DO BOL -2019 - Page 2

i just couldn't get into the show, i hated most characters..including Badar..

Originally posted by: awida

I loved reading these analysis on Do Bol. I can read about Gaiti and Badar for the rest of my life without feeling bored. They are my favorite couple, and I can't remember how many times I rewatched their scenes.

Waiting for your take on Badar .😉

Awida, thank you for the confidence❤️. Hope your Eid is good and peaceful.

I already wrote my take on Badar in the first page. Do let me know what you think. Please know that I get carried away sometimes. Please give me some recommendations, yaar.

Nice, soulful and intense stories, like happy endings. Tragedies ko toh meri dil nahin le sakti. I tried to watch the one you told me before, Aap ke liye, I couldn't handle that heroine. I got irritated whenever she opened her mouth. I quit😳.

Originally posted by: mili9

Thanks my friend, is this another show? BTW, I am Mili.

I didn't perceive Sameer as an unfortunate guy, but more of a guy who took time to react, weighed his pros and cons, even when she was in neck deep of trouble. He couldn't bear his perceived humiliation of Gaiti choosing to stay with Badar, uske anaa ko bahut thes pahunchi and so he went for the kill. Eenie, meanie, mynie, moe doesn't cut it na, when lives are in danger🤔I may be wrong, but simply couldn't stand the guy at anytime during the show😎Kya karun!!!!

yup its another show of Hira mani and Affan

I found sameer badkismat because everytime he was late.Uski train humesha nikal jaati thi 😆

PS- Are you from india?? Because I'm 😃

Originally posted by: mili9

OK, now about Badar. Pardon my ignorance, I have recently started watching the Pakistani shows. I do not know this actor, at a first glance, I didn't like this actor, he is unimpressive in appearance with the exception of a good voice. Ashamed of myself to have to say this, judging people by physical appearances.

I am blown away by Badar, but more so by this actor who had so convincingly portrayed his role from a worker to a guy who the girl couldn't live without❤️By the middle of the show, he is no longer a physically inept looking guy to me, but a guy who is completely worthy of her. Kudos to the writer and the director who created that slow and realistic transformation for him and especially kudos to the actor who breathed life into the character and made Badar a living, breathing phenomenon👏Amazing.

Loved everything about Badar. The guy is a fighter and I love fighters, even if they fall on their face, as long as they don't give up. The guy simply would go head on into any trouble when it comes to Gaiti, her comfort or her dignity. He tried to give her the same dignity she had at her father's house within his means. He shielded her from his own mother and sister, while he got mocked for doing so all the time. This must be the most difficult thing for any guy in the best of circumstances, even if the wife reciprocates his feelings. Imagine how much cover up he had to do for Gaiti who is explosive, irritated and didn't shy away from showing her disgust at him, his surroundings and his familyOf course, she is immature, but uska family ( his mother ) doesn't need to understand her na? And physically, this guy is half of Zafar, Jamshed or the gundas, but doesn't think twice as he head butts with them. It is truly refreshing to see such immense care and love for a girl which raises his protective instincts for her. For once, the guy is on the receiving end as a "poor guy " from the girl and her family instead of the girl always being blamed as a chaalaq, poor girl with doris on a rich guy👍🏼Thank you for that role reversal.

I could even understand his lies about Gaiti's philandering to Sameer guy. He is desperate, he is trying to lose the Sameer guy👍🏼. He didn't spread them anywhere else. I don't like it, or approve of, but I can understand his point of view if I twist myself. Desperate circumstances lead to desperate measures and this is one of them. He whole-heartedly succumbs himself to all of her humiliation, her anger as if this is a normal thing for her to do and that he is glad he is there to take her fall when she is in difficult circumstances😭. My heart went out for this guy, who wishes for her well being despite all that she doles out for him, bilkul saaf dil se🤗

The only part I didn't like is in the last few episodes, the writer confused me with his shak wali actions- listening to her phone calls, or probing her about her phone calls and explanation about Sameer and her in the photograph👎🏼Of all the people, he should know that Gaiti is not a person who would shy away from telling him what is on her mind. She may or may not be forthcoming with others, but with Badar, she would have🤔He got the bitter truth from her always. I think if he only focused on if this true love for Badar or is she warming up because he was there for her when she was besahara on the roads would have been a treat to watch👍🏼.Instead, the writer made him into a confusing mess, an average mard with shak. Why? This guy who knew everything about her history didn't shakfy on her at anytime. So, why now?

My heart is so full watching this show. Can I also rave about that background song🤗It is so soulful.

Those of you who watched, please let me know your thoughts. I understand, I may be late to the party. For those who haven't I highly recommend watching this , stress free, pure and authentic wale feelings which we don't see as much these days❤️

Girls, please give me some suggestions of intense shows like this. But, I can't take tragedies and sad endings. Pakistani shows are breaking my heart in the end, if I am not careful and selective. YouTube recommendations are good but I have to do investigate before I commit myself😃

You summed up badar's character so well. He is one of my most favorite character. That shak part was useless but still i enjoyed watching it.

Do watch mere humdum mere dost

Dilagi

Originally posted by: awida

I loved reading these analysis on Do Bol. I can read about Gaiti and Badar for the rest of my life without feeling bored. They are my favorite couple, and I can't remember how many times I rewatched their scenes.

Waiting for your take on Badar .😉

Same here 😳

Originally posted by: mili9

Thank you Nina. Ditto, ditto. Oh ! Do bol is about Nikkah😲I didn't even get it even though I loved the show and just wrote a book on this forum.

Agree completely about Gaiti and Badar🤗These two need to be bubble wrapped and put away.

They are one of my most favorite couple

BTW, I forgot to mention I also liked Lateef, the witty guy, such a gem of a friend with great advice. Especially, where he warns Badar not to take advantage of his position as the husband, the guy had my heart

Yup he was a true friend of badar who always gave him right advice and even in last he got engaged with his chutail bhen lol 😆

Please give me some suggestions for good shows my friend, intense love stories ( cheezy bhi chalta hain ), but no sad endings. Prefer if the shows are finished, so I don't have to walk around like a ticking time bomb waiting for next episodes etc. 😃

Watch mere humdum mere dost, dilagi, besharam, app k liye

Originally posted by: mili9

Awida, thank you for the confidence❤️. Hope your Eid is good and peaceful.

I already wrote my take on Badar in the first page. Do let me know what you think. Please know that I get carried away sometimes.

Oh , yes. How did I miss it?😲 It is so beautifull. I felt the same when I watched Affan Waheed for the first time. But after watching him acting I started feeling like he is a part of my family. 😆 Badar is my fav character from this drama. I felt for him throughout the drama more than anyone else.❤️ As for shakk part. I don't think he really doubted her. He just needes some answers, needed her to open her heart for him, and tell him what was going on. 🤓 like any husband who wants to feel that his wife trusts him enough to tell him about her secrets.😊

Please give me some recommendations, yaar.

Nice, soulful and intense stories, like happy endings. Tragedies ko toh meri dil nahin le sakti. I tried to watch the one you told me before, Aap ke liye, I couldn't handle that heroine. I got irritated whenever she opened her mouth. I quit😳.

Well. Sarwat Nazeer ..the writer of Do Bol wrote another wonderfull drama: Besharam. You'll love to follow the story of Haidar and Mashal . The chemistry between its leads is electrifying.

If you want something different. The opposite of Do Bol. With a rich and imperfect male lead whom you'll think it is impossible that he'll fall for the ordinary poor girl.. then go for Hum tv drama : Lamhay.

Originally posted by: awida

Well. Sarwat Nazeer ..the writer of Do Bol wrote another wonderfull drama: Besharam. You'll love to follow the story of Haidar and Mashal . The chemistry between its leads is electrifying.

If you want something different. The opposite of Do Bol. With a rich and imperfect male lead whom you'll think it is impossible that he'll fall for the ordinary poor girl.. then go for Hum tv drama : Lamhay.

besharam is my favorite and i just love saba qamar ❤️

Originally posted by: TC_FA

yup its another show of Hira mani and Affan

I found sameer badkismat because everytime he was late.Uski train humesha nikal jaati thi 😆

PS- Are you from india?? Because I'm 😃

Thank you for that info. I will stay away from that one then.

Sameer guy toh , mat pucho🤢👎🏼Moping on the bed all the time is too much for me to handle. I am not saying a guy can't be depressed, far from it, but koi bhi fight nahin hain.

Then, I ask myself, why don't I like it when he is insistent towards the end while harassing her. While I liked Badar's persistence👍🏼. I think the answer is that Sameer guy is in her face, so to speak and bothered her into doing things she is not comfortable doing. While Badar remained in the back ground as an available support for her while letting her figure out her status, whether she wanted to mourn her loss, come to terms with reality, angry with the world or her family, he was there to absorb her fall and every emotion of hers. Yeh hota hain na real courage👏, not somebody who bellows from the roof tops and shows bravado.

Yes, my dear, from India. But, living in the US for over a decade. I am loving the Pakistani shows for no melodrama, more realistic, pure emotions and their simplicity. They are daring to show a guy take all kinds of crap from a girl❤️. Must be really big for a paternalistic societies such as ours. This is so refreshing. This is the typical desi in me, jasbaathon ko choo karni hain, not some bone crushing hugs and beyond in the name of romance. OK, bahut hogaya from me😃

Have a good day!

Originally posted by: _NINA_

You summed up badar's character so well. He is one of my most favorite character. That shak part was useless but still i enjoyed watching it.

Do watch mere humdum mere dost

Dilagi

Thanks for these recommendations. Watched both of them. After humsafar on Netflix, mere humdum mere dost is my first show on YouTube. What an amazing show! I can write books on that show too. Haider, another favorite character of mine in that show. We can discuss that show sometime if anyone is interested.

I watched Dillagi too, banged my head on the wall with the logic of that heroine. The hero and his mom are the best in that show👍🏼.