Originally posted by: HearMeRoar
Agree with most except bold.
Because Surya actually tells Kunti the child is not his responsibility before he leaves. My feeling is Kunti contacted said prince's family via Durvasa, and family arranged Athiratha to adopt the baby.
Having a wife and child wouldn't have stopped the prince from marrying Kunti - 2 possibilities.
I think it was Kunti who did not want to marry him and be second wife with no future.she doesnt ask surya for marriage. Only that she cant keep the child as she is not married. She didnt want to have sex with him either. She just used to talk to him as friend and that guy presumed she wanted sex and child and when refused forced himself on her.
1) He was betrothed to a princess from a bigger family and certainly wouldn't want the heir to come from a lower level princess of Kuntibhoj.
Kuntibhoj was mentioned as childless when got Kunti. The most logical explanation would be that get her to marry someone and have child that could become kuntibhoj's heir. Like it was done for santa in anga or chitrangada in manipur. I dont think any marriage with pandu was on cards till Kuntibhoj had his own son. Because if Shurasen made that plan then kuntibhoj will not get a heir. The heir will go to hastinapur. Also I think Shurasen was still king at this time, as he did not give Vasudev his own heir to kuntibhoj. If he had lost everything it would make sense to give vasudev so that he can become king of Kunti
And as he was king and he had absolutely no problem in getting his other daughters married to kings. All kunti's sisters were married to kings of Chedi (who was a puru descendent) Karusha Avanti and Kekaya. Plus Vasudev'a first wife was Bahlika princess Rohini.
There was no need to for him to give pritha to kuntibhoj so that she could marry Pandu. She must have been given as probably a 10 yr old kid. No one would have made any plans for her at the time
I think once Kunti bhoj had his son. He ignored Pritha completely. As if she didnt even exist. I think that was why she was angry with shurasen and vasudev. He doesnt even bother about her marriage, or look for grooms. He just waits for someone to come with proposal. Till I guess he gets pressured by Durvasa to organize her swayamvar. That she chose Pandu is most likely on durvasa's advice or training. HP was one of the largest kingdoms of the time. Pandu's impotency was not known yet.
2) Kunti was expected to marry Pandu, swayamvar or not. Perhaps that was one of the reasons behind her adoption. She would officially be kshatriya and could marry Pandu, this creating an alliance between Kurus and Yadavas. One of the things HV mentions are the 3 families where gods supposedly took birth - Kuru, Panchala, and Yadava.
Shukracharya had ensured that Yadavas will be called Kshtriya not suta. If Kunti had been already decided for Pandu, swayamvar was not needed and if needed at all would have been done as soon as she turned 16.
Krishna was called a cowherd because Vasudev could not become king. Because Vasudev became a vaishya and tended cattle after Ugrasen andhaka usurped his father's throne. And ofcourse Krishna Balram were raised as cowherds at Vrindavan. Shurasen was a king. No king had problems taking Shurasen's daughters as wives. Chedi were Puru. Karusha were suryavanshi I think. Have to check. Kekaya ofcourse were suta. And avanti Yadava.
It was like Karna being called son of charioteer only fit for using whip. Same way because Vasudev tended cattle people called Krishna cowherd