Ek Duje Ke Vaaste 2|Chat Club#5 - Page 69

Originally posted by: Isabel

👍🏼..............great..............I like Taio cruz's voice........

I love to hear music.................... I always have something running........it's a problem to hear nowadays for virtual meetings...but I squeeze in............I'm listening now......

DJ Got Us Falling in Love - Usher Lyrics ft. Pitbull

OMG I'M SO EXCITED RIGHT NOW...I LIKE THAT SONG TOO! We literally have the same music taste! I like to listen to music when I study and drive. I can't drive without music...too quiet. LOL I kinda wanna share my spotify playlist with you now 😆

Originally posted by: Isabel

I do forgive people..easily........life is too short to have a nasty event to remember forever...........what I keep hang on is commitment.......that's something I'm serious...........now I have a bunch of calls..........planning to make my own dinner............don't like to bother people.............

Hmm that's very interesting...especially about commitment. I guess I feel like people are temporary because we move on in life from high school to college to more in life so I'm not very "committed" to people because I know they can't be with me in every stage of life. Sometimes, it's best to leave certain people behind because they inhibit your growth.

So one of my biggest shortcomings is that I hold grudges...not on small things but once in a while someone will say or do something that really hurts my feelings and I just can't forget it. No matter how much that person apologizes or "tries to change", I can't forgive them. So, I guess in this sense I am immature. But, I don't see this as a bad thing because it makes me realize who is a toxic person in my life and I cut them out. You give people multiple chances, but they never change and they think a sorry can fix it every time but it just means that they don't respect you so it's best to let them go.

Originally posted by: alina.b

OMG I'M SO EXCITED RIGHT NOW...I LIKE THAT SONG TOO! We literally have the same music taste! I like to listen to music when I study and drive. I can't drive without music...too quiet. LOL I kinda wanna share my spotify playlist with you now 😆

Glad to know your excitement.....Great!!!!!!!! Let us do that.........👏

Originally posted by: alina.b

Hmm that's very interesting...especially about commitment. I guess I feel like people are temporary because we move on in life from high school to college to more in life so I'm not very "committed" to people because I know they can't be with me in every stage of life. Sometimes, it's best to leave certain people behind because they inhibit your growth.

So one of my biggest shortcomings is that I hold grudges...not on small things but once in a while someone will say or do something that really hurts my feelings and I just can't forget it. No matter how much that person apologizes or "tries to change", I can't forgive them. So, I guess in this sense I am immature. But, I don't see this as a bad thing because it makes me realize who is a toxic person in my life and I cut them out. You give people multiple chances, but they never change and they think a sorry can fix it every time but it just means that they don't respect you so it's best to let them go.

It's OK to have different views about same thing........everyone is not permanent and everything is not temporary either but agree staying away from toxic individuals are best things to do.......we all need to move on with the time..........

Originally posted by: alina.b

Hmm that's very interesting...especially about commitment. I guess I feel like people are temporary because we move on in life from high school to college to more in life so I'm not very "committed" to people because I know they can't be with me in every stage of life. Sometimes, it's best to leave certain people behind because they inhibit your growth.

So one of my biggest shortcomings is that I hold grudges...not on small things but once in a while someone will say or do something that really hurts my feelings and I just can't forget it. No matter how much that person apologizes or "tries to change", I can't forgive them. So, I guess in this sense I am immature. But, I don't see this as a bad thing because it makes me realize who is a toxic person in my life and I cut them out. You give people multiple chances, but they never change and they think a sorry can fix it every time but it just means that they don't respect you so it's best to let them go.

Are you sleeping or having late dinner?...............

Originally posted by: Meena_J

I'm watching Lucifer...

Thank you....I'll check on that...........

Originally posted by: Isabel

Glad to know your excitement.....Great!!!!!!!! Let us do that.........👏

cool! I will send you the link!

Originally posted by: Isabel

It's OK to have different views about same thing........everyone is not permanent and everything is not temporary either but agree staying away from toxic individuals are best things to do.......we all need to move on with the time..........

You're right it's never one or the other...it's in between! But yes...toxic people are just too draining. Unfortunatley I've had a couple of them...it's hard to let go but it's for the best. But, on the other hand you meet some really good people who end up being your friends for a really long time!

Originally posted by: Isabel

Are you sleeping or having late dinner?...............

Uhh...so I actually went to meet my best friend since I'm moving and I don't know when I'll see her again. But, we maintained social distancing to the best of our ability. I finally ate out for the first time in 3 months. It felt good to see her again and just talk about life. I told her about you, Lavy, Bucky, Mishti, Vagee 😆 and then I realized that you are actually very similar to her...she's also very sassy and the only person who can handle my dramatic personality

Originally posted by: alina.b

cool! I will send you the link!

You're right it's never one or the other...it's in between! But yes...toxic people are just too draining.

Everything is not black & white........there is something in between also called grey..... that feeling guess come with the time............. I still get that shock when I need to understand that grey part...........

Originally posted by: Isabel

Everything is not black & white........there is something in between also called grey..... that feeling guess come with the time............. I still get that shock when I need to understand that grey part...........

Nah...I know what you mean...sometimes I tend to have tunnel vision but after meeting up with my best friend today I realized that not all friends are temporary. Basically she said something along the line of that even though we will be really far from each other (this is the first time in 5 years that we will be away from each other) that I should never think I'm alone because she'll always be there for me....I literally almost cried