Originally posted by: Isabel
I do forgive people..easily........life is too short to have a nasty event to remember forever...........what I keep hang on is commitment.......that's something I'm serious...........now I have a bunch of calls..........planning to make my own dinner............don't like to bother people.............
Hmm that's very interesting...especially about commitment. I guess I feel like people are temporary because we move on in life from high school to college to more in life so I'm not very "committed" to people because I know they can't be with me in every stage of life. Sometimes, it's best to leave certain people behind because they inhibit your growth.
So one of my biggest shortcomings is that I hold grudges...not on small things but once in a while someone will say or do something that really hurts my feelings and I just can't forget it. No matter how much that person apologizes or "tries to change", I can't forgive them. So, I guess in this sense I am immature. But, I don't see this as a bad thing because it makes me realize who is a toxic person in my life and I cut them out. You give people multiple chances, but they never change and they think a sorry can fix it every time but it just means that they don't respect you so it's best to let them go.
Edited by alina.b - 5 years ago
