suggestion to those who have gone through the rough phase or seeing someone going through. Have a friend who can lend their shoulder unconditionally. Be such a friend to others. Your silent support matters a lot. Even strong people who don’t get into depression need that support system.

It’s tough but we have to move on

Originally posted by: Ashley.Tisdale

I genuinely get a feeling that whenever I cry thinking about him, he must be around me. Because I do feel a sudden surge of positivity after that which helps me get thru the day.

He was an enlightened soul, and I am sure he would tell me that "our souls are balls of energy that change forms and bodies, just like energy changes its form and shape but cannot be created or destroyed." For all I pray I hope he has attained Moksha, but if he is still around us, we should smile as much as we can and celebrate him, we shouldn't give him pain 🤗

❤️❤️❤️ I think he would have definitely people wanted who loved/appreciated him to celebrate him, and carry his legacy forward to appreciate good movies, his love for science and philosophy.

I know there is no such thing as moving on. When we lose someone we love/admire, the processing of those feelings itself is a journey. There are so many emotions/ thoughts to be digested, just surround yourself with things/activities/people that bring you joy and peace . 🥰🥰 With time, it’ll be easier.

RES

PS: too much to write.. will do it when I collect my thoughts :)

Such a beautiful, touching post and so many great replies

His family seem to be handling this so well, handling it with extraordinary grace under extraordinary grief

You can take inspiration from them

You Penned down even my Emotions so well too. It's the exact story of mine. That BW part articles thing were so true. We thought he might have changed or something. With so many blinds floating u never would think those r fake but🥺

Sushant should have remained in TV. Medium is small but better than BW industry

I like your sincerity. I don't have much to add except that his passing felt like a personal loss even when I wasn't a fan of him and wasn't invested much in him. I have watched most of his films and appreciated him as an actor when he was still with us...I could ascertain his depth by his film choices. I didn't see many other actors who had such passion & dedication towards their work in BW, I admired him for that.

More power and lots of love to you 🤗

Sushant's demise feels personal to so many of us 😭

Hugs for you 🤗

You have penned it beautifully..

The only time I felt pain after a celebrity passed away was Sridevi and I thought I will never such a thing ever again in my life but I was wrong.

SSR’s demise shook me so hard becoz his life story was so much similar to us.. ( general class ) and he died at such a young age